2007-12-22 17:47:04 · 21 answers · asked by boxnndatol22 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, you're both at fault if you know he's married.
2007-12-22 17:50:27 · answer #1 · answered by I ♥ Penguins 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How would the man be more at fault..you knew he was married..just like he knew..he was married..if you choose to sneak out with him..then you are at fault for the choice..you made...just like he is at fault for the choice..he made..He may have asked you to sneak out with him..You had the choice to tell him no..so if you said yes.. then you are as much at fault as he is!!!
2007-12-23 02:19:44 · answer #2 · answered by noga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I put the sole responsibility on the man. He was the one who made a commitment to be faithful, it is his responsibility to stay faithful. Also, married men typically lie and convince the mistress that the wife is having an affair/cold/unattractive/mean/disabled/whatever, so that he doesn't look like the bad guy.
I wouldn't ever get involved with a married man, personally, but honestly, its up to the spouse, since they are the person who made the commitment.
Although, sometimes, a wife will deserve to be cheated on, because she was the other woman with her now husband, and it's really her own karma.
2007-12-23 02:06:56 · answer #3 · answered by jedimorgana 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You knew he was married, so you did it anyway. He of course knew it was wrong and did it anyway. You are both at fault.
The only time I would say you were not at fault is if he did not tell you he was married and then you went to meet up somewhere. Then he would be at fault.
2007-12-23 01:54:17 · answer #4 · answered by giveu2tictacs 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Both of them are wrong but I do think that it is more the mans fault. He is the one that took vows and made promises to his wife. He is the one breaking those promises.
2007-12-23 03:31:42 · answer #5 · answered by kim h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are both at fault especially if you know that he is married. He is the one who is breaking his vows and you are the homewrecker who is helping him to do this.
2007-12-23 04:17:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i presume you are referring to adultery.? i don't understand your usage of "fault". are you also married? has he gotten any at home in the last year? people's lives run down different roads. we do things for different reasons. YOU have to be true to YOU first. not be so concerned about blaming another. you know, personal responsibility.
2007-12-23 02:26:00 · answer #7 · answered by spokinword 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both people are equally at fault.
2007-12-23 01:51:03 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Generally speaking Yes.
But the real question is... Why would i be hanging with a married man???
2007-12-23 19:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by stayc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both are at fault if you know he's married.
Joy to you!
2007-12-23 02:18:33 · answer #10 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋