2007-12-26 05:52:23 · 15 answers · asked by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, I did. Even on the morning of that wedding my father said to me "if you are not sure, don't do it" but I thought about all the money he'd spent on my wedding and went ahead anyway only to divorce a few years later. Thankfully there were no children!
2007-12-26 06:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course. I feel now a days people are marrying the wrong spouse more than ever. People tend to rush into marriage without truly getting to know the other person or they marry knowing there are unresolved issues that could grow in the future. People also end up with the wrong spouse when they have unwanted pregnancies and get married trying to make things right.
2007-12-26 05:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yep! Twice!
I married my college sweetheart; we were both teachers and he pastored a church. We had two beautiful children and our dream house in the country. THEN....he walked out. I found out he was a child molester. My heart was broken by the whole thing. My dreams all crashed.
Then I married again and we had a beautiful baby. He loved her and was great with my children too. But he ignored me for 24 years. He was a loner.
Now I'm living alone. I have many friends and a wonderful daughter and son-in-law and a whole bunch of super grandchildren and I AM HAPPIER than I've ever been before.
2007-12-26 06:03:36 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well, if the spouse winds up being abusive or an incorrigible cheat, sure. However, most of the problem is with ourselves, and not our spouses. If we can continue to choose to love someone through thick and thin, then it can work out with just about anyone. The trick is whether or not we are willing to keep working at it.
2007-12-26 06:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by tinman 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you mean the wrong person, I suppose it has happened when someone was drunk.
If you mean "wrong" from the standpoint of the marriage being bad, yes, many of us had. It seemed like a good idea at the time, as the saying goes.
2007-12-26 05:57:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Just don't do it. Marriage is like gambling...its already set up for you to lose. If you are "lucky"...after spending a lot of time and money...you might end up happy. Take your chances, but get a prenup and stay in contact with others you are interested in.
2007-12-26 06:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by Vinny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seeing as 50% of all marriages in this country end in divorce, I would say that a great many millions marry the wrong person.
2007-12-26 05:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's happened to me. I left my first husband 6 years ago, and have since re-married. Now that I've had time to look back on things, I wish I had stayed with my ex.
2007-12-26 06:05:56 · answer #8 · answered by makeloans2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mmm, not yet, and i hope i dont
my mother and father have been happily married for 16 years now, and i hope whoever i end up with, i love as much as they love each other.
and knowing how protective my father is,
he wont let me marry the wrong spouse(:
2007-12-26 06:14:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
actually no. My ex husband and I didn't "fit right" but everything happens for a reason. If I would have stayed with him, I wouldn't have met my current "soon to be ex" and never have had my daughter. Life is about learning!
2007-12-26 06:44:07 · answer #10 · answered by Life*goes*on 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋