Marriage & Divorce - 23 December 2007

Todays indian woman enjoys a lot of legal protection and legal rights which the earlier generation of indian woman could only dream of, has this changed the psyche of the indian woman for the better or for the worse ? Express your views on the changing family values of indian woman ?

2007-12-23 23:47:56 · 11 answers · asked by Pramod R 4

He has some friends who are totally useless, they call him out to drink! there is nothingelse they call him for. I dont like them. they are not even to his standard.
I have tried telling 2 of his friends about what happens when he come home from drinking, they told me- dont worry we wont call him out anymore which lasted for 1 week only and after that they keep calling him out.
I just dont understand why he has to go out and drink with his friends. I have tried to stop him by blackmailing him to choose which he wants.. his wife or alcohol.. but still after few days he is back to drinking.
Can someone tell me some trick that i can use on him.

2007-12-23 23:36:42 · 40 answers · asked by DJ 2

2007-12-23 23:27:39 · 14 answers · asked by Angela G 1

I think I may be Bipolar I know that I need professional help. The cycle I go through is this. I will be fine and then I will start arguing with my wife and in the heat of the argument I will start thinking what are some things that I can say to her that will make her feel like crap. Now as I am thinking these things the argument is still on going and then I start to say the things that I thought of to hurt her now as I am saying this I start to say to myself you need to stop its not right but I cant stop myself and I say it and then she starts to cry and I have mentally abused her again like I said I know I need help I am just asking on here because I would like to know if anyone has any advice or tips or maybe even a preliminary diagnosis for me so I can see what I am up against.

2007-12-23 23:13:59 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfriend who is of Indian background with parents living in India, will not tell his parents that we are in a relationship. I have met them, but he introduced me as a friend. He says that he wants to finish his studies before telling them, as otherwise they would blame him for not studying well, on the relationship. He has told his friends in India about me, but hasn't really allowed me to interact with them, which he says is because of the fact that he hardly talks to them himself and sees no point in me just talking on the phone with them.
We have been dating for more than 1.5 years and have talked about marriage and kids. He says he can only tell them just before he gets married to me...which is similar to my situation too. The only reason why my parents found out, was because they saw me and him together.
Does anyone have any idea what is going on his mind?
Especially anyone of an Indian background? I'm not an Indian, but from the subcontinent myself.

2007-12-23 22:49:53 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you be happy if your husband pampered your feet for a whole evening? a pedicure, massage, kissing, the works?

2007-12-23 22:45:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

I want to live as Ghar Jamai.
Is it will be good for me and my wife?
Where I can find this type of proposal?

2007-12-23 22:11:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been overewieght since i met my husband. But we fell in love n married. But he doesn't find me sexy. I bought sexy underwear for our wedding night and week..which he didnt even notice! He never kisses my body..and tries not to even touch me when im naked. I have huge boobs..and he wouldn't go near them either.When I asked him about all this, he said he didn't like bib boobs! He likes little pert ones.After this he reassured me loved me and tried to give my boobs more attention! Then I catch him on the net looking at porn...skinny girls....and teenagers! As if I dont feel ugly enough. Before I met him, I felt sexy n gorgeous. Now i feel that Im an ugly wife. I dont act on my sexual urges because i think inside me will just be laughing at my ugly body...or be feeling disgusted with me. I dont know what to do..or how to feel. Iv told him all this, but i got no empathy.At times i love him....but inside i am so hurt and angry that he's killed the sexy woman inside of me. Any advice?

2007-12-23 22:09:07 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

It's been so long since the man I am married to made me feel alive. He is a good provider. All of the *things* I could want are around me. My children are well taken care of and happy. But, it's been nearly 6 years since he has acted like I am a human being. I am alone in my house. The last time we had sex, he stopped...mid-everything....and said that he was tired. I have become my OWN best friend in bed...I love someone...but that's a sad situation too...I guess I just wanted to know...is this really all I have to look forward to? YES, I have tried talking to him, seeing a counselor, etc. I take VERY good care of myself and look FAR younger than most women my age. (My 18 y.o. daughter and I get hit on by the same guys!!) I have tried being more *assertive* and *adventurous*...but, I guess I gave up and figured I would just wait it all out until the end. I guess my vows never said anything about him touching me...

2007-12-23 22:07:35 · 15 answers · asked by SG68 1

2007-12-23 21:54:21 · 10 answers · asked by Lindylu 3

i am going through a daforce, here is the kicker. i cant get her out of the house and i am the only one whats on the note. she is running late on the payments and has killed my credit. she put a restring order on me and said a whole bunch of things that arnt true, i pay my chils support on time and every time wich is 1400 a month, she got rid of all my guns and hunting clothes. got rid of my lap top, i cant see my kids, they think i just left them, can the judges see through any of the bs. or do we just count on being done wrong? how can i get her out of my house so i can sell it?

2007-12-23 21:52:44 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

My ex-boyfriend broke up with me few months ago. It was hard break up cos I didnt want to break up. He didnt want to continue our long-distance relationship and ended it. But he kept contacting me telling me he finds it hard, he misses me. He was angry when I told him that the only way I can get over this is to stop contact.We met twice since the break up, it was very nice but each time he left, he said as long as we are in long-distance, we cant be together. It was always so hard to see him, to be with him and then seeing him go again. month ago, he contacted me againg saying he finds it hard and he still loves me. I felt the same but then he said we cannot be together because the situation is still the same. I told him I must close the door as its too hard as I still love him. But he sent me email 2 days ago saying he finds it hard, he misses me and is not sure he wants to move on. He doesnt want me to think he doesnt want me anymore. Wanted to wish me Merry Xmas. I didnt reply yet.

2007-12-23 21:21:27 · 13 answers · asked by Elisa N 1

iam 24years old n am married 2years ago.iam blessed with a cute kid last year.am gettin frustrated sitting at home no work only looking after my baby all de time no time for myself.n so getting irritated now n then.wat should i do?I really need a break

2007-12-23 21:15:32 · 7 answers · asked by J lo 1

They're doing it openly on their Facebook accounts, and she knows he's married, so it's not like it's a secret affair or something. But I feel really pissed off... am I too possessive of him?

2007-12-23 21:14:45 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been married for over a yr and i can say that i'm happy my husband is great and i love him he's nice and i love his fam... i love the way that he treats me with respect and gentleness... but i can't seen to forget my x i've tried to do that but i doesn't work i could go on without a wk then puff i remember him either a song and little phrase that i hear it reminds me of him....but i love my husband why can't i forget my x..and this just happens when i'm with myself when no one is around out of the no where i find myself thinking what's he doing or if he's ok...but when i'm with my husband my mind doesn't even cross by him why is that???????please help me

2007-12-23 21:09:06 · 3 answers · asked by rosalinda 1

He works 2nd shift. he usually gets out at 12 a.m. but tonight he called around 1 and told me that his car started acting funny and that he was going to spend the night over at his friends house. he knew that i would not be able to go pick him up because we have a 1 year old that has a cold right now and its freezing outside. the really shady part is that he told me that he needs to go into work tomorrow morning which is suspicious because tomorrow is the 24th and a lot of corporate places arent even open tomorrow. it all seems a bit not quite right to me, so am i just being a crazy overreacting wife or do you think that he is doing something bad?

2007-12-23 20:44:07 · 38 answers · asked by bubulubu 2

If so, then do you stop cheating or continue and hope you don't get caught? Or does the guilt keep you awake at night and then you confess?

2007-12-23 20:22:34 · 8 answers · asked by sunoverla 2

told you that:

He wants separation and he has been talking with another woman on the phone for 2 months and has affection towards her even though they have no dating. He is physical/mental collapsed towards existing marriage and he want a new life.

2007-12-23 20:08:51 · 21 answers · asked by TT 2

2007-12-23 20:04:15 · 13 answers · asked by Alessandra 1

creamy . very mouth watering!

2007-12-23 19:52:36 · 4 answers · asked by Angel L 3

as in 20 years ago but the emotional scars still exist is it grounds to leave now? The man in question has not returned to aggressive behaviour but is and has been on anti depressants for many many years is this just blanking the real issues. What advice would you give to a friend married 26 years with this background.....she stayed for the children and has a financially secure life but still there is a discontent.

2007-12-23 19:42:58 · 14 answers · asked by eagledreams 6

You all are correct. What I've concluded is that it's either his security or mine. As I said before, I shouldn't have to give up my house to keep my husband. He's not a deadbeat dad, he is paying for our child....fortunately. But I think that I should ask him to take his pick....me or a house with his name on it. What do you all think?

2007-12-23 19:41:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please have a heart for just one year?

2007-12-23 19:04:20 · 11 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5

My Boyfriend and I have been together for three years and have known one another since we were 12 years old. Well We were engaged which I called it off cause he cheated, thinking he would stop the games I stayed with him. We have been through everything with each other. Well I had a guy friend whom happened to be black and since my boyfriend was ignoring me and pushing me away i started building a stronger friendship with one of my guy friends. Well one night I had told him I couldnt talk to him anymore because of my then fiance, he started telling me how he felt and to be honest I loved him as a friend but nothing more. Well the boyfriend went through my phone when I forgot it and found out bout me telling my guy friend I cared for him. Well he went nuts, he threw it in my face that he was going to ask me to marry him again tonight at 12:01. I have broke down and I dont know what to do. I love him and care for him, but not sure if its worth fighting for. I'd like some advice please.

2007-12-23 18:59:28 · 15 answers · asked by mandi88_bailey05_ray 3

What, if anything, could your spouse or bf/gf do that would instantly end the relationship with no chance of reconciliation?

Short of killing you of course.

2007-12-23 18:51:17 · 16 answers · asked by I_Walk_Point 3

My husband moved out a year ago. We see eachother, but go back and forth about what we want. He's insisting that I sell my house and buy one with him. I don't think that I should have to sell my home to keep my husband. I asked him to leave a year ago because of the way he spoke to me. Now he won't come back to my home. what to do?

2007-12-23 18:37:30 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous

before marriage. and were madly inlove and when they get married the love decreases and slowly their life gets bad.
whats the reason? and what are the ways to keep the love warm forever?
Practicle views and comments :o)

2007-12-23 18:29:59 · 7 answers · asked by freeman 3

my divorce isnt final yet, but me n my stb ex-hubby are just now starting to talk (directly, that is). since the beginning, weve been communicating only thru our lawyers. but as u know, it can get pretty expensive. aside from the obvious financial burden on us both, i guess its because weve come to our senses? perhaps, we both realized our faults and are just trying to get along for the sake of our children? whatever it is, im kinda feeling better about things now. although we do hv a court-ordered agreement, we said that we would only resort to it on things we cant agree on.
am i reading too much into things? or could this actually be a good thing? id appreciate opinions or experiences.
please, no sarcasm.

2007-12-23 18:29:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous

i love a guy from india,i am a russian girl but i am a muslim, his religion hindu.... i love him a lot. can i marry him?

2007-12-23 18:00:28 · 9 answers · asked by jjjj 1

Do you agree or disagree with the 80/20 rule (I heard this on "Why Did I Get Married" movie):
You never get all you want or need in a marriage. At most, it's about 80%.
Because of this, we can't help but look outside our marriage at what we're missing, and think that the grass is greener on the other side because we're looking at that 20%.
However, if we go over to the other side, we find out that's all we got: the 20%.
Do you agree or disagree? Why or why not?

2007-12-23 17:57:55 · 8 answers · asked by Jen 4