2007-12-26 05:32:02 · 11 answers · asked by smoothirene 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why would you marry someone else when you are in love with another man? This makes no sense. Need more details, please.
2007-12-26 05:34:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it looks like for some reason you were obliged to marry this man. You married him right? well don't forget that you made sworn vows to this man in front of god and yourselves. Listen love the man you married. Look for something new in him everyday and god willing you will fall in love with your hubby. The other guy is considered the past. You can have good memories about your past love but don't dwell over him.
2007-12-26 13:41:59 · answer #2 · answered by Noel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Was this an arranged marriage? If so, then you made your decision and need to stick with it, i.e. you need to move on with your new husband and forget the man you left behind. I would suggest talking with a counselor who has expertise in this area.
2007-12-26 13:38:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like there isn't much you can do now. Unfortunately, you've already made your choice and acted on it. All you can do is to learn to love and respect your current spouse.
2007-12-26 14:11:45 · answer #4 · answered by Benji's Mommy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Reevaluate what you think love is. If you are willing to leave the person you supposedly love then you are just fooling yourself.
2007-12-26 13:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Meg 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Well the first thing would be, try to be less complicated!!
Explore the idea that you are a masochist?
get some therapy??
Give us some more details if this doesn't work!!
2007-12-26 13:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Suzita 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
never leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.
2007-12-26 13:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry friend theres nothing you cant do... but make the person you married your best choice
2007-12-26 13:42:06 · answer #8 · answered by King J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me explain...this might make you feel better: THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS LOVE! IT IS LUST AND HAVING ENOUGH TOLERANCE NOT TO JUMP OFF A CLIFF FROM AGGREVATION...THAT IS ALL THERE IS!
Feel Better?
2007-12-26 13:34:41 · answer #9 · answered by irish_jimmy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You look in the mirror and ask "what the he!! were you thinking?"
2007-12-26 13:35:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋