iam 24years old n am married 2years ago.iam blessed with a cute kid last year.am gettin frustrated sitting at home no work only looking after my baby all de time no time for myself.n so getting irritated now n then.wat should i do?I really need a break
2007-12-23 21:15:32 · 7 answers · asked by J lo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
why not do a hobby or a routine maybe?
2007-12-23 21:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by mooncoral 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wake up when your hubby does, spend the time with him as he readies for work, kiss him good bye, and either head back to bed or start your day. When baby gets up, have a set routine that you follow. Breakfast, playtime, maybe run your errands, lunch, then a nap (you could take one too if you needed) ... while baby's playing quietly, you could clean the house. Vacuum, sweep, mop, dust, dishes, laundry, etc.
When hubby gets home, have a family dinner, give baby a bath and get him/her off to bed. You can either soak in the tub quietly or have a quick shower and do a hobby/craft before you head to bed. There might be only 24 hours in a day, but that's more than enough time to keep your house, raise your child(ren) and have a hobby/craft interest as well.
Your house need not be perfect - clean if not neat, homey and welcoming is better than pristine and uninviting.
Blessings
2007-12-23 21:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Ariana 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should talk to your husband about placing your child in day care. That way you can have some time to rest and run errands if you have any and the baby will get some much needed social interaction. But as far as you being a perfect and dedicated housewife goes, it doesn't seem like you want to be at home all the time so that may not be for you.
2007-12-23 21:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by Ramis W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all take care of your child, your husband and of course yours day to day requirements perfectly and without any fault to be notified by your husband or anyone else in the family circle.
If you have spare time then cleaning and proper arrangement of household things is suggestable. You can spend some time for a siesta.
Discuss and try to arrange some home tuitions with the help of your husband. You can spare your time at home by engaging yourself creatively.
2007-12-23 21:31:35 · answer #4 · answered by BLOWHOT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HI U CAN FIND A PART TIME JOB WHICH U CAN WORK FROM HOME AND TRY TO GO OUT ONCE A WEEK WITH FRIENDS FOR COFFEE OR MAY BE SHOPPING..MAY BE U CAN GET A BABY SITTER ONCE A WEEK FOR CAPLE HRS AND GO OUT WITH UR HUBBY FOR MOVIES OR NICE DINNER .OR IF U REALLY NEED A BREAK ASK UR FAMILY TO HELP U TAKE CARE OF THE BABY AND GO WAY FOR A WEEKEND WITH UR HUBBY .......
2007-12-23 21:25:21 · answer #5 · answered by anu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a part-time job. get a hobby, go to the gym when your hubby gets home, etc...
2007-12-23 21:20:22 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol Do crafts.... teach your son how to tie his shoes.
2007-12-23 21:18:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋