Marriage & Divorce - 24 December 2007

im so sad and disappointed in my husband. As of yesterday he still hadnt gotten me anything for xmas and he chose to sleep the day away until it was too late. i dont want to be selfish, but im upset that he didnt even try while i used christmas money sent to me as a gift to buy something he wanted but was too expensive. in otherwords it feels like i sacraficed for him but he still doesnt care enough to give me even a damn card.

2007-12-24 23:11:53 · 16 answers · asked by me 4

Cheated on me back on 98 and again last easter with the same man.He lives overseas and he is married with 2 kids now.Came to AU with his family, called my wife and asked her out and ,she didnt say no. My wife lied to me about the affair telling me that it was just flirt.i didnt believe the story back then but i gave her another chance. When i found out this time i demanded the trouth..She said that They had an affair both times,She wanted an adventure back then..and this time she was stressed,,they played sexuly but never had sex with him.(??)She avoids the subject every time...and since i found out she is overeacting in sex. Is she trying to confuse me? Other fact are that we have four kids and are in our mid 30s...It really bothers me the idea that she is lying to me again..very hard to trust her this time..Everything i know till now was hard to take out from her...She finds uncomfortable to talk about it..and i'm burning in hell...So i need some help here..Anybody..please.....

2007-12-24 22:58:44 · 16 answers · asked by TOXOTIS 1

2007-12-24 20:33:31 · 14 answers · asked by sara 1

i'm getting divorced, but my divorce isn't final yet, is it morally right for me to be with someone new? my new bf is someone i dated in the past and truely care about and want to spend the rest of my life with. is what i'm doing making people think i'm a slut because i'm still married?

2007-12-24 20:06:31 · 18 answers · asked by brandy s 2

I know some men stray because there are things an outside woman will do that the wife supposedly won't. I want to coerce him to tell me
what he likes/wants no matter how strange, without coming off as corny or have bad timing. Any suggestions?

2007-12-24 19:16:46 · 5 answers · asked by charmed 4

1 what profession are you both in?
2 how long did you date?
3 1st marriage?
4 how old were you both when married?
5 how many years married?
6 happily divorced?

Write as much as you like.

Thank you.

2007-12-24 18:51:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous

2007-12-24 18:44:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous

Bear in mind that he has children

2007-12-24 18:06:22 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

Scenerio:
You are happily married and live in Massachusetts, but have lost your job. Finding another one in you area is not likely and the place where your field is growing is California, so you go to California where you think you have a better shot. On your second day there, you get in a horrendous car wreck and are hospitalized for the next four months. Under Massachusetts HB 113, a court shall issue a warrant for your arrest because you left Massachusetts for over 90 days without making "provisions for the support" of your spouse.

Should this be the law in all states?

2007-12-24 17:50:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous

sometimes I have trouble being on this site... i feel so bad for all the broken hearts and marriges lost and ones in danger.
I have caused pain and lived with it as well.
I just jotted down a lil poem... my heart as i read some of your questions and stories.... here goes

My heart goes out to those in pain.
who have lived with broken promises again and again.
The one who has cried over invested love lost, who tried to save at any cost.
May you once again find a companion soul and may your heart heal and you feel again whole.
May your blanket be not the only thing warm and home again be full of cheer as the days roll on to another year.
may you have the promises of days to come and the days of sorrow be distant, done.
May the kindness of others and love lighten your face and you feel at home and in back in place.
May the love of your God touch you within and you find your strength and start again.

God bless you all...Happy Holidays and Happy New Year!

2007-12-24 17:48:08 · 9 answers · asked by rufstuff 3

How do I learn to fight fair and stay on the issue?

2007-12-24 17:41:29 · 9 answers · asked by Amy 1

(not like a porn model, like an art nude model for nude photography)

and she says you can't go to her photo shoots with her because it makes her uncomfortable and is distracting and unprofessional, what would you do?
would you tell her no, you don't let her,

tell her that you don't want her to and if she does then you will leave her,

tell her that you don't want her to but it's her body and you can't really stop her,

or tell her yeah why not, you think it's cool..

or.. something else.

2007-12-24 17:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by mr_fillerbunny 2

I am very opinionated and have high expectations of people (friends, family). Whenever I feel angry, slighted, or if they do not meet my expectations, I then express to them my feelings, most of the time, in the heat of the moment, which leads to me saying hurtful things. I am then later upset at myself for "laying in to them." How do I stop being so quick to tell people "like it is?" When I hold in what I am thinking and/or feeling, I feel like I am being fake.

2007-12-24 17:36:55 · 17 answers · asked by Amy 1

2007-12-24 17:21:22 · 10 answers · asked by just breathing 1

short version: dh has to fly back home- emergency with his mother- he's gone from me and our two kids now. Back a few years ago while we were dating- he was seeing another girl and didnt tell either one of us that he was dating the other etc- so have trust issues- and they havent been totally restored yet since that incident. Anyways- so he's back home for 2 weeks and i havent talked to him in 3 days and we talk for all of 3 minutes and in that time he says, "I'm going to a party at ___'s house tonight" (said friend is a male btw).. however said friend is friends with the "other" girl from back then who still elaves him messages online that say "i think thats why we hit it off so well" yada yada.. anyways and then he says, "i went to __bar___ last night and ___females first and last name__ followed me around all night until she staggared to her cab. it was creepy." What did he mean by that? Should I assume he's cheating? What would have his point have been for telling me?

2007-12-24 17:20:08 · 10 answers · asked by Amy Clark 5

I'm 20 years old. my boyfriend is also 20. He tries to make decisions for me and tell me what to do. In a way I think, well if you love someone, then you should try not to do things that you know are really going to bother them.

But at the same time, I don't think it's fair for him to tell me what I can and can't do in my life. I only have one life to live and if I keep doing what he says then I'm not living my life, I'm letting him live it for me. Is it fair for him to expect me to do that?

2007-12-24 17:05:56 · 30 answers · asked by Shannon XoXo 5

he has been talking to a woman half my age,same ethnic background,and beautiful. He says it has nothing to do with her, but he loves me, he just is no longer in love with me. We have two kids, been married for 15 yrs. I want to save my marraige. We have had alot our plate. Both accidents were not our fault, but the other parties were uninsured.We have mounting debt. We both just turned 40. He has never been like this before. It seems like the healthier I get the farther he gets. I lost 120 pounds, he hardly noticed. I have been cancer free since June .He says cruel things now. It's like he likes to hurt me and than comfort me. Is this mid-life crisis or more. He says all he has done is talk to her. He can still be loving and I will see parts of the old him and than he justs snaps out of himself and is the new him. What do I do?

2007-12-24 17:01:55 · 7 answers · asked by yourumbrella 1

Like can a woman tell just by talking to a virgin that he is a virgin. Or while they are having intercourse or afterwards can a woman tell if he is/was a virgin if so how??

2007-12-24 16:36:28 · 10 answers · asked by One Day 1

It's xmas and I miss them so much. Legal battels I loose I/m not even a criminal

2007-12-24 16:14:08 · 4 answers · asked by crackers 2

My fiance' (who works at Wal-Mart) is has been having an affair with a fellow employer in the back store-room. I found this out from one of my fiance's friends that also works there. Should I confront them?

2007-12-24 16:06:17 · 21 answers · asked by Hmmm... 3

My husband is not nice.he ignores me, is fuull of rage..banging cabinets all the time, complaining he does everything around the house, freaks out if a light is left on, started washing out paper cups, keeps the heat on 60 (of colurse i turnn it up) freaks out if i put hte dishwasher on and its not full..gets mad at me if i go food shopping...(he like to do everything..) and I have no idea what I did..I asked him whats the matter and he says LOUDLY nothing!!! what the heck!!!
Don't say it is a money problem..we have enough and then some...

2007-12-24 15:57:16 · 21 answers · asked by josiejo 3

After hearing from so many men with wives who hate sex it makes me want to test drive a woman before marriage more than ever. I know several men who have wives who made every excuse to avoid having sex with them from the honeymoon onward. I don't think it's worth the wait to have this fate befall me.

2007-12-24 15:54:53 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous

I bought an air mattress for my wife to use to sleep on the floor....you know, I didn't want to be a jerk or anything. I was trying to be nice? Why is my wife so mean?

2007-12-24 15:53:25 · 19 answers · asked by progrockfan80 2

Do you think you should have had your kids at a younger age or older age? I'm deciding on when to have kids. Obviously, I know that its different for each person...but just want to see what most people think about having kids in general. For eg. I have been married for 1.5 years and my hubby wants us to travel more before having kids.

2007-12-24 15:53:07 · 12 answers · asked by Gumnaam1 3

How do you deal with it?

2007-12-24 15:49:35 · 7 answers · asked by Ejsenstejn 2

if caught cheating...... red handed!!!

2007-12-24 15:48:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous

what if your in something ya just cant get out of?

2007-12-24 15:43:39 · 10 answers · asked by snozzberries 4

They think I'm too young to date.

2007-12-24 15:40:22 · 24 answers · asked by Hmmm... 3

2007-12-24 15:39:43 · 13 answers · asked by kbear 1

2007-12-24 15:37:24 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous