After all he's done to me and taken from me, I shouod be happy to be rid of him. I have my own house, 2 vehicles, a 6 figure job, horses and wonderful son and family.....he has nothing. He used to live in a luxury home with credit cards galore at hjis disposal.....not anymore. Now hw lives with his crack head mother and her boyfriend on parole. He has no car, no money, no job, no phone...but he does have his freedom. He can stick his di#$ into any mud puddle that winks at him....afterall, a guy like this knows nothing about quality. I got mixed up with the wrong person, I believed his lies over and over, I supported him for 1.5 years and spoiled him....don't you think MAYBE he regrets his actions?
2007-12-26 02:00:05 · 26 answers · asked by jenny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nah, he looks at it this way, he'll find another sucker to take care of him. Good for u for leaving!
2007-12-26 02:06:25 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Pure Evil♥ 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Woah! I don't think it really matters WHAT he thinks and feels - if you don't want to be with someone anymore, for whatever reason, then you can sever ties. But it sounds as though you are VERY much married to him still. You are still married, as long as you have feelings for him, and the feeling you have that binds you is HATE. The opposite of feeling is >no< feeling - but that is not what your post shows. You frankly sound very immature - it sounds to me as though you picked up someone who was a player, and decided that because you had a lot of stuff and a lot of money, that you could own him or transform him. You can't own a person, and if you supported him and spoiled him, then what do you expect to get but someone who is acts like an irresponsible jerk who takes you for granted? I don't know how old your son is, but you need to think very carefully about the influences you are exposing him to, and your own attitudes about men, women, and relationships. You played an important role in the situation you are in, and I hope you don't go out and make the same mistake again.
2007-12-26 10:12:44 · answer #2 · answered by eldots53 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably will after a well but for right now all he is going to see is the freedom but when it comes to when he needs something he will regreat what he did and then he will be crying at your feet wanting you back and you should be strong and leave him there for the pig he is because no more should treat any lady like that and especially him because from what i read he had it made and now he missed that all up so let him see how it feels to fen for himself.
2007-12-26 10:06:17 · answer #3 · answered by ga_el_mi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you care if he regrets it or not . You sound very happy that you got rid of him . It sounds to me that you wanted someone to be under your control with all your toys or were you trying to buy your love and it didn't work ? For what ever the reason you relationship didn't work I would look at yourself very closely as well , rather then pointing the finger at him !!! You sound like a bitter women and you need to unload excess baggage . God bless
2007-12-26 10:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by Gentleman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure he does but probably because he has 0 money to spend now. I doubt he learned a lesson and is probably already looking for the next woman to support him. More important to me is whether you regret your actions. Did you learn your lesson and would you take him back if he came begging? Its hard to let go of someone, even if they aren't treating you right. Money isn't everything but unfortunately it makes the world go round.
2007-12-26 10:04:44 · answer #5 · answered by wazup_dude2007 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has no regrets he has taken ???? from you and now he has nothing, sounds like he didn't need spoiling he had it all
lux home credit cards ect maybe he shared his wealth with you this you forgot to mention. Bet he wants his horse back.
2007-12-26 10:17:08 · answer #6 · answered by thistle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he's probably at home just missing the $$ and not you. It sounds like you need to forgive yourself for yours, though. Don't be too hard on youself for this one, i mean guys have been smooth talking us since we grew our boobs,don't expect us NOT to believe those lovely little lies. As as a rule of thumb since you obviously have yourself together, don't date anyone who makes less $$ than you. Lesson learned.
2007-12-26 10:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by Shugsmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably the only thing he regrets is that you grew wise to his BS and gave him the boot.
They just don't get how much of a disappointment they are in our eyes, and I don't think they care.
You pick them up, dust off their backsides, try to get them on track, and then they crap all over you.
People like that are just too caught up into themselves and they use one person to another, never filling that void in their lives.
So take it as a life lesson learned and never allow yourself to lower your standards like that again.
2007-12-26 10:09:20 · answer #8 · answered by Ella 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably can'tsee his way out of it.You want to try a better
guy, me.I have a home as well,no horses,had them as a kid.I know what Love and commitment means.
2007-12-26 10:06:23 · answer #9 · answered by thresher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe down deep inside but if he is one of those people who never take responsibility for their actions then he probably doesnt. Grampa B
2007-12-26 10:07:07 · answer #10 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would chalk this up along side this expression "if you have to explain, they would just not understand." Meaning, that if he is that messed up, he just doesn't know much about anything. If anything, he is thinking up some way to blame someone else besides himself for losing everything he had.
2007-12-26 10:04:16 · answer #11 · answered by yogurt777 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋