2007-12-26 04:30:39 · 25 answers · asked by Mariachi123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Man u never learn. If she is cheating on her husband now she will cheat on you plain and simple. Quit being a chump and a homewrecker, quit ruining families and kids lives. This women is trash, she puts her physical needs over her families needs. Do u really want to be her next victim?
2007-12-26 11:45:19 · answer #1 · answered by Oliverclothesoff 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your an idiot. Do you feel u need to keep asking the same question over and over until u get the answer you want? She is married moron. If this is the same women with three kids do you want ruin her childrens lives? If she is married how do u know you not a booty call? If she would cheat on her husband what makes u think she won't cheat on you? How many men has she cheated on before? Women who do this have deep seeded issues more than whats on the surface. She obviously has not dealt with something from her past if she feels the need to cheat on her husband. If she really wanted to deal with this properly she'd divorce her husband and then date. She get her head right before she looked to break more hearts. Don't look for trouble cause you'll find it.
2007-12-27 13:29:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You maybe in love but is she really,,,, she maybe just be in love with the excitement of it all. Being desired by two men, keeping the secret from her husband, and the passion that is involved with cheating. Its easy to say that you love someone when you only deal with them on a part time basis. There is a lot more to a relationship then just love. And even if she does feel the same way about you who 's to say that if she leaves the husband for you that she won't cheat on you just like she did on him. Or better yet cheat on you with him. Any way you look at it its a bad situation.
2007-12-26 12:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by Zakiya W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you both love each other then you should end your current relationships so you stop hurting them. They might not know now, but when they do know its going to hurt a lot and if there are children then its going to be messy and the children are going to be hurt. Its not going to be easy but you have two choices; leaving your current spouse or stop the love you have for the married woman. This isn't a good situation at all.
2007-12-26 12:37:40 · answer #4 · answered by slc 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel I am kind of in the same condition. You need to both sit down and talk about things. Is she willing to seperate from this man? Are you willing to maybe help her in finding a new place to stay? What will happen between the two of you when she does leave him? These are all questions you two need to discuss. It won't be easy if you two decide to make a go with a realtionship. But, relationships are always hard. And if she is refusing to leave her husband or forces you to wait for long periods of time. Then she might be using you or can't decide between the two of you.
2007-12-26 13:29:36 · answer #5 · answered by S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First issue she is MARRIED!!!!!
You Should never get involved with a married person. NEVER!!!!!
Hopefully you are not married, if you are then you may not like what I have to say but look at it this way if she already cheated and if she divorces her husband for you then what makes you think she won't do the same to you. This is one of the problems in this country and society. Seems like you already have a relationship with her regardless if you had sex or not but Your relationship will never last with her. MOVE ON and if you are married then go to therapy and get help. Nobody likes cheaters except cheaters.
2007-12-26 12:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't know how big or little in stature the other guy is but have you ever heard of crimes of passion? Its dangerous for both of you unless you have a death wish and since your wearing a pair wouldn't you kick the living hell out of the other guy if you were in his shoes? Just for a piece are you that hard up, my question is, what, you can't get a single hot chick. Man I'm not going to trust you around my wife and family. Stay away.
2007-12-26 12:51:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ther is no fucture in you loving a married woman so do your self a favor and keep moving on and find someone who will love you that is not taken okay and save your self from being hurt uneccerary pain
best of luck
2007-12-26 12:40:42 · answer #8 · answered by mmurray001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The right thing to do .. is to leave it alone.
I am a Christian .. and that is my belief.
You have much to consider .. such as future consequences .. and other lives being torn apart ... people hurt ... homes & marriages destroyed, etc.
Also ... I heard someone say .. the grass is not greener on the other side.
You might consider how long you have been in love? .. if a short while, it could pass.
There are so many things to consider. Your need to really think about this .. and all your options .. the future .. and other people.
The choices we make in our lives - determines what our lives are all about daily.
2007-12-26 12:43:47 · answer #9 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am in this situation now. Most will say back off. First of all, is she going to leave her husband? Do not make any emotional commitment if not. Do not be a booty call if you feel you love her. If she is going to leave him, it will be a process, but it can work. Ask her, and find out how invested she is in the relationship before you get hurt.
2007-12-26 12:39:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋