What have you learned from a divorce?

Answer 1

I have learned several things after divorce. first is stress. you find being stress for what led to divorce, your kids, the drama they go through, and there future. You think allot of all the problems you had in your marriage life, relate if you had made a positive/ advantageous move or not, just comparing positive against negatives. Its been a positive sign to me financially, able to settle down, focus positively without any interference/limitation although I do feel lonely but am happy. As time goes by I will over come stress.
I learned that once you divorce, you don't forget all the episode of you marriage even if s/he treated you badly. Sometimes you tend to have a heart of forgiveness or reconciliation with hope that things would have been better for the sake of you children but some things we can't have no control of.
I have learned that when you start dating, you always remember you ex in bed etc sometimes you fear if you had made the same mistake for dating someone who will eventually turn to be like your ex, So I have learned to face the facts, deal with the facts, accept the facts and move on with life. Don't just stay there too long

Answer 2

I have learned that nothing in life is certain and that things you once thought were brick-solid can change in the blink of an eye. I have learned that I am human and subject to fault at any moment. I have learned that until death, life is not over and that hope springs eternal. I have learned that I am worthy of a second chance. I am in the process of learning to love myself more so that I will be able to love someone else.

Answer 3

I learned that when going through a divorce you face the same emotional stages as one does with the stages of dying from disease or from the grief of a loss. The stages are denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance. Just like suffering from a life-threatening disease or the death of a loved one, you must constantly be vigil about working toward the healing process.

Answer 4

I have just been divorced for 6 months. I know that women should not give up their lives or their own thoughts or feelings. I embraced everything he liked and gave up some of my own enjoyments. Stupid!!
You should each have your own friends and then your couple friends.
Women-you have to protect yourselves-have your own bank account and retirement. Don't rely on the man 100%. Be your own person-make sure you can take care of yourself if something should happen.

Answer 5

divorce made me learn that when u meet a man /women they are so lovely , then when they get your body they change a bit then when you get married they change a bit more after 10 years you do not know that person u married .what i have learnt from a divorce is live with someone for about6 years b4 u marry them have your own mind and dont be a slave like i am and was .

Answer 6

That the main reason of divorce is marriage.

I'm still confused about everything, it's been too recent.

I guess I learned that I want to stay away from passive agressive types. They'll never change and make your life miserable cause you keep trying to make them happy but you keep failing because they won't even tell you what's wrong.

Answer 7

Two.....Long long time ago................!!!

To avoid 3rd divorce:
Don't get married again
Only go out with already-married woman
(Not Very Smart!!!)
Keep relationships more 'friendly', than 'serious'
(very unlikely)

Enjoy life with EVERYBODY...!!!

Merry Christmas a Happy New Year To everyone...!!!

Answer 8

Marriage is a selfless commitement that takes practice, work, and forebearence. But, for a marriage to work, both party's need to have the same outlook on the institution of marriage, and, simlar expectaions about their life together. Women need to feel loved, men, need to have respect.

Answer 9

Don't get married until you are 30 years old! Don't have kids for the first 5 years.

Answer 10

Not divorced quite yet, but will probably have learnt never to get married again!