Marriage & Divorce - 26 December 2007

2007-12-26 08:43:05 · 12 answers · asked by Lori L 1

My husb and I have been married for going on 3 !/2 years now , Ive left him twice bcuz he cant get a job and keep it and he has anger issues-we do have a child together-we are now split up and have been since August, and ive been dating somone else who swears that he loves me.but hes got his own issues.I starting to miss my husb and think I would like to go back but I dont want things to end up like they did last time- and i dont want to break my boyfriends heart either. I just think that every man has issues you just have to learn to deal w/ them and if thats the case then why dont I just go back to him so my daughter can have her mom and dad. I do still ove him but Sometimes I dont think that im in love w him . I just dont know what im supposed to do ...any advice would be good.

2007-12-26 08:42:23 · 17 answers · asked by Hillary R 2

recently ive been getting really tired all the time.
i feel absolutly nackard, lack of energy and lack of enthusiasm for anything i just want to sleep all the time
how can i get out of this?

2007-12-26 08:41:11 · 12 answers · asked by jojopink 1

Mother took care of down syndrome child. Child now 25 yrs old Mother passed away. Father of the child states he can not care for her on any visits only. Expects daughter in law to care for her. (bathroom, feeding etc) since she is a woman as well. Child lives full time at group home. 2 brothers 1 lives out of the Country. Other brother ignores sister if she is visiting. Wife is tired of being taken advantage of as family is looking to make her take over where the mother left off Every holiday.

Who should be doing this?

2007-12-26 08:25:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Just wondering....

2007-12-26 08:25:01 · 13 answers · asked by kidfree 4

I am 30. He dumped me a year ago, I suffered a lot, I wanted him back, tried to fight against my feelings, but NOW, I realized that I am still and only full of rage. he and his family treated me like you treat garbage, they basically throw me out of the door.
I am not in touch with him any longer,we didnt even swapped Xmas wishes. I hate him for how he treated me. I don't know what to do. Every night I dream about how much I'd love to ruin his life and new relationship. I am full of hate and I want to fight that. What could I do? Please help. I feel I am getting crazy. I have no friends and no family to support me.

2007-12-26 08:21:13 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

he also makes my children stand on the wall for hours and they never have any adult supervision. when i call i talk to them for hours and the only time there is an adult around is after someone gets hurt. i feel so bad i want to call cps or go back to court but i dont know where to start or if it will even help if i call cps will they put into foster homes im so confused on what to do please help me

2007-12-26 08:18:43 · 16 answers · asked by Jessica A 1

I'm panic stricken. I think, (maybe, possibly?) that this guy isn't the one i'm supposed to settle down with. When we put the deposit down, I was sure he was the one. He's lovely and has always treated me so well, but deep down, I want more from a relationship. I don't like his family (but that's besides the point). Do i live with and marry a guy who i'm averagely happy with, or do i end it all (house, engagement) and hold out for someone who is everything i could possible wish for.......? I've been unsure about this relationship for about 4 months......we've been together for 4 years and engaged for a year. I feel desperately confused, unfulfilled etc. HELP!

2007-12-26 08:18:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

My sister is going through a divorce. He can't handle it, he's attacked her 3 times already, stocking and harrassing her, the last physcial was in front of their 5 yr old son. He said while holding her down on the floor "Do you want (their son) not to have a mommy, I'll kill you"

The divorce was going fine but this past month it has turned violent, they were going to have equal custody...That idea has definitly changed now.


This is scary and she's going through the legal process right now, is this strong enough case to have full custody?

2007-12-26 08:16:41 · 8 answers · asked by WINO86 1

Can't people change? How long will you lable a person a cheater?

2007-12-26 08:15:52 · 38 answers · asked by Tray 2

I'm currently 8 months pregnant w/our 1st babygirl. My hubby and I have been married for 2 years and for some reason I ended up checking my email and my hubby's email was left open....I found that he was a member of a infidelity website called Ashely Madison.com. He has his profile pic on there and everything. I have done everything for this man & I am so disgusted by this. It's like I can't be in the same room with him. I am not working right now and he is the breadwinner. We are both 10 hours away from home, so we have no family here.

He's been distant, but not to a point I've suspected him of cheating. I don't know what to do at this point. I don't want to tell my parents, and I can't rely on anyone....

2007-12-26 08:11:29 · 19 answers · asked by MadameJazzy 4

He's great I love him, he doesn't ever pressure me. Our wedding is about 2 years away due to school and money, my town is full of teenage girl getting pregnant but yet everyone else is pressuring us. I guess I just don't see what's wrong with waiting if it's what we both want.

2007-12-26 08:10:01 · 50 answers · asked by Sapphire 2

I am married to someone that has been incarcerated for 8 years. We got married in 2006 and I really believe that he is not coming home at all. His sentence is 29 to 89 years and his projected release date is 2086. I want to move on with my life and get married and feel safe with my husband at home. I was told that marriages that have not been consummated was not legal.... I live in Maryland and I would like to know if that is in fact true or can I get this marriage annulled.

2007-12-26 08:09:03 · 4 answers · asked by pggcgirl 2

my soon to be ex husband says he is going to get a restraing order again the person i am currently seeing because he is his ex best friend. we have two children and he does not want them around him. Can he really do that?

2007-12-26 08:06:12 · 12 answers · asked by missyc46 1

We fool around but we've never had sex and we don't plan on it soon so i'm just hoping for some ideas to help us both stay entertained for a couple years.

2007-12-26 07:53:22 · 33 answers · asked by Sapphire 2

My husband and I have his children every other night and every other weekend, so it is split 50/50. His ex does not have a phone, she lives with her bf and he is so jealous that when she uses his phone she dials star 67 so the number shows up private. This is so ridiculous to us, cuz we have no way of contacting the children on days they are with her or if something happened. She also does not have bedrooms for the children, they moved into the house in April and have been working on finishing the basement ever since so they can have rooms, so now they sleep in the living room together. They are 11 yr. old boy and 9 yr. old girl. Is there anything we can do about the phone situation or anything else?

2007-12-26 07:53:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am the caregiver for my 83 year old father who went through a terrible divorce 8 years ago in California. Both parties had fixed incomes during the marriage, but since my father's income was higher, the judge ruled he should pay support until the time either him or his ex-wife passes.
I believe his ex is 81 now and lives in a nursing home and has so for about the last 7 years.
It has come to the point that I must put my father in assisted living facility and can no longer afford to pay the 574 spousal support, because all of his pension must go towards his maintenance now.
My question is, once I stop paying the support what are my legal options if the final divorce decree orders that my father must pay this money until his death.
Right now it is going to take every penny he has plus his savings to put him in a facility. How long should spousal support last when both parties are elderly? and what are my options...

2007-12-26 07:49:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

Please help, my husband and i have been married for 2 years we have kids. I stay at home because he doesnt want me to work, he works full time. I just found out my grandmother has 2 months to live i was going to go down to where she lives to say my goodbyes my husband was going to take a couple days off work to watch the kids while i went down he is now telling me to not go that he is not taking off because it will effect his pay. We arent hurting for money if he took the days off we could still pay out bills and have like $1000.00 left over. What should i do or say to him to help me out.

2007-12-26 07:44:28 · 17 answers · asked by bobbijbrown1 1

I kissed my ex boyfriend while my husband and I were seperated . Should I come clean??

2007-12-26 07:39:40 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

My brother is in a deep depression.He was engaged 5 months ago and his fiance was 4 months pregnant.Suddenly he called off the engagement and asked his fiance to make abortion and they broked up.Soon he started dating another girl but he had erection problems and was unable to have sex with her and he explained his problem with that she is unattractive(she is really).His ex is a very beautiful and sexy girl ,like a model,and may be he compares her to this girl.Now he wants his ex fiance back but he knows she won't back to him and recently she told him to stop pursue her.Now he is in a big depression and lost interest in everything.I would like to help him.Any ideas how i could help him.

2007-12-26 07:39:15 · 17 answers · asked by Natalie B 2

2007-12-26 07:36:01 · 22 answers · asked by Incognito 3

You and only you get what you earn and what is in your name and you get nothing more than that. Whoever gets the kids has to support them and there shall be no spousal support or child support payments, etc. You can have the kids (no visits wanted by the father) but if you can't support the kids, then give them to the father, he will support them, but you will not see them ever again until they are adults.

P.S: You know that the guy really loves you but he is only trying to be fair.

This question is for adult human females only. Please state your age.

2007-12-26 07:31:34 · 54 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me and my best friend have been friends for years. Well a couple of months ago we were out at a club and we ended up making out. Now we are kind of like we want to mess around but we don't want it to ruin our friendship. So we have made plans to get togther once a month and have a good time. Do you think that this will ruin our friendship or make us stronger. By the way we are both married women and nither of us plans to tell what we are doing. We have been friends for 12years.

2007-12-26 07:31:30 · 19 answers · asked by KH 2

Nothing sappy or romantic and I don't have much money. And skip the sexual answers...

Something he'd enjoy being that he's a man's man.

KEY WORD is COOL.

2007-12-26 07:25:37 · 20 answers · asked by Roslin 2

My ex and I have a divorce decree. I picked up my son for Christmas break. She tried to tell me that she has the right to know where I am taking my son for Christmas and that me traveling with my girlfriend violates the morale clause in our divorce decree. i could not find anywhere that stated I had to tell her where I take him when he is in my posession. Does anyone have experience in this area? She is also giving me a hard time about letting my girlfriend take my son to his doctors appointment while I am at work.

2007-12-26 07:25:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

so here is my proble. Im 18 and currently a full time student and fulll time employee. I met my fieance in june and we hit it off right them. Im very much in love with him and could tell him things that i have honestly never told anyone. His family loves me and my family likes him. thats the problem. Only his mom and sister and my two siters know we are engaged (out of our families) im scared to tell my parents because i think they will flip since i hvaent been dating him for that long. but once you know, you know. I dont know when i should tell them about this. any advice?

2007-12-26 07:24:30 · 12 answers · asked by danielle 1

I am in a truly bad situation and have no idea what to do. I am married for 10 months now, but this is so hard. I left my ex-boyfriend of 4 years before I got married, only bcs. he stalled about marrying me and I thought he would never do it, telling me to wait etc. I knew he wasnt with another girl, he said he wanted to wait. So, I dumped him, met a friend from my past and we were married about 6 months later. I thought I would be able to forget my ex and be happy, but neither has ocurred. I know I still love my ex and he still loves me and he really is the love of my life.

If I knew that I could divorce my husband and go back to my ex w/o any problems, then I would. However, I know that maybe we would feel different, maybe he wouldnt want, I wouldnt, etc. My situation is "stable," but I am not 100% happy and miss my ex too much.
I just dont know if I can risk a divorce bcs if it doesnt work out with my ex, then I will be all alone and that would be worse. What would you do?

2007-12-26 07:21:31 · 15 answers · asked by roxana.lopez30 1

is that they would start with babydoll nighties on and the ruffled panties underneath. After that would be the bra, garter stockings, petticoat, heels, and dress.
Would stockings or pantyhose be funnier!
Then maybe have them have to do some dusting and prancing in their heels
This would be part of a charity fund raiser

2007-12-26 07:15:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

if so why? Or why not?

2007-12-26 07:14:50 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous

her biological father has lived 3 miles away from us all her life and never see's her .his choice .i was married in aug.this year and she wants her stepfather to take care of her if i die.what are the chances her real father will get her. becouse the only reason he would is for the money he;s offerd to sell her to me on seversl occasions.well i can have her if i pay him child support back witch he has paid very little of.can she chooes who she lives with?

2007-12-26 07:04:33 · 10 answers · asked by freedom 2