say you are married and you where driving down the street and seen your ex stranded in the cold would you stop to help? why or why not.
2007-12-26 12:59:17 · 20 answers · asked by LC 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
It really depends you know... If it's me, I would call my other half before I do anything and let her know about the situation just to avoid any trouble. But, if she's a psycho ex...... forget her.. Just Kidding!
2007-12-26 13:19:29 · answer #1 · answered by A.C.G. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes--the world is already going to the dogs--I don't think we should speed up the process by ignoring an ex in a tight spot. There doesn't always have to be bad weather--any ex with a problem should be treated with a "civil "easy consideration---and if you can't or you choose NOT to help--offer the next best thing--if he will accpet that . At least you tried. Most any normal human being would feel like crap after driving by a stranded person that they know. Hatred can be put aside long enough to help out another HUMAN BEING. If there are a set of extraordinary circumstances that might include possible physical violence--then maybe you can see the right to drive by without stopping. So After you help out--simply say goodbye and move on. Happy New year to you
2007-12-26 13:10:01 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very sticky situation. The decision would depend on the strenght of the current marriage. How much the ex and current husband know each other. The age of all involved. The older the people the less room for miss comunication. How small of a town this occurs in. Sall town gossip is deadly. All said it would be better to pass him by and call for assistance like the police. The police do come to the aid of stranded people.
2007-12-26 13:10:55 · answer #3 · answered by just me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would definitely stop and help, because my ex hubby and I are the best of friends. I'm not remarried, but if I was, it would make no difference. I'll always be friends with my ex, and I'd always help him if he was in trouble. (He is remarried, and he still helps me out if I need help).
On the other hand, if I had an ex who I didn't get along with, I'd drive right by and leave him stranded. lol There are always other people around who can help the guy out if you don't.
2007-12-26 13:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I would give him a ride to where he had to go or to a place close by so he could get help. I'm on ok terms with my ex, I don't wish him any harm. I would not be romantic just civil and feel good I got to help him out.
2007-12-26 13:02:37 · answer #5 · answered by Brittney 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, Its just the right thing to do. Unless the ex was abusive then he deserves to stay stranded.
2007-12-26 13:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by blueeyd_princess 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No, keep it movin and if you saw him and wanted to offer him a ride that just means you had a flesh back. And they are not good. You probably started smiling and thinking way back when. What if so on. Besides if he is at the bus stop then that's probably one reason you're not together.
2007-12-26 13:22:17 · answer #7 · answered by Precious1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would pick up all of my ex's. We were young and dumb, I would atleast stop and ask them if they were ok, if they needed a ride. My husband should already trust me enough to know that I wouldnt cheat...
2007-12-26 13:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by Cynthia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depend on if we parted on good terms or not. If he was a jerk then I would probably slow down and yell something about karma and drive off.
I can be like that sometimes.
2007-12-26 13:55:42 · answer #9 · answered by jenk1972 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its kinda tricky because I would ask myself 'How would I feel if my husband picked up his ex?' I wouldnt like it even though It would be the right thing to do.
2007-12-26 13:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋