I want to buy my wife some Lingerie for x mas but not sure if she will think its more for me than for her. what do you ladies think??
i really want to see her in it. shes really attractive and hot but isnt into the sexy stuff.
2007-12-22 22:15:21 · 14 answers · asked by jessy l 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
buying lingerie is great...but you better get her something else too...like jewelry. You don't want her to think her gift is only a gift for you. If she's not into lingerie the don't go for the craziest item. Start out low key and build up to the sexier stuff. Is there anything that she has wanted you to wear??? If so, get that too
2007-12-22 22:37:53 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great that you think your wife is really attractive and hot... she should be flattered that you see her that way and would like to buy her some nice lingerie.
Perhaps rather than go 'all out' by getting her really sexy lingerie (the naughty stuff) you could start off by buying her nice lingerie (slinky and pretty) that would not make her feel too self conscious...and yet still sexy.
I'm sure if you tell her how attractive you find her, and how you think she needs to show off her sexy self more, she should be thrilled.
I know I would be!!!
2007-12-23 06:22:37 · answer #2 · answered by familyties 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my fiance bought me lingerie, I would think that it's more for him than it is for me because I'm not into wearing lingerie. If your wife is like me, and doesn't really feel comfortable in it, or feels sexier when she's wearing one of your old t-shirts and a pair of cotton panties, then lingerie as a Christmas gift probably isn't a good idea.
Then you get into the problem of getting the wrong size, and that could be a mess. i would suggest getting her something else.
2007-12-23 06:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by Been here before 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hard to say, I like lingerie being bought for me....but it must be practical....something I can wear on a daily basis, not just something to put on to get freaky.
My X for all his bad, was good at buying lingerie. He'd buy me really sexy, lacy panties. Bras he couldn't buy because I'm so top heavy, I have try them on. One year he bought me some of the lacy boy shorts from VS. I'm a thong girl, but those boy shorts were comfy! So if he hadn't of bought them, I never would have known.
2007-12-23 06:21:44 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as it is not your only gift. make sure you get her what she would like and then maybe a gift certificate to a lingerae store. make sure you let her know you would like to go with her when she picks it out. In marriage. there is nothing wrong with wanting your mate to look attractive and wear some thing sexy.
2007-12-23 06:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by Jesus is the best. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh gosh no!
Christmas comes once a year, make it special by thinking of what SHE wants.
You can buy it for her for New Years, or YOUR birthday, or most other days of the year, if you must.
Honestly though, I don't recommend it if she is not into it. A lot of lingerie is actually uncomfortable and cheap. It IS for you, and maybe one day SHE will buy it to please you... but it's tacky to pressure her into it.
2007-12-23 06:28:37 · answer #6 · answered by ladyquesteur 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long r u 2 married?? The more u watch her attentively the more u learn about her figure & also her mind. So do it first then U will be able to take decision by ur self.
2007-12-23 06:20:04 · answer #7 · answered by Junun 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I t is perfectly fine as long as it's not the only gift. Every married couple wants a good sex life she will be fine with it have a good holiday don't forget diamonds!
2007-12-23 09:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her the lingerie and buy a piece of jewlery as well
2007-12-23 06:21:48 · answer #9 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she will like it. but only if she ask tell her that she looks really hot and she should show it to u. if u told her that she was pretty alot or everyday she wouldnt mind, but if u dont then she might think u r getting 4urself.
2007-12-23 15:09:57 · answer #10 · answered by Katrina B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋