Do you have an open relationship with your spouse? If so, why? I don't agree with this but I just want to hear some of your views on this. Thanks.
2007-12-22 20:54:00 · 11 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why HELL no! Anyone that does agree shouldn't be "married" in the first place. My god,thats the reason for the marriage in the beginning, so you will only be true to just that one. . .Let me find it out, I would be worse than Lorena Bobbit, I wouldn't just cut it off, I would make his *** a stir fry with it. . .with losts of vegetables. . .
2007-12-22 22:23:43 · answer #1 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
We are a couple in mid to late 40's. Been together 5 years, 2 as domestic partners.
This man is my best friend. He is a wonderful partner and he has a very healthy sex drive.
I've always told him if one day he thought he might get lucky, to go for it. He always expressed an interest in a threesome. So we kinda have conversations about if there was a hot chick and we all wanted to play and how it would make me jealous, I know, but how hot it would be to see him put the moves on her the way he does with me.
Then we turn it around and fantasize about what it would be like if the hot chick was really a hot dude.
So far, it's all very arousing conversation. No action. He says if it never happened he'd be happy just knowing he had an option. And he does.
I can give him the option to have me participate in his fantasies, or I can get closed minded and give him the option to cheat on me.
Neither of us have any intention of forfeiting our home, or our family....my kids are 20,18, and 14 and his are 18, 16, and 14 and we Are Famliy....over sex.
The brute honesty of being able to look at each other and admit to each other that we are sexual beings is huge. For us, it sets our relationship on a higher level. We aren't threatened by each other's sexuality.
Just my take.
Have a very Merry Christmas, dear...
and God bless you and yours.
2007-12-23 11:33:56 · answer #2 · answered by Puresnow 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't think I could have an "open" relationship.
I think why be married if your always with someone else, just date. Marriage is something special, plus I would have to open a can of whoop a$$ on a chick if she tried that on my man!
2007-12-23 06:02:29 · answer #3 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
certainly not.
if my husband wanted to cheat then he would have to move on. As with cheating he is giving a bit of his heart to that person. Also while he is out cheating he is taken away from where he should be and that is at home with his family
2007-12-23 06:26:50 · answer #4 · answered by spanneroi 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. I'm a jealous broad, I want him all to myself!
Goes both ways though. He doesn't allow me to cheat either, not that I would ever want to because he's pretty fantastic.
2007-12-23 05:04:21 · answer #5 · answered by Hamlette 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
No relationship can ever survive being 'open' One of my friends once had this kind of relationship and it nearly killed her.
2007-12-23 05:06:30 · answer #6 · answered by shaunie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
nope not good .....en less your marriage is over and your around for the kids then maybe ...
2007-12-23 04:58:31 · answer #7 · answered by just bored 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Not even.
2007-12-23 05:44:47 · answer #8 · answered by Linni 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO, not into sharing.
2007-12-23 08:05:16 · answer #9 · answered by deerlady2000 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
no freakin way
2007-12-23 06:24:16 · answer #10 · answered by onenonlymanna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋