Marriage & Divorce - 26 December 2007

Ive been married for 9years and found out my husbands been cheating.It started within the 1st month of our marriage.

2007-12-26 07:00:37 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

I have heared that my wife has cheated on me 3 times. With 3 differant guys. the first one was her last ex. I dont truely believe that one. But the other 2???? The second one i called her house to talk to her. they were having a party that night. The person that piced up the phone was my wifes friend at the time, and said she was at the park with some guy. The people in the background said the same thing. And finally the third. Her most serious ex. She went to court one morning wile i watched her daughter. She got home about 1hr after she said she would be home. The next day her friend the same one from above told me that her and the ex fooled around after court. I was upset so i asked the ex. His words were "well kissing is not all we did" with a laughing tone. My wife nor myself can prove wether she did or did not cheat. Should i believe her at her word???

2007-12-26 06:58:33 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for 6 years, we have a 3 year old daughter that he never pays any attention to. When he is home with us he just sits around watching TV, sleeping, or talking about being bored. He has went to the doctor and was told he is suffering from depression, he has medication but he will not take it. He can go for days without speaking to me and when he does talk most of the time he is complaining about something. I have put up with it as long as I can. Is there anything else I can do or should I just take our daughter and leave him.

2007-12-26 06:57:30 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

So do you think that gay marriage should be allowed? If no, why????

2007-12-26 06:56:32 · 26 answers · asked by 100% ME 2

I have a psycho-ex and have just found out that he has been researching all of my posts on here. I am really creeped out and want to know how someone can research an individual's posts on here if your privacy settings are set so that no one can read your past questions and answers. What can be done to prevent this? And hello Psycho-Jerk if you are still monitoring me.

2007-12-26 06:51:55 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous

How can I tell my wife I want to quit my job and become an internet smut peddler?

2007-12-26 06:49:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-26 06:47:12 · 37 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3

I Luv a girl.She is 31 & me 24. I want marry with her. but her father doesn't agree about this. he saying to her that if she will marry to me he will sucide. the problem is i am from hindu(Saini) family and she is from Hindu(Solanki) family. that is why her father saying that "hamari naak neeechi ho jayegi puri cast main" but her younger brother is ready for this. and i know she loves me lot. And she cries all the time when we talk to each other reply pls.

Can I take help from any WOMEN ASSOCIATION.
plz any one help me.

2007-12-26 06:46:09 · 18 answers · asked by Kaavya 1

I am married, 23 weeks pregnant and have a 22 month old step-son. Before I got married I was active in emergency medicine and volinteered on the local fire department. When I got married I quit all of that stuff to stay home and be a wife and mother but now 8 months later I miss working in emergency medicine so bad I can hardly stand it. I dream about it almost every night. I told my husband how I feel and he said that if I miss it that bad I need to be involved in it but I know he doesn't really want me to. I also feel really guilty about wanting to leave my family. I think the womans place is at home taking care of the house and the kids but I have always been really independant and that is harder to let go of than I realized. Am I being selfish by wanting to join the fire department again? This would require me having to leave my family at home during all hours of the day and night.

2007-12-26 06:38:21 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous

My friend who I have known for years... 20+ actually is on marriage #3. Her last husband left her to due the fact she couldn't conceive children.. ( lame I know). She met her current husband on Yahoo personals. She found really great evidence of him cheating on her early on. She also moved in with him right off the bat. Of course she kicked him out.. and he was back 2 weeks later with a wedding date set. I asked why would she do that and accept such a crap deal;? She said she just couldn't make it on her own despite the previous alimony and child support. Since then... she has had a baby with hubby#3 and she told me he wasn't thrilled about being a dad. I don't agree with my friend, but it is her life.

2007-12-26 06:29:05 · 20 answers · asked by BeeBee 3

I mean he had to have known what I was thinking...C'Mon I spend more time down the hall cuddled up with his widowed father than I do sleeping with him.



I hate to call the man slow but PLEASE!

2007-12-26 06:14:11 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous

i've been living with him for 2 years together for 3 have a baby together perfect relationship he's a great guy he's been married twice before. he says he's not ready to get married right now but he does want to eventually and that he loves me a lot and never wants to break up. i just don't understand why he wouldn't want to get married he's done it twice before and they were horrible to him and i treat him great.

2007-12-26 06:11:20 · 26 answers · asked by luvkisses 4

My husband got fired and has been unemployed for four months. He spends an average of 1-2 hours per day looking for work and/or interviewing. I have provided him with books and materials on how to conduct a successful job search. He recently got a job for 10 hours a week but it is a new company so the prospects are uncertain.

For Christmas he didn't give any sort of gift to me or my family even though he knew we were spending hundreds of dollars on him. He did buy a bottle of wine for one of his friend's family and is going to go snow boarding with his friends with his own money.

So when I try to talk to him about all this and express my concerns/hurts, he says yes I know the average person would have dumped me by now. But nothing comes after it as to how we might solve the problem or where his priorities are. He says his priority is me but I thought actions speak louder than words? I'm so confused and don't know what to do?

2007-12-26 06:08:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

supporting his 2 brothers and mom.. i dont wanna be mean or anything but he spends more money on them than me!!

he has 4 brothers, one is a doctor who makes good money but does NOT support anyone but his wife and kids!!

the brothers my husband supports refuse to work!!

i've talked to my hubby about it before but he just says.. they're family i have to support them! but i'm his wife and the mother of his unborn child! he should put us before anyone else!

how do i get him to change???

he's a stock broker and makes a decent amount of money but we can barely ever save anything!

before we were married we decided to live w/his mom for one year (so we could save enough money for a home, furniture, new car, etc.)
his brother surprisingly got married a month after us to a girl he knew for 3 weeks so now they live with us and they're both crazy and sooo annoying and disrespectful!

help!!!

2007-12-26 06:03:57 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4

for about a month now, we have been seeing each other some and talking more... now he says he just needs time to trust me again, but he is still very secretive about his life. How much time is too much time? I just don't want to waste time playing games.

2007-12-26 06:00:46 · 9 answers · asked by lindsey t 1

My partner & i are both 25yo & we've really not had the chance to learn who we have become because we've been in a very commited relationship at the same time as we've been busy becoming adults. I'm starting to think we've grown in slightly different directions, but he's my best friend & i would hate to ruin that!

2007-12-26 05:54:31 · 18 answers · asked by crazy gal 1

When my husband and his ex wife went to court for child support they both lived in NY state. We now live in NC and in 2006 his ex wife moved to Indiana at which time she contacted the child support enforcement agency and asked them to close the account (the payments were being deducted from his paychecks at that time). After she moved she asked him to just pay her directly so there is no court order for support through the state of Indiana where she now lives. His son is now 15 and his daughter will turn 18 in February. Can anyone tell me at what age the support is supposed to stop for a child?

2007-12-26 05:54:12 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-26 05:52:23 · 15 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3

Me and wife have been married since July and found out she was pregnant about a month ago. She told me the other night that she wants me out of the house and she wants to get back with her ex but he does not want her. I asked if the baby was mineand she got mad saying that I should have not asked her that. Was I wrong in doing so?

2007-12-26 05:50:58 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous

in the state of florida. how far back does child support go when it comes to determining back pay,and child support payments. I believe I've heard 2 years but I'm not sure. thanks for the answers in advance

2007-12-26 05:49:13 · 3 answers · asked by skitzomama 1

specifically my 401 k.i wanted to take a loan but they said i need her signature.is there ANY way around this.are there any mistakes people make that you can warn me of.i dont mind giving my wife her fair share but she is angry as hell because i aint running back to her cheating @zs.help men of the world.i live in new york city.i know rules are different in each state.

2007-12-26 05:48:01 · 12 answers · asked by hyung a 2

Is this true for some marriages?

2007-12-26 05:44:50 · 17 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3

She originally first cheated with a female co-worker in 2004, Now with a guy who is also a member of the 12-step fellowship she belongs to! And really she'd claim that he was just a friend only to have read a text message one morning about "We should call in sick to work.. LOL" Any thoughts why she could be so dam cold.........?

2007-12-26 05:35:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-26 05:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by smoothirene 1

My husband and I have been married for 2.5 years. We have had a great marriage so far. I stay at home and take care of things around the house but I also had a small online job that I would make about $600/month or so. When we first got engaged, he knew I wanted to be a stay at home wife/mom but I was making the extra money at home just to help out a bit. Now, I am 4 months pregnant and suddenly my online job seems to be fading and Im down to making less than half of the money as I was doing before. I always paid for the groceries, and my own bills (small credit card bills, put gas in my car, ect.) and now Im getting worried that I will not be able to help out anymore. He makes decent money and he SAYS that I dont HAVE to work, but now he says that he always wanted me to work (even though he said otherwise in the begining). I feel like I am disappointing him. I am desperately looking for jobs now and Im very depressed about it. Its like all of a sudden now, hes not happy and I know why

2007-12-26 05:26:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I barely have money left over after paying bills?
ok i make about 2200 a month. my fiancee makes around $800 a mth.she gets child support from her kids dad at 325 a month. the kids are 4 and 2. right now its so hard for me and my fiancee to budget money. part of me is wondering if the bills are too high or we just need to cut down on stuff. right now we have rent- 825. car payment- $360. car insurance- $226. cable- $75 $103- cell phone plan- 1400 minutes for 89.99. $10- text messaging both lines. $4.00- roadside assistance. $325 student loan- its in default. trying to get it out. gas for car-$400. yes about 100 a week. and lets not forget laundry and groceries. the reason my gas is so high is because the 4 year goes to school goes to school out of our district. he was already registered before we moved. also i live about 30 minutes from my job. and its a lot of stop and go traffic in philly.

2007-12-26 05:24:27 · 11 answers · asked by dgmotley 2

my husband slapped my leg (hard) while we were playing a game with guests to get my attention. I can't get past this. It was very humiliating. I don't know what to do. I'm giving him the silent treatment because he thinks he said he's sorry and I should be able to get over it.

2007-12-26 05:20:50 · 22 answers · asked by kazer4 2

2007-12-26 05:19:37 · 9 answers · asked by chashe 1

My ex husband gave up his parental right when my daughter was 3 years of age Iremarrried and my husband addopted her at age 7, she is now 21 , can the ex-husband, come back into her life now leagally

2007-12-26 05:14:41 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

Me- FREEZING cold! Not even a blanket w/ thermols will help
Him- Hot so he goes and turns OFF the heater!

Anyone else have this problem? what a gentelman, huh!
(I dont really hate him, I am just venting. Brrrrrr)

2007-12-26 05:07:30 · 18 answers · asked by none-ya 2