Marriage & Divorce - 26 December 2007

deny your husband sex? They say you shouldn't give it to him every time he asks, but can't this backfire? When do you deny, so it benefits the both of you (strengthens the desire to have relations with each other/a good tease?)
We're young, early 20's. I want to do anything I can to keep the relationship strong

2007-12-26 22:41:16 · 33 answers · asked by charmed 4

Is a unmarried person eligible for vasectomy i.e. if a person is unmarried and if he wants to lose the ability to produce children, is he eligilble for vasecomy... will the physicians require a marriage certificate to perform the operation?

2007-12-26 21:21:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anil K 1

2007-12-26 20:05:40 · 17 answers · asked by phelony2003rhino 1

I met my husband when I was 17 and we married 6 years later, I am now 31. I know relationships have there ups and downs and I guess you could call this a down moment or maybe I am making it into one. My husband does everything for everyone and sometimes I feel like I am taking the back seat at times. Over the last 2 years is parents (family) has been going through a hard time, with his parents getting divorced and I guess his sister is a whole different story, but the stresses have gotten to me a little too, I don't want to know about it now. We are also trying for a family, well we have been for 6 years and the stresses from that don't help matters. About 4 mths ago I had a panic attack and ever since then I am questioning my sexuality (who knows why) and I am also questioning my relationship. Crazy Times I love my husband and I want us to have a family and grow old together. I need to stress less and accept his family for who they are and take some pressure off us. Any advice

2007-12-26 19:46:40 · 5 answers · asked by mrsmacca22 1

I was picking my nose and eating it at the time. Does this constitute verbal abuse?

2007-12-26 19:41:31 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous

Iam a 32 year old male from Kerala, India. At fist I married a girl who is ignorant about what is life! She was a doll in the hands of her parents. I had to divorce her to keep my dignity. Then I married another one who is a saddist and sex maniac who gave me losing of peace of mind every day. She wanted only a “loving machine” for 24 hours, not a husband who has professional and personal commitments. I could not do my job in office while she made my home hell and I had to return home after her call. I got divorce after a long strike and I have lost peace of mind. Now I am abroad and working with a well-paid job. Now the pressure is upon me for another marriage, because there should be somebody to love and take care of my family (my aged mother) and me. Now I have to go on vacation soon back to my region. Nothing in my mind right now regarding marriage.Somebody warns me being old for marriage. How can I find the right one? pls give your opinions.

2007-12-26 19:28:39 · 9 answers · asked by Master 1

2007-12-26 19:19:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-26 19:18:01 · 23 answers · asked by TT 2

we are so different in alot of things like things we like to do

2007-12-26 19:04:44 · 18 answers · asked by bigballa8319 1

I don't have a lot of money, no property. We have one child but I'm open to shared custody. How do I get a divorce that is fairly inexpensive?

2007-12-26 18:35:11 · 9 answers · asked by beffie 3

2007-12-26 18:33:53 · 13 answers · asked by bjmookey_08 1

Im not sure if he is, but sometimes i get da feeling could u pls help. He did give me reason to believe in da past.

2007-12-26 18:27:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

I wanna hear from people who have been together a long time. How did you know this person was the right one for you. I don't know if I can believe in "the one" but I do believe in compatible people. And how did you work through your problems?

2007-12-26 17:37:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

Is it a good idea to get married a year before you finish college? me and my boyfriend are planning this and by that time he would already had finished college and i would only need 1 more year.

2007-12-26 17:33:30 · 18 answers · asked by cowgirl09 1

This is a question from a friend of mine. Any advise would be greatly appreciated.

Right now i am again facing troubles with ex husband in regards to my placement with my son. He is again attempting to deny my placement period, and threatening to with hold him. I am extremely stressed, if any one has any advice, please help. Ive already contacted my lawyer and the district attorneys in three counties. Any advice would help, my ex is extremely intimidating and this is the third time he has done this.
What do I do??

2007-12-26 17:30:29 · 7 answers · asked by Summertime 2

tonite i have showered, and wearing tight tshirt and pjs, but hubby doesn't get the hint or just isn't into me im tired of making the first move. what may be going on i guess he doesn't get turned on by me?

2007-12-26 17:27:30 · 15 answers · asked by coco1 1

my husband and i are now separated due to many issues he has done. well to try and get him back i decided not to do the traditional bringing the kids to his mothers and have christmas dinner instead i let him stay be their alone with none of us we have 4 kids, and we went somewhere else to my aunts i thought this would hurt him but he didnt seem to care oh i spent christmas alone, and my kids went to my aunts not me. No one seemed to care that we didnt come this year not even his mother no one said we missed u at the gathering and my husband still seemed happy and fine why didnt they care my plan really back fired.

2007-12-26 17:26:40 · 5 answers · asked by cocoa 4 3

I live in small town...and I consulted a legal assistant who gave me misinformation.

I think my spouse actually talked to her before I was able to go down to see her.

She made 2 comments that my husband is trying to use against me.

She told me that georgia is a "Community property state" which is false

And she made a comment about yelling as a parent...which is what my husband is trying to claim proves me a bad parent.

I think the legal assistant took my consultation to see what my arguement would be in the divorce. I disclosed some very hidden information and stuff my husband is doing.

Can this legal office be held accountable for taking my consultation after first hearing my wifes side?
Or is it just sneaky tactics that are inethical.

Hidden accounts hidden emails hidden money are what I told her I knew about.
Now my husband might know and adjust his secretive lifestyle.

What can I do?

2007-12-26 17:22:16 · 7 answers · asked by Back on the market 1

When families are all miserable?

2007-12-26 17:18:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

I just turned 28 this month, and recently I don't want to be around anyone or talk to anyone that requires effort meaning I don‘t want to be the entertainer. I am happy with where I am in life, I have a few plans for myself that will enable me to have my debit paid off or under control, I will be able to open up a "rainy day" savings account, and I recently just got real serious in the church, and will be able to tithe my 10%. I don't want to be bother with a lot of my friends, I don't want to be bothered with the guy I was dating, and I don't want to really hang out anymore, and it's not because I am in the church now, it's not because I am depressed cause I‘m not, and it's not because my friends have done anything to me.

2007-12-26 17:13:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I've been separated from her for 5 months now, and don't see any changes in my situation, we;ve been married for a year and 5 months

2007-12-26 17:08:27 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

i was married in India abt 15 months ago and i want a divorce

2007-12-26 17:00:50 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-26 16:48:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

What would u do if ur husband is busy with his work n
seldom accompany u n ur frens r all busy with their children.

2007-12-26 16:46:17 · 6 answers · asked by da da 1

it.s was christmas and yes we are divorced i called him to say merry christmas but no answer nothing but voice mail .he never even called i was up late but no call i know i did wrong on cheating on him but it was christmas why was it so hard to even call and say at least hi. i had never cheated on him but that one time. which led to my divoce from him i truley was and am sorry for beliving the other man who i thought loved me was i wrong on that but i have paid the price for it and i really love my .ex. husband more than ever why is it so hard to call at that time just to say hi. he never did.

2007-12-26 16:43:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband is sarcastic about everything, I get very angry, I almost can't take it. If he doensn't like something he will refuse to participate no matter the consequences. I pierced our daughters ears, he didn't like the aftercare so he now will not clean her ears, which is bad because I was gone to work from the afternoon until she was in bed- so they didn't get cleaned but once, should have been 3 times. I bought some disney princess ceiling fans for the kids x-mas- he doesn't want to put them up so its been nonstop grief!! I bought each child about 6 things- 1 big 5 little- we have 4 kids so that looks like a tremendous amount of stuff when put together under a tree, even though it isn't. He ruined my x-mas w/his comments about me running the family under financially, and about me brining back the fans to be able to buy groceries, by the way we have plenty of groceries that were not bought with credit! Constant comments about my mothering too- I can't deal. what will make him stop!

2007-12-26 16:42:29 · 14 answers · asked by Ferrari 3

Will u b worry that after giving birth ur body
shape won't b perfect as bofore n ur husband
won't admire u anymore?

2007-12-26 16:38:25 · 15 answers · asked by da da 1

2007-12-26 16:34:15 · 19 answers · asked by kindablue99 2

some say "time goes faster for women and that would be a problem".i want you to say may what do you think about relationship of a couple with the same age after 40 or 50? is there any problem do you think?tell me about your own experience.
in iran people say "a man must be older than his wife".
what do you think?

2007-12-26 16:33:45 · 7 answers · asked by ari 2

hi.my third wife is 19 and new to the mother and marraige thing.my wife is breastfeeding our 7mo daughter and my daughter hasnt been eating as much which i scausing my wifes breasts to be swollen and leaky all the time.last night she asked me if i would help her relive some of the pressure by sucking them (she was really embarassed but it was so funny).i was wondering if this would interfer with the babys milk supply and how i can help her not to be embarrassed

2007-12-26 16:33:02 · 8 answers · asked by jelly bean 1