Marriage & Divorce - 23 December 2007

If you are in a committed relationship (living together), do you think its okay for the man to spend time at another woman's house til 4am, saying they are just friends. I think it's inappropriate, but my boyfriend says otherwise

2007-12-23 03:20:33 · 13 answers · asked by Lady D 1

like the kids and/or other members, yourself, no financial worries...

Would You?

2007-12-23 03:17:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

She sits on her *** all day long and barks out orders!!!
She has her husband thinking he is a freggin moron... he's not alloud driving anymore...according to her.......so my husband and i gets phone call after freggin phone call to run for them....and it's just cause she's too freggin lazy to get up off her *** to do things......I moved from Ohio to be with my husband here in Rhode Island and I can't freggin stand his mother NO MORE......i need help or a shrink.......please holla back with some good advice......please!!!!

2007-12-23 03:14:25 · 11 answers · asked by p-nut 1

i m a married girl.and we spent two years after marriage? I am not praginant? please help me

2007-12-23 02:56:17 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am moving away from where the FOB is, and wondering how filing for chld support from dif. state works. Does he HAVE to come to the hearings? How will he know I've filed? Paternity testing? What if he refuses? About how long does the process take? What are the biggest deciding factors on how much money is given each month?
I personally never imagined myself in a position quite like this. Thans for the help.

2007-12-23 02:52:18 · 4 answers · asked by c_a_s_h_f_l_o_w 1

My husband has known this girl even before he met me. They never hit it off. But they still kept in touch, talkin about whats goin on. Just a few months ago, she wanted to come over to meet with us and hang out. She is asian too like me and about a year or two older than i am. Her home was about 45mins away. The 2nd time, she called us and wanted to meet with us again. Take note, she has a bf and didnt bring her bf twice now. I made dinner and we had fun. Now, my husband and I were already thinking that something is weird: it makes me think that she wants something weird. We couldnt figure it out. And then again, just a couple of days ago, she called and said she wants to come over and see us and then she asks me if it was okay to sleep over "in case she gets too drunk to drive" she says. And again, the bf isnt with her again! That night, she calls the bf to let him know if she is going home or not and i heard her say, "yeah im with my friend right now" and never said anything about...

2007-12-23 02:48:16 · 17 answers · asked by switbaby9 3

because he may be nasty with me and it will be better not calling the police on him because i am in goverment housing is there any words of advise for this matter? He said if i kick out he is going to take my dog which he paid for but gave to the kids and he is only doing it for despite. i said that money he paid on it was his rent if I gotta go to court over the puppy can i win him or is it like bye bye to the family member?
He also says he is taking stuff that is mine too. thanks

2007-12-23 01:56:37 · 25 answers · asked by daisy 4

We are married 13yrs, with two boys, ages 4 & 7 and its come to this, where I need to make a "sex date" with her, so she arranges for the kids to sleep over at Grandma's.

I don't know what is wrong with my wife, but she won't have sex if the kids are in the house, even if they are in seperate rooms, sleeping. The only time we are able to "do it" is when both kids are at school and I'm off or "working out of the house". That is rediculous. We have sex about once every 2-3 months and were only 36/37. That is way below the norm and I'm sick of finding other ways to relieve my tension.

2007-12-23 01:42:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 4 and 1/2 yrs. We no longer sleep in the same bed and have sex like once every couple of months. I have asked him repeatedly why we do not have sex, if it is something wrong with me or if it is him and he gets very angry at me and will not give me a straight answer, just lots of different excuses. Sex is very important to me because I feel that it is another way of showing your love for the person you love but he says he doesn't see it that way. Am I wrong? I am very hurt and depressed over this. I same cranky and irritable and do not feel like he loves me anymore. The other aspects of our relationship is good but this one part is ruining it all. I know that he is not cheating on me but I am not happy anymore. I have tried to talk to him but all we do is end up arguing. I am on the verge of ending my marriage because I want a man that wants me sexually. What should I do because I do love him and want this to work?

2007-12-23 01:31:32 · 18 answers · asked by cajun_queen_1970 2

Ok, another Christmas is upon us and I am wondering if I am over-reacting again. Let me explain my situation and then you can tell me.

Every year I split Christmas Day with my ex, which is fine because I think it's only fair. He comes and picks up the kids, but we have no contact, which again is fine with me.

Here's where the whole holiday gets sticky. My husband leaves early Christmas morning to go 200 miles away to see his kids who are grown. Their mother (his ex) is there too. Altho he claims every year that they do not hang out as a little "happy family", I think he is not being truthful to me. I think for one day out of the year, they try to pretend for their kids sake, that the divorce did not happen (mind you, his kids are 20 and 22 and he has been divorced for 7 years and been married to me for almost 4).

I got so tired of sitting here alone year after year like it's just another day. Am I wrong?

2007-12-23 01:16:30 · 15 answers · asked by kikio 6

My spouse had an affair. I Love Her. I always will. She hurt ME. How do learn to trust her again

2007-12-23 00:58:56 · 14 answers · asked by crackers 2

If I get married, I want to

2007-12-23 00:55:24 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What do you think is most common:

They look at the situation and realize the mistakes made and make a concious decision to avoid those blunders

or

No matter how hard they try, they have already been socialized to act somewhat like their parents and therefore will be more likely to make the same relationship errors.

2007-12-23 00:53:38 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

my sisters husband was on the computer late last night while i was in the family room watching movies on the television. he came up from behind the couch and said hi and that he was going to bed. he then reached around and kissed my neck and put his hand on my chest. he then drew back real fast. am i misreading it or did he intentionally touch me?

2007-12-23 00:48:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have been married for 2 years and this is my 1st baby! I am so happy, but feel sad because of how my husband is treating me, I have 2 jobs and he is currently only working 1 day a week all this month beacuse his job is slow, anyway he has been staying home all day watching tv, and when i get home instead of him wanting to be with me he wants to watch tv. I have to get home and do the bed, laundry etc.. I love him so much and im always telling him that i love him, im always hugging him etc. and he tells me that im bothering him, I feel so sad because after i got pregnant i have to ask him for sex, because he doesnt even initiate it anymore! I feel useless. last night he screamed at me for having a talk with him, i started shaking and crying uncontrolably, i cried all night. He blames me for what goes wrong, for him not being able to grow fnancially beacuse he says that If I would have taught him how to speak more english he would have a better life, i feel so depressed

2007-12-23 00:47:44 · 13 answers · asked by ♥*´`*•. mommy♥*´`*•. 1

We are no longer together and she is indian with her permanant residence visa now. shes struggling with the payments and Im afraid if she were to lets say dissapear back to her parents in india, because im her legally married husband is the mortgage debt going to fall on my head? the mortgage is in her name only. Am I liable for the mortgage if she were to defer? thanks

2007-12-23 00:41:16 · 20 answers · asked by Humble Bee 2

ive been married 9 years and together 15 my daughters friend has started to come round weve known her since she was born shes 13 now and around most weekends as she says she is bored my husbands in his 40s it it normal that he messes around with her like playing games (not the sexual playing around ) she torments him and plays last hit etc is this just something some teenagers do and am i reading more into it please help

2007-12-23 00:36:20 · 24 answers · asked by unsure about anything 1

They say they want to get marry but when it has been 4yrs . I feel like i am wasting my time with him. I decieded to give him one more year before i throw in the towel.

2007-12-23 00:29:25 · 17 answers · asked by vivi010571 2