2007-12-26 01:40:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If your husband is a helper, please give some advice on how to make him contribute more.
2007-12-26 01:47:19 · update #1
This year my husband did a lot of the Christmas things himself. He did all of our shopping, which was a relief! But we decorated together, and he helped me wrap presents. Normally, we split everything, and always go shopping for our families together. But this year, he took more vacation than I did, and he was able to get most of it done while I was at work. It was so nice of him!
2007-12-26 02:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by BeezKneez 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I do it all, gifts, cooking etc. My husband only helps by eating like a pig. He also helps with his mouth but did not get off the couch.
If you find a way how I can get him to move let me know.
2007-12-26 09:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by Kat G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The only way he helped was to give me money...then I would do all the shopping...including for his family. He never gave me input on what to buy for anyone.
Decorating, cooking, cleaning up....I did it all. The only way he contributed (besides giving $) is to ***** and moan when he thought I wasn't doing something right.
2007-12-26 10:24:48 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband loves Christmas. He got our tree up by November 1st, he had most of my gifts bought in August. He loves to bake, loves to wrap and he's very creative.
I feel very fortunate to have him in my life.
2007-12-26 09:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
of corse my husband helps me, he did a lot of the cooking, i did shopping and wrapping gifts(8mo preggo and all). he did a lot of the entertaining, which normally i would do but since he is the best hubby ever he let me relax and stay off my feet.
2007-12-26 09:52:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take care of it all. If he had to pick out gifts, everyone would get gift cards to Home Depot.
2007-12-26 10:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by I ♥ Penguins 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes men dont help because they dont know what to do... asking him to help might clue him in you dont want to do it all by yourself... men arent mind readers you know (they are a bit thick in the head) mine helps a bit too much sometimes but i keep my mouth shut simply because he might not do it again and if you need the help and he gives it, its great! ask him he might surprise you!
2007-12-26 10:01:46 · answer #7 · answered by Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh yes my husband helps as best as he can...he works so hard i dont mind if i do most of it
2007-12-26 09:57:55 · answer #8 · answered by Kell Belle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I take care of it all. I wish he would pitch in, but he never does.
2007-12-26 09:44:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He helps.
2007-12-26 09:46:12 · answer #10 · answered by oracleofohio 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋