Marriage & Divorce - 26 December 2007

2007-12-26 10:33:10 · 9 answers · asked by snow white 1

I got married in sept. this year. Since my husband is from Spain and I am Californian, he went to Spain for a 1 month to visit his family. Now, he knew I did not want him to leave me for our first Christmas but he did anyway. Now I am hurt, I am full of resentment and worst of all I have been having very sad holidays. I even feel that I hate him. My heart is broken and I feel like I want him to feel what I am feeling. I am just deeply depressed because he did not take me as his priority. I do not know how to deal with this anymore, my cheerful spirit is dead right now and need some healing. The more I hear him the deeper this gets...

2007-12-26 10:32:33 · 15 answers · asked by kdvg2000 3

"Hypothetically," lets say your husband worked with a girl. Right? And you've caught your husband in multiple lies when it comes to this "girl." You've never had any evidence that suggests physical cheating, but just random pointless lies. You've confronted him with his lies, and he becomes defensive, calls you controlling, and continues to lie as you continue to catch him. As a wife, what would you do? Would you do everything you could to keep this girl away from your husband? And... would you agree that the only reason people lie is when there's something to cover up? Why lie if he's doing nothing wrong? What is your opinion... If you were this wife, what would you do??

2007-12-26 10:31:46 · 22 answers · asked by Stefanie 2

My ex husband went into rehab right after Thanksgiving for cocaine. We have joint custody of our 5 year old son. He gave power of attorney to his mother. She is not complying with the divorce papers. Took my name off of the pick up list at school, and will not return any of my calls. What are my rights? I I get him can I keep him until his father returns ? My son lives with his father, and visits me on the weekends, but I have not seen him since Thanksgiving.

Please help I'm going crazy without him !! I live in Fl

2007-12-26 10:31:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

What made you stay?

2007-12-26 10:29:52 · 18 answers · asked by Ice Princess 1

what would you do if propose to the love of your life after more than a year of dating and she says she is not ready for commitment and you should try and date other people.?

2007-12-26 10:28:23 · 21 answers · asked by saintbright247 1

it was really pretty bad from the beginning, but I hung in there against all odds.... all the details would take forever but I did the absolute best I could with this lying, drinking, asexual, cheap, aggressive, violent, drug-using biggest bastard that ever walked the earth.

now on top of it I find out he's seeing someone, and he's lucky to be overseas so I can't kick his sorry a** into next year... we'd been separated for over a year too, and I was pretty much waiting for an excuse to end it all.

now I have my excuse, you say... and I feel like I can finally move on, it'll be a Happy New Year indeed! and all I need right now are tips for those moments when I think of the 0,5 seconds when we actually had something good going, before the sh*t hit the fan.

thanks everyone, i just need a little holiday cheer, i think it'll be easy for you! right!?

2007-12-26 10:27:27 · 13 answers · asked by ? 3

I recently asked my partner to leave because I was unhappy in our relationship. I have become involved with someone else and have found some comfort and hapiness. My only problem is my finances. I need to make a decision on whether to let my credit cards go or not. I have found myself in a bind. The main problem here is not that I have found myself over my head, but I do not want to be depressed because of this. I don't feel good about it, it is due to my own irresponsible behavior, but I cannot keep up.

2007-12-26 10:27:22 · 4 answers · asked by MARIE S 4

My wife started to go with her sister and her girlfriends to dance without me. She insists she needs more space and she still loves me and wants everything continues in the same way. The thing is she told to me that there is male stripper show & she show me his ad cards & a big poster (naked of course) of this guy, poster was bought. We are married- 17 years and three teens. We are 39 y/o. One of these days I asked for a phone # and she told me take it from her wallet. I found the ad's stripper card together w/my photo. I got the number. As a bad guy I was looking for this number in the cell phone bill and what a surprise: I found at least 8 calls to him in different days, less than a minute of duration and 6 more from house's bill. I asked her what's is happening and she was upset because I checked her calls & says this isn't important & I don't have to be worry. It was something she doesn't know why she did it but she wants to continue going the same place & she asked me let her go.

2007-12-26 10:24:07 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-26 10:17:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

He didn't touch her, but he did offer pot before. Not the first time, last time offered alcohol to see her boobs. We have been blissfully married for 2 yrs, together for 9. I found this out 3 days before Christmas and now I hate the very sight of him. He denies it, says it was a joke. My daughter doesn't believe that and is currently with her big brother about an hour away while school is out for the holidays.

Do I HAVE TO get marriage counseling before filing divorce or is this enough to end it now? He is trying to act like it's no big deal but we are all horrified by this. I'm so upset, I just want him to leave but I don't think he will - if I call the cops and tell them what he did will they arrest him?

Somebody please help me.
God bless.

2007-12-26 10:16:21 · 20 answers · asked by despondent in TX 1

And I ask from a legal sense ONLY. If your church or belief system (religion) wont allow it, that is their buisness. Why shouldn't gays be allowed to LEGALLY marry?

2007-12-26 10:08:17 · 11 answers · asked by Julio P 2

we were together about 5 years

2007-12-26 10:05:21 · 7 answers · asked by allen h 1

I asked a while back, and counseling was the best logical answer. well now we are trying that and of course he really does not want to be there, and is not shy in saying that. I'm kind of scared cause I can't afford to be on my own with kids yet. considering he depleted my savings account for his hunting trip. he has said that he pretty much wants me home 24/7 to be there for him and the kids! NO FRIENDS ALLOWED!!!!!!! what is up with that. the counselor has not told me everything he has told my husband in private session, but in so many words it is all my fault. any other suggestions????

2007-12-26 09:59:51 · 6 answers · asked by lilyjo 2

I get jealous or envy, on those other guys that are so lucky to get all these different fine looking women pregnant with their own babies. How lucky these guys are! Why can't I be lucky like them? lol I have seen some guys, that have had like 15 different women pregnant with their own babies.

2007-12-26 09:54:34 · 21 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3

After three years I gave him an ultimatum, he promised he would ask within two years. That deadline is rapidly approaching and he claims he doesn't remember ever promising the two year thing. I find being apart heartbreaking but he doesn't seem that bothered (partly because I'm the one putting in the effort - we're in a LDR). I love him, but I hate that he's not in the same place as me.

I don't want to leave him.. everytime I threaten to I realise it destroys our relationship.. but what do i do? He has a house and a mortgage hundreds of miles away from me, which is he isn't prepared to put me on until we're living together, I'm not happy to give up my career to move in with him until I have commitment. There is no middle ground career wise. What to do?? :(

2007-12-26 09:48:58 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

Give me suggestions on those little sweet things I can do for her?

2007-12-26 09:46:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

1 what profession are you both in?
2 how long did you date?
3 first marriage or .....>?
4 how old were you both when married?
5 how many years married?
6 happily married?

thank you.

fine print: I do not accept insults. This is just a quesition. I am sure you can understand.

2007-12-26 09:41:49 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-26 09:41:35 · 6 answers · asked by Gi 1

I have been married for 4 years now but we have been together for almost 10 years. l've never been with another man. Lately, i have been thinking of having sex with another man. just once. and cant stop thinking about it. is it an abnormal behaviour?

2007-12-26 09:41:11 · 39 answers · asked by Michinha 1

2007-12-26 09:28:33 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous

I saw a documentary about a woman in Nevada who was a politian and may have been killed by her husband . there were doubts that she may have killed her first husband . the children of that man claim she killed him . and said that their stepmother took all the money and they didnt inheret anything from their rich father .

My wonder is to why they cant inheret if their father is married ? i wish they look at the Islamic system when it comes to inheretance . it is worth looking .

2007-12-26 09:28:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

was in this relationship for 7 years now have a child together through the relationship I was really pushing for it I accepted all the BS he gave and was not being apperciated at all. 1 year ago on x-mas I found out he was sort of cheating just telling a coworker how he wanted to be with her and they would talk on the phone and text for hours I just thought it was a problem on the phone bill never thought he was cheating but he was. now the tables have turned Im no longer in love with him!!! I want to just be friends and date other people but I believe since he is shy he hasn't meet anyone else so he is really beginning to stress me out by calling 1000 x a day saying he loves me and we should be together but im done with him im just no longer attracted and in love with him. how should I deal with him he is really stressing me out .ps. we have a child together but I believe we can raise her well and not be a couple

2007-12-26 09:24:45 · 17 answers · asked by me y 1

That's all I am looking for.... Im thinkin g 7 with me.... 7 with her and alternating weekends but what is everyone elses take on the situation??+

2007-12-26 09:23:33 · 2 answers · asked by conserned father 1

If you've been with a lot of people before meeting your SO should you be totally honest and hope that it doesn't change their opinion of you, or is it okay to lie and save yourself? (I don't mean anything like incurable STDs or children, but maybe your number is pretty high)

2007-12-26 09:12:34 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

Im already married, but having an affair with a man who is single, he doesnt know Im married, we have been dating for 6months and we love each other. we meet every weekends and sometimes on weekdays bcos we are 2 hours away.

I think he has been suspicious for a long time, bcos I never let him get into my hourse, I never let him meet any of my friends, I never let him in my workplace, he has my mobile but not my home phone, I refused to stay overnight for the last 3 months. I refused to move in with him when I was on the holiday. he complained about it all the time, and he joked about me having another man, I think he really have doubts.

he is a very intelligent man, I just wonder since he has all the doubts, why didnt he try to find out himself? he knows where my workplace is and where my house is. I just never let him in.

2007-12-26 09:11:17 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-26 09:10:40 · 11 answers · asked by blackjaguar1979 1

My gf is white & am black, since we've been together she has had problems of getting time to hang out with me. Her grandma is so strict on her. I mostly I have to ask her when she can can out with me coz she doesn't have time for me. Moreover she gives me more epty promises of when she will come see me n I would be expecting her and she does not show up. She often lies to me on even the simplest things. I just found out that she's been using birth control n she hasen't told me that. Whatever she tells me I have to think twice. She has also stole my debit card n called me the "N" word when she is upset. She did't get me anything for my bday n kept on lying to me that the gifts were on transit but I haven't seen them. She doesn't trust me on anything which is her's from her car to her computer I almost failed to turn in a paper while she had a computer n wouldn't lend me to use for my home work. I have been with her for 18 mo n I have never spent a holiday with her.

2007-12-26 08:59:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous

Because you thought you were getting older and it was time?
Because you felt obligated?
Because your family arranged it?
Because he asked and you couldn't say no?
Because you thought it would change you or him/her?
Because you were pregnant?
Because the sex was amazing?
Because you needed health insurance?
Because he/she is wealthy?
Or simply because you knew he/she was the one and you loved him/her?
Because the sex was amazing?

If you're not going to be honest then don't answer.
Oh yea, and if you want to preach go to a church, we don't want to hear it.

2007-12-26 08:44:06 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

like for example, they should be able to cook, have a sense of humour, love kids, be helpful, no smoke/drink and etc

if so, what are they?

if you are married - is your spouse exactly like what you wanted them to be?

2007-12-26 08:43:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous