Marriage & Divorce - 26 December 2007

my ex who I have been split for for 5 years and we have a 9 year old son together has just asked me to have dna done?there is no question at all that he is not jis and I have nothing to hide but I know he is upto something he also wants parental responsability?and to be put on the birth certificate ! he cheated on me thaths why I left him and he has recently married a girl from praugue and all of a sudden all this can anyone shed any light this is like the biggest slap in the face I have ever had !!im 100 per cent sure hes his he is like his twin aswell! would anyone know w hat he may be upto he is also a high earner could it be tax?

2007-12-26 04:57:33 · 2 answers · asked by Country Girl 3

2007-12-26 04:31:05 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-26 04:30:39 · 25 answers · asked by Mariachi123 1

Do wome ever fantasize about being with another guy in front of their significant other?
Or doing while out then telling him about it when you get home? And showing him evidence? Serious only pls

2007-12-26 04:30:05 · 10 answers · asked by MJ 2

2007-12-26 04:29:05 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

How's a guy supposed to "do it" and draw it out long enough so she gets her feel good before he does? I want this to be all natural...

2007-12-26 04:26:27 · 12 answers · asked by It's the hair 5

My boyfriend's ex-wife did not have their kids call him on Christmas. He lives in a different state and she has pretty much alienated him from her life. They kids call sporadically (they are 8 and 4) and since he lives out of state, he visits when he can. His ex does not answer the phone when he calls and does not return messages. He completely pays for all their support (house, cars, food, expenses) even though he had a job loss at the beginning of the year. They have not finished their divorce yet. I understand the what it feels like to call and call and leave messages and yet be rejected everytime. He is trying hard to be strong, but he broke down and cried yesterday because they did not call. I think he was just praying they would. He probably couldn't bear to try himself because they never answer. Has anyone been through this before? How can he overcome this?

2007-12-26 04:23:54 · 9 answers · asked by Helpful26 2

a guy I know has told his wife that he wishes she would cheat on him so he could get a divorce. ignores her, never takes her out, makes her sit at home alone while he goes out and has fun. hes a total loser. during the worst time of MY married life i would never have said anything like that to my wife out of sheer respect. opinions?

2007-12-26 04:23:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

I'm 23, have been married for a little over a year, and we have two children together (youngest is 9 months). My husband is completely un-romantic. When I try to be initiate some romance of any kind, he'll ignore me or tell me he's busy. When I try to show him affection he occasionally gets annoyed and pushes me off, even in front our friends, and (not to sound vain) but I know I'm beautiful, although he rarely even compliments me. His idea of quality time is playing x-box while I sit on the couch. He can be incredibly cruel, cold, and callous. Things have become so bad between us I have considered leaving, but I couldn't afford to and for the sake of our children I would like for us to be a happy family. If I try talking with him about this, even kindly and without accusations, he gets very angry. I have no idea what to do, but I am MISERABLE. I feel like I'm nothing at all to him. Any advice would be well appreciated

2007-12-26 04:18:23 · 50 answers · asked by Anonymous

I ask, only intelligent answers.

I am in Iraq, a soldier.

been married for 2 years and adopted her child that is 3. The child only knows me as her father.

Well, My wifes ex that she dated about 3 years before I has always been a friend of my wife. i have met him and of course seemed very respectful. I know how all men are though.

One night while I have deployed (8 months ago) she was drunk and she said he took advantage. NOW she does not deny that she was drunk and horny, so by no means is this rape or anything like this. Well, she is pregnant now, and for months she has begged for me to forgive her. For the last 8 months I just told her we will see how things work out and she must stop talking to him altogther. She has done this to my knowledge.

SERIOUS replies

Do you think I should divorce her or forgive her?

2007-12-26 04:09:31 · 29 answers · asked by azz hole 2

Did you intentionally "stick" it to him or did life just do it for you?

2007-12-26 04:09:29 · 44 answers · asked by Sondra 6

I want to see what married people might think about my situation, I'm asking this again cause I'm thinking of changing my phone number ...

ok so i want to see what people on here think about my ex.. I caught her with a married guy about 3 years ago and haven't spoken to her in about 2 years... So the dude got her pregnant and walked out on her out of fear that his wife will find out...

so now she's calling me for money cause he's having a tough time with the baby and lost her job for coming in f*cked up all the time from partying the night before.. I say F*ck her but one of my friends says i have to think about the child involved, especially since the baby's father's 'profession' pretty much indicates the support amount the court sets will be next to nothing

btw.. on christmas eve i saw her on caller ID again!! I didn't pick up cause one of my friends is trying to convince me to help her... and since it was christmas I was considering it

2007-12-26 03:51:31 · 28 answers · asked by Undead 3

I flirted with an old friend, never had sex with her. We flirted for a short period of time. My wife's had it and now wants to leave me. Any suggestions on what i need to do to earn her trust?

2007-12-26 03:47:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

I worked with this person for over a year and was initially attracted to her physically, but recently we took a business trip together and I have since developed strong feelings for her. I have not told her anything, and have no idea how she feels towards me, although I have a sense that she feels somewhat the same towards me. Obviously, this is causing problems in my marriage, and I really want to have never met this person. My wife and I are married for 2 years and I have been faithful to her but I am finding it impossible to ignore these feelings towards my coworker. I need help.

2007-12-26 03:38:46 · 24 answers · asked by Jason R 1

If your f in law torments you with his problems with his own son?
I can't take it anymore, seems to me I'm married to the 2 of them.

2007-12-26 03:33:33 · 12 answers · asked by nomorecapri 5

or was like now where everyone knows its kind of a joke and everyone cheats and its only bad if you get caught and everone goes to their dad's on the weekends

2007-12-26 03:32:09 · 57 answers · asked by Anonymous

Ex love of my life went back to old ex girlfriend 2 months ago. they are both 59. I am 44 and since accidentally seeing him out he has emailed me and txted me over 80 messages and professes his love for me. he states that his girlfriend..he loves as a person but could never be in love with anyone but me. My son loves him too he is 11. My question is...why won't he make up his mind about us. NOW. Says he doesn't want to hurt his old new girlfriend. I have waited and cried for the last 6 weeks. I am a very strong woman who thought I knew what to do. Am getting tired of waiting on the side lines. Have never been this in love in all my life, but it's killing me. HELP please????how much time should he be given to chose???

2007-12-26 03:24:54 · 13 answers · asked by sharpneedleinahaystack 1

I saw that my ex-husband has advertised again on a matrimonial website. He is logging in each day to respond to any interest that he receives.

We have been divorced for a few years now, but I still feel sad about the thought of him moving on. How can I keep from feeling this way?

I don't know for sure if he will get remarried soon, but he does have time off in January so he may be trying to get resettled. If he has time off, he can meet people in different states, etc.

2007-12-26 03:20:12 · 15 answers · asked by Stareyes 5

Okay, my friend has 2 children. She wants to leave, but doesn't know where else to go besides to a different state. She can find a job and support her children in the new state. Her husband is a bit (more than a bit) of a jerk. He doesn't give a crud about the kids, yells at the 4 year old all the time, and is mean and controlling of her. He hasn't physically been abusive, but emotionally and verbally he has. Now, I guess the question here is where can we find information that will help her make the choice to leave. She is scared that if she moves out of state that she will be kidnapping the children. And also how long before she can file for divorce once she moves to Colorado. Any help with this will be appreciated!

2007-12-26 03:15:20 · 14 answers · asked by mlpsq1996 2

Two kids, 14 and 5. What to do with them for new years.

2007-12-26 03:06:51 · 7 answers · asked by FMC 1

As a parent, what are the legal rights in LIMITING/TERMINATING VISTATION RIGHTS by a STEP-Grandparent??

We have a case where the recently married maternal STEP-Grandparent is a MEDDLER, trying to negatively interfere in our family's life.

He is only related to us by Marriage, not Blood.

The Maternal Grandmother is ok, if neurotic and bearable. She submits to her new husband's domination, and expects us to do the same.

The Maternal Grandfather is perfectly fine, has a large supportive extended family, and is genuinely supportive of our family. He does not get along with the Step-Grandfather either, naturally.

Our issue is with the recently married Step-Grandfather, and how can we legally remove him from visiting/influencing our children?

We have no probs with the Grandmother visiting, just want her to do so with out her newly married husband, who is no blood relation to either family.

Thank you.

2007-12-26 03:04:33 · 9 answers · asked by soulravah 1

My boyfriend and I have a baby together, and I have twins from a previous marriage, and he has a son also. We are living with his parents, and he absolutely will make no sacrifices so that we can get a place of our own. He will not stop smoking or drinking beer. It costs a lot of money! If he were to make these sacrifices, money would still be tight, but we could make it out on our own. I tool the debit card from him, and he said "the first morning I don't have money you can pack your bags and get out". The card has my name on it. I wouldn't forget to do things for him if he treated me a little better. I never spend any money except for gas and diapers, and maybe a little baby tylenol. I never even have a full tank of gas. He says it's my fault we're in the negative, but this is impossible, because I never spend anything but 50 bucks or so. He says it's because I write checks without telling him and he doesn't know what's in the bank. I can't see how it would matter because I spend so

2007-12-26 03:02:41 · 10 answers · asked by scottishbeauty 2

I had my husband arrested last night after he slapped my daughter so hard in the face he left welts. He's never slapped her or anyone else before, but once was enough for me. I'm done with him. I'm getting a divorce.

But everyone seems to think I "jumped the gun" and should have just talked to him about it before calling the cops and "tearing up the family."

I don't know what to think.

2007-12-26 02:56:09 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous

Those old dining chairs of ours need to be repainted. My wife said she will take the old paint off, but I want to watch her strip the wood to make sure she is doing it right.

2007-12-26 02:54:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous

My husband and I have been married for over a year now... he just told me last night that he feels that he feels that I am just obsessed with him and not in love with him and that I need to get a hobbie or something becasue he doesnt think that this is healthy to make him "my world." Ya, I dont really have many friends and I dont get out much but I go to work at 3 in the morning and get off at 11. This kills my day because I go home, take a nap, make us dinner, than I have to go to bed....could he be right... Should I have more in my life to do/worry about then him? Am I too obsessed?

2007-12-26 02:51:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-26 02:51:23 · 9 answers · asked by goodness 3

Well somehow this movie affected my relationship. I'm sleeping with this guy who is married. From the first time I saw him I knew he was the one. He is feeling guilty from seeing this movie. I 'm not going to stop seeing him ever. Take him being married out of the equation ok I need help getting my man back ?

2007-12-26 02:48:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

My boyfirends Ex calls and texts out of nowhere still. Not often, but enough. He has picked up the phone in frontof me and has told her in no uncertain terms to STOP contacting him, hes moved on, and is in a healthy happy relationship. a month later she texts "merry xmas" Mind u this is the same woman who he left his wife for...so i have reason to be a tad suspicious. She has since married , yet still txts my bf...should i call her back, text her back or let it go. BF says he doesnt care what i do, he will do whatever i feel better about.

2007-12-26 02:47:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

Regarding relationships being in one or not being in one. I know timing is everything but how much time does a person need to know what they want,who they want, and where they are going in life? How would you know what could be and what is destined for you and what can happen if don't take that leap of faith and just try? Are we afraid of failure or are we afraid of the thought of lossing apart of ourselves and our freedom to be with whoever, whenever, and not having to hear anyones mouth.

2007-12-26 02:46:37 · 7 answers · asked by Sweetface24 2

I am leaving my wife a life-time diary to the farmhouse and she will have the option to sell if she needs to for medical reasons. After that, it is going to ALL the kids (including the step-kids). I am not giving the kids an option to sell as long as they have kids. Three of the kids don't have a problem with that. My oldest son is mad as a hornet about it. He doesn't even want my wife to be allowed back there if something happens to me. But, I am now wondering about cutting his share of the property because he is messing in drugs pretty bad and has a huge anger problem. He has pulled guns on people and I think he has stole some things but I can't be sure about that. He doesn't want anything to do with us unless it invovles giving him money or gifts. I had always planned on everything among the kids being equal but I'm not sure anymore. He is just mean now. My wife suggested if he wants his share that he has to pass surprise drug tests. What do you think?

2007-12-26 02:43:41 · 7 answers · asked by Love_to_Fish 1