Marriage & Divorce - 26 December 2007

I need some kind of clear definition of where I stand with my friends with benefits, but I can't bring my self to ask him directly, so I've come here for some opinions. We've been friends for over a year, and I consider him one of my best friends. After about 6 months, we started sleeping with each other. We've never discussed what it is we are, but now its been almost a year since we've actually been sleeping together and I'm confused. We don't JUST sleep together. We go out and do things. Even with his friends. In front of his friends, he'll hold my hand or kiss me, rub my back, etc. In the car, he'll ALWAYS put his hand on my leg while he's driving ( I know it's lame but its only something boyfriends have done.) We text EVERY single day, literally not one day passes where we don't talk, and because of that I'm almost positive he isn't seeing other people.

What does it mean when he'll often say "my princess" in these texts?

I think I've fallen for him :( I know i know...awful.

2007-12-26 14:13:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous

i know there are some who will think this is a no brainer, however there is a girl who i have had a love affair with for 2 years. it has put my life on hold and left me so depressed at times. i am so tired of it cause she is married and she has not left cause of finances on their part. i am sick to death of it all cause i am tired of missing her! i met her and fell head over heels with her in the beginning when she had separated from her husband. now time has passed. it is sad, so sad. i am tired big time! i want to be strong and pull away for myself and for her. she always comes back. i am ready to start a life, but its like i am waiting for her to say lets go! and it sadly never happens. i am tired of the situation. not her. i know like i said most will think it is cut and dry, however my mind and my heart believes my life was to play out with her. can someone refer me to a site that can build me up and help get through this. i am single

2007-12-26 14:07:29 · 14 answers · asked by wiskers43302 1

i'am getting a divorce and my wife says i can be arrested. i live in florida i have never heard of this

2007-12-26 14:06:09 · 13 answers · asked by scott g 1

ladies enter in "ANOTHER WORLD" where you do not notice anyone except for the stock person to ask about a product that he has no idea about. Even if a hot guy just happened to walk by you, you ladies would never notice if you were grocery shopping. I work at the Grocery Store and I see this all the time. IS THERE A REASON FOR THIS.

2007-12-26 14:04:46 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am married for 11 years, i have 2 kids. For 10 years i can say im am emotionally battered since my husband is not me well. all i can remember is there in no day i am not crying because of insults and harsh words from him. And besides, he is doesnt turn over financial matter to me. In short he rules everything at home. Though i can say we are financially well off because we run a family business still i am not happy with all this material things in life. Its my kids made me stayed our family whole till this time.
One year ago, i met this man from internet, he became my outlet from all my hurts nad pains, and i admit ive fallin for him and we love each other much, he is senior of me 8 years. We bein we for one year already, we underwent many preassures, cool off many times but still we are again and cant let go again. We do not meet yet in person but were trying to synchronize our
plan so we can be together right time.
My problem is how can i separate my husband?Help me. I needs help.

2007-12-26 14:02:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

do u think someone from bangladesh (who was born there but moved to america when he was young) would marry someone who lives in america who is native american/west indian? even if the bangladesh guy did want to--would his family hold him back?

2007-12-26 14:01:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-26 14:00:18 · 8 answers · asked by sfeggans56 1

i have been with my husband for 3 years we have 2 kids together and i have a daughter who is 4 and only knows him as daddy. he has started being abusive 2 years ago. (verbal and physical)it's not often and he hasn't beaten me it's more like man handling..i'm starting to resent him and he is blaming me for all our probs..tells me i'm crazy and that's what causes him to slap me or yell at me...he always talks down to me we never have good healthy conversations...I'm not even interested in being intimate anymore which is sssooo not like me..I'm starting to become depressed .and i want to leave but i don't want to dissappoint my family or children..my family doesnt know about this..my mom knows that i am getting fed up with him but not really why.....how do i handle this i am desperate for advice!!! if you have been through this it would help more.feel free to email me

2007-12-26 13:58:44 · 52 answers · asked by heather w 2

My husband has an unusual sexual fantasy. He likes to imagine that I'm a giantess, as he calls it. Like the 50 foot woman. Only lots bigger. He likes to call me the 50 mile woman. Or 500 mile woman. And I'm always wearing 4 or 5 inch heeled sandals with my toes painted. This never happens in real life.

He'd like me to pretend, or role-play, I'm a giantess going on a rampage. Destroying cities, armies, etc. Pretending to crush him like a bug. While I'm telling him what I'm doing, he's 'satisfying' himself.

I don't share this fantasy, and in fact, I find it a bit silly. I'm not that violent, or mean. But he really seems to find in enjoyable. It seems harmless, but it isn't my thing. He's offerered to reciprocate, but I my fantasies don't involve him. I think my biggest problem, is I honestly have no idea what to say!

Am I being selfish? Or should I grit my teeth and try?

Check out my other questions, if you can.

2007-12-26 13:54:41 · 10 answers · asked by KarlaKayC 2

2007-12-26 13:42:09 · 31 answers · asked by live4_2day 2

2007-12-26 13:34:01 · 24 answers · asked by denisleary74 2

Briefly...I've been married for a little over 3 years, he's super nice, great, wonderful guy, and we have love for each other, but not the romantic kind, no sparks, no special feelings. I don't think this should have disappeared within the first 3 years, so I'm slightly worried already. Then take into account our lack of 'intimacy' as in ...months... whether it's him putting it off or me, etc... one of us is putting each other off, and for the last few months it's been me because I am just not into him in 'that way' right now...
I feel weird, horrible, weird, etc... :(

Then take into account I am a notorious flirt. OMG you have no idea. It's worse if I drink, and I only drink socially.
He doesn't like to go out, he doesn't like crowds, he likes to stay home...WHEN he does come out, and I do have a few drinks, etc..I end up flirting sometimes, and he'll see me, and he'll say, 'I wish you would rub up on me like that...' and I do feel bad, but I just don't have feel that way now..

2007-12-26 13:30:17 · 14 answers · asked by Antara2 1

Is there a career in stripping should i follow it?I really love strip to

2007-12-26 13:28:48 · 17 answers · asked by Mae 2

He is 20yrsold, and quit school back around the age of 16, and he does not have driver license, and doesnt work, all he does is stay up all nite and sleep all day, he wont work, my hubby treats him differ than the other kids. I dont know what else do to.

2007-12-26 13:25:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

I know several women who have gotten implants and with in a year or so, divorced their husbands. this may be just a coincidence. but it seems like it isn't. the husbands said it changed their personality. has anyone else heard of this happening? i dont think i ever want my wife to get them if it could be true.

2007-12-26 13:22:31 · 14 answers · asked by gifted!!!! 2

Kids father and I are doing things as a normal family would. But when I ask if we're back together, he brings up the child support he has to pay and other things Ive done to make his life hard financially after we broke up and never really answers my question. If I didn't ask, I would have thought we were back together.

2007-12-26 13:15:23 · 13 answers · asked by great2 2

2007-12-26 13:13:05 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

Today I got pulled over for speeding by one of the officers that work with my husband. I didnt get a ticket but of course he told my husband who was pissed off. He said that when he gets home my butts gonna pay for it. What can you do when your husband is literally "THE LAW" (and a very high ranking police officer if that)

2007-12-26 13:08:28 · 25 answers · asked by Luv_My_Baby 4

Usually on my way to school or work I would call my brother in law and talk about issues that we were both faced in everyday life. This went on for a year until my husband questioned me about cheating which in turn he found out that I would talk to him regurlarly not everyday but 2 or three times a week. Ocassionally out of the day we would contact each other about 5 or 6 times. I lied to my husband about the whole ordeal because my intentions were not to hurt him. Most definitely I broke his trust because I never told him about what was going on. His mother and sister knew about the situation but never told him. He believes he can no longer trust me because I lied to him about it. When I was confronted about it I lied to him about how many times I talked to him, the last time I talked to him, if I had e-mailed him.

2007-12-26 13:07:40 · 16 answers · asked by rr.milf 1

Many women call each other bi(ches and are more critical/judgemental of each other. (And are proud of it)

When the guy cheats, the woman automatically blames the other woman. What if the women didnt know? If you didnt notice, guys like to lie to get sex.

When many women dress they don't even dress for men, they dress to compete with each other. You know who you are.

2007-12-26 13:01:17 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

say you are married and you where driving down the street and seen your ex stranded in the cold would you stop to help? why or why not.

2007-12-26 12:59:17 · 20 answers · asked by LC 2

I realized recently when I hurt my back and was layed up for 2 days, that my husband literally acts pissed off that he has to do anything!! I mean anything, picking up laundry and taking it up stairs for me, doing his own laundry for work, going to my sisters to pick up our daughter, ANYTHING!! what is this? when he is sick i take care of him. when i get sick its almost like he picks fights so he can leave and not help out. i dont know how to apporach this . He doesnt think he is doing anything wrong. He says " your giving me attitude im giving it back" which is not normal for him. He is only like this when i need him. any advice?

2007-12-26 12:57:42 · 17 answers · asked by stellar31576 2

my boyfriend has been logging on to chat lines giving girls his number exchanging sexual texts and pics. how do i get him to stop?

2007-12-26 12:57:28 · 18 answers · asked by slwpain30 1

his own truthfulness?

2007-12-26 12:54:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have an ex who left me sick in the hospital to be with someone else. When I found out I lost it on him, because first I could not believe he could do something like that, and second the girl he left me for was bad news. I was so hurt and by his actions it seemed he did not care about me. We never fought and I helped him through so much mentally. After some time he did tell me everything he did was uncalled for and I found out he is no longer with this girl. This girl was a one night stand before we met, I confirmed that. She got pregnant and had his child. I am the one who told him he should be a part of the childs life, but I never thought he would fall for the mother. She is the reason he wanted nothing to do with them. He was ashamed. But now he is a big part of his daughters life. But no matter what I do, he will no longer talk to me. Why??? I just want answers from him in person, he wont respond to me.

2007-12-26 12:45:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

3 weeks before Christmas, I came home on a Monday night to be told by my wife of 13yrs that she doesnt love me anymore and that she wants to separate.
I was devasted, in October we went on a holiday and were trying to concieve our first child (no luck).
I lost the plot and have been struggling to function since, Ive taken time off work to spend with my family over Christmas (wow was that a hard day) and sought some counselling.

Now Im back in our home (she is taking some time with her sister), I want to try to work things out but she is playing hard ball, thing thats really confusing is that pretty much all of her clothes, jewerelly, perfume etc etc etc is still here, its like she's simply gone out shopping...What the hell do i do? She says "nope we are over" but hasnt made any advance on leaving the house...this is so confusing, I love her so much..

2007-12-26 12:45:02 · 14 answers · asked by hurtinghub2007 2

I recieved breast augmentation yes I got my augmentation earlier then Christmas I got them in November but I am very happy with the results I have always been heavy chested but after the kids I lost alot of my breast tissue I am only 5 foot 2 and about 105 pounds I am hoping I made a good desicion guys be serious was getting them done so late in my life a mistake. Be honest if your mother was 33 and she had 20yr old breasts would it bother you I don't want my children to be upset how I look what do you think? Also the breast augmentation was my idea and my husband did not push me to do it honest opinions please.

2007-12-26 12:42:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

Why Do you master bate when you are married or have A companion , Im asking because , well just lets say I need to know if it is normal , I'm Inbarest About this question , but I JUST NEED TO KNOW !and if you are married would you be mad if your spouse did it instead of with you.

2007-12-26 12:39:52 · 30 answers · asked by Home Is Where The Heart Is 4

Besides a home cooked meal, TV & computer e-mail.

2007-12-26 12:37:17 · 17 answers · asked by Annie 2

well thats what happend to me the letter came in the post with the hotels name on the envelope addressed to my husband so i opened it.i got a shock as i read it and it said the time date and area on it also for a room for 2 people.so i waited for my husband to get home from work i asked him about the letter he said he had booked the room for his mate because he had met a woman and he had no I.D and that he still lives with his mum. i said that is a bit weired and i dont believe you because the date on the letter is the same as when my husband said that he was going to devon u.k.to get a car and that is a 12 hour drive there and back from where i live in england so.i also phoned him 3 times at different times that night to see how he was and all the time he took his time to answer his mobile phone and i couldnt hear the car it was very quiet.he got back to his garage quick within 12 hours.he says he has not been with another woman it was a favour for his mate who he wont let me talk to.

2007-12-26 12:35:52 · 24 answers · asked by Summer 1