Me and my best friend have been friends for years. Well a couple of months ago we were out at a club and we ended up making out. Now we are kind of like we want to mess around but we don't want it to ruin our friendship. So we have made plans to get togther once a month and have a good time. Do you think that this will ruin our friendship or make us stronger. By the way we are both married women and nither of us plans to tell what we are doing. We have been friends for 12years.
2007-12-26 07:31:30 · 19 answers · asked by KH 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You are married...and screwing around with another woman is still cheating....and I am pretty sure that it will ruin your relationship eventually....
2007-12-26 07:37:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You've both already ruined yours and her family. Go see a counselor and restore your marriages and perspectives before both familes are left in complete ashes from this blaze of a mess.
2007-12-26 07:55:33 · answer #2 · answered by splashdesign238 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say it won't ruin your friendship as much as it will ruin the relationship you have with your husband. Cheating is still cheating even if it is with another woman. If you sit your husband down and tell him whats going on he might actually understand.. however you might end up losing your husband because of this. good luck
2007-12-26 07:41:06 · answer #3 · answered by Life*goes*on 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If both of you want to do it then go ahead. The only problem I have with it is doing it behind your husband's back. You should at least let him know about it. Most guys would love that, but then again we would all want to watch or join in too, and I don't know if you guys are into that. If you decide to keep it secret though then make sure you both are committed to the secret. Good luck.
2007-12-26 07:37:11 · answer #4 · answered by No one 4 · 2⤊ 2⤋
My partner is my best friend & I like her sexually after 15 years
2007-12-26 07:41:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok. I found my bestfriend attactive too and messed around with her as well. You guys both know what ya like so its perfect!! I dont think it will hurt the friendship because if it would of it would of already happened.
2007-12-26 07:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by Rita 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
Yeah it's wrong, dose your husband get a free pass every month and are you deceiving/lying to him about your activities?
2007-12-26 07:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
um i guess it could ruin the relationship because both of your spouses may not like this idea of being "together"
2007-12-26 07:46:39 · answer #8 · answered by God Bless America!~ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats tough I would hope that my wife would share her desires with me... though I would prefer it were not with a married woman.....kinda kills the fantasy..... but why not bring the husbands into the loop??? it may make for some really fun nights
2007-12-26 07:35:34 · answer #9 · answered by no religion know peace 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
so u are cheating on ur husband... with another woman? sicko.... i dont know about ruining your friendship with ur friend, but u will definitely ruin ur relationship with ur husband! poor guy... no offence, but u should be ashamed.
2007-12-26 07:36:55 · answer #10 · answered by fsh 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋