Marriage & Divorce - 26 December 2007

2007-12-26 02:29:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

my ex partner has never seen his daughter i am wanting him off her birth cert and i want to cancel child support so he doesnt have to pay and he will have no rights to her i am happily with my current partner and we want to get married and he wants to adopt my daughter does anyone know about this process and how hard is it to do this when i dont know where my ex lives????? plz help

2007-12-26 02:28:33 · 2 answers · asked by Lauren S 1

2007-12-26 02:25:00 · 15 answers · asked by ram22 1

I'm the only one in mine.

2007-12-26 02:20:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

We have been married for 2 years and agreed no strip clubs or porn unless we are togther. For his bacholor party, he went to a top notch totally nude strip club and doesnt remember how many lap dances he got! After that, I have found out that he looked at porn because his underwear is by the computer or a porn site pops up when I start typing. Why does he do this to me? I gave him nude photos of me but he chose porn videos online instead. We got in a huge fight and he said that he loves me and the way I look. It must be a lie if he has to look at others. How can I get him to like me more instead of other woman? Why does he do this?

2007-12-26 02:16:48 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Last night, I had my husband arrested. He has never been violent in the past, but yesterday he slapped our 4 year old hard enough to leave welts on her face. It took me completely by surprise and I called the cops immediately. I can't let anyone get away with treating my kids in such a way.

He was arrested for child abuse and now here I am without him. I've been a stay at home mom. I need to find a job so I can support my kids. I need to figure out how I'm going to get my rent together this month. I'm overwhelmed and on top of everything else I keep grieving the man that my husband used to be. I found out he didn't pass his drug test at the jail last night, which explains why his mood was so strange. But I could never trust him around my kids again, so we're done for good now. I'm just heartbroken and sick that it had to end because I truly do love him- but not enough to keep my kids at risk of his behavior.

I can't afford any counseling right now. I just need some friendly advice..

2007-12-26 02:12:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous

She married in Texas and live there for 6 months, then moved to WV and lived here for 3 mo. She wants a divorce from a deadbeat man. WV law says you have to be a resident for one year. Does she have any options?

2007-12-26 02:09:31 · 2 answers · asked by spagetts1 2

After all he's done to me and taken from me, I shouod be happy to be rid of him. I have my own house, 2 vehicles, a 6 figure job, horses and wonderful son and family.....he has nothing. He used to live in a luxury home with credit cards galore at hjis disposal.....not anymore. Now hw lives with his crack head mother and her boyfriend on parole. He has no car, no money, no job, no phone...but he does have his freedom. He can stick his di#$ into any mud puddle that winks at him....afterall, a guy like this knows nothing about quality. I got mixed up with the wrong person, I believed his lies over and over, I supported him for 1.5 years and spoiled him....don't you think MAYBE he regrets his actions?

2007-12-26 02:00:05 · 26 answers · asked by jenny 1

My husband and I have been married for 10 years and have two small children. However, my husband and I have not been sexual with each other since the conception of my second child which is almost six years ago. He's never been into me and I finally got tired of it so I stopped having any feelings for him. But, lately, I'm thinking that I need and deserve to be loved and cared for. So, I told him that I want a divorce. But, we have two kids in private school and he said the only way he would agree to it is to take the kids out of their school and put them in a public school. Divorce would be hard enough on them without taking them out of their normal environment. But, if I stay, I will continue to be depressed and this is not good for my kids either. So, what should I do????

2007-12-26 01:56:49 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I am so confused and don't know what to do. i am married now for 10 months but am not entirely happy. i have moments but i miss my ex too much and always think about him. i was with my ex for 3 years, but i had a medical issue and the doctor thought it might be better to have a baby ASAP. well, my ex freaked out about having a baby AND getting married. He said he would marry me, then got scared, and we took a little time apart. i reconnected with an old friend, and 4 months later we got married. he was with me and wiling to get married and have a baby. i thought it was the best thing to do at the time and i couldnt trust the ex to do any and i didnt want to risk not having a baby. I got married but now decided to wait to have the baby bcs.i am confused. he is a great guy and would do anything for me, but my heart is with my ex. i know my ex would marry me if i got divorced, i love him, i know he loves me. i just dont know if I can risk divorce. i am so confused. what should i do?

2007-12-26 01:56:17 · 5 answers · asked by roxana.lopez30 1

I do not think I even love him at all anymore. I have morbid thoughts about him when I sleep. He is very immature, irresponsible, childish . . . etc. When we were dating he led me to believe he was a nice gentleman. Now that I am married to him I feel like I am his mother. I had a 3 year old prior to this marriage and now I feel like I am a mother of 2. And now we have one on the way. We constantly fight and it is tearing my home apart and I do not want another child to have to deal with the chaos. I do not think I have any feelings for him whatsoever. He begged and begged to have sex the other day and finally I gave in to shut him up and I cried for about an hour afterwards. I have never felt like this before in my life. I don't want to leave because every will think I am giving up. But he is driving me insane. And his jealously gets in the way of everything. I couldn't even go christmas shopping without him calling me like every 15 min. I've tried my hardest. HELP!!

2007-12-26 01:40:45 · 25 answers · asked by dixie_beach 1

2007-12-26 01:40:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous

I had sex many times before, and now I am going to marry...

but I dont want my wife to know all my bad past

I am worried, if she can find out on my 1st night that I had pre sexual experience..

I have 2 Question...

1) how can girls, find out, whether a guy has sexual
experience?

2) what should I do, so that she wouldnt know that I have pre
sexual experience?

2007-12-26 01:36:33 · 22 answers · asked by Buddy 2

First of all, when we dated my wife wasn't like this, but now this is what she turned into after one year. My wife is boring. She is lazy (ie. doesn't have a professional career, smokes, and hardly cooks). She doesn't like to have sex on the regular. She has a ghetto state of mind and shows no sign of completing any goals. She spends more time with friends and family than me. I want to divorce, but we have a kid. What should I do?

2007-12-26 01:35:30 · 13 answers · asked by Vinny 1

How many times a 30Yr old Guy can do sex in a DAY?

1time? 2times? 3times?......

2007-12-26 01:21:48 · 22 answers · asked by Buddy 2

My husband and I separated back in June... I just found out he was seeing someone else since the summer of last year. My husband and I were still intimate, and things were civil between us, I'd ask him if he was seeing someone and he always told me no.... until I found airlines tickets to Turks and Cacious with her and his name on it. I confronted him and he finally told me the truth. The GF had no idea he was married so he says when they first started dating, he told her we had been separated for years, he also told her we were not intimate until she forced him to tell her the truth. No when its all out in the open, he says he's confused, I am being treated like the other woman. A part of me keeps saying I can get passed the affair... but I part of me still wants to know why he hasn't filed for divorce if he claims he's so unhappy with me.. He's made excuses like its our anniversary, my birthday all sorts of lies... I am at wits end... and probably afraid of filing too!

2007-12-26 01:16:21 · 22 answers · asked by joyce1470 1

I'm aware of a young girl (early '20's) who for several years was attracted to much older (up to 35 years older) married men. She ended up marrying a divorced guy 30 years older than her.

The girl was attractive and seemed to be mature for her age. Never could understand why she'd allow herself to fall in love with married guys older than her dad. They weren't rich, so it wasn't a gold digger thing. In fact, even though she's married, she still contacts one of the former BF's and still seems to have strong feelings for him.

Any ideas of why she would behave this way?

2007-12-26 01:07:55 · 11 answers · asked by Tiger 1

My spouse and me had marital problems earlier this year, but worked them out through marriage counseling. Unfortunately, he got his family involved before he even discussed the issues with me. My inlaws were invited for Christmas Eve dinner at our home but decided to decline and snub me because they feel I own them an apology. Am I missing something because I think they should have known to stay out of our marriage prblems? I am not even sure what kind of an apology they are expecting? Should I say "I am sorry you stuck you noses in our business.?" I am baffled by this recent development.

2007-12-26 01:04:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

So last night, Christmas, my husband didn't buy me any gift at all first off. He hardly talked to me at the family get together and then took off in the evening. He didn't come home until after midnight. I was in bed and I came out when I heard a noise. He said "Get the "F" back into bed *****". "You are the last person I want to see." I was like ????. He proceeded to say "I could have done a lot better than you." Now a little history. He is a drunk and I suspect him of drug abuse and possible cheating. He is never home, EVER. NOt even Christmas eve or day for petes sake for his child! I am getting depressed. That comment though..who would say that on Christmas? What would you recommend I say to him next? I am on my way to work now and he has left without uttering a word to me again. Should I call him at work and say WTF did you mean by that? Should I wait until he comes home..he might be drunk again though! I am serious about this story. I needed some input from others. Thanks...

2007-12-26 01:01:24 · 69 answers · asked by Samantha 3

2007-12-26 00:45:22 · 21 answers · asked by ? 7

speaking on his cell when i called him, not knowing his friend hung up, he said referring to us " we broke up, i looked around but now we are working it out and back together". i suddenly spoke and he was terrified. then he swore to God that he has never looked around while we were married..ever. he siad his friend is considering a divorce and he was trying to console him. i will say this, i once caught him on eharmony,which he said he left on so that i could get upset. i am 9 months pregnant and was so happy thinking we were finally working things out and now look. any advice, could he have just made up that story to his friend to comfort him.

2007-12-26 00:38:34 · 12 answers · asked by bluez 1

I was thinking 25. How would you expedite things if you are nearing this age and don't have a girlfriend, fiance or wife?

2007-12-26 00:15:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-26 00:11:54 · 46 answers · asked by Totaram M 5

"who is the asshole that didnt put the lid back on the toothpaste"

2007-12-26 00:01:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous