(not like a porn model, like an art nude model for nude photography)
and she says you can't go to her photo shoots with her because it makes her uncomfortable and is distracting and unprofessional, what would you do?
would you tell her no, you don't let her,
tell her that you don't want her to and if she does then you will leave her,
tell her that you don't want her to but it's her body and you can't really stop her,
or tell her yeah why not, you think it's cool..
or.. something else.
2007-12-24 17:39:04 · 7 answers · asked by mr_fillerbunny 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
if she loves me then how is it okay for her to get naked for other people?
2007-12-24 17:49:06 · update #1
also she Promised me she would not do nudes ever
2007-12-24 17:52:31 · update #2
first of all my girlfriend wouldslap the hell out of me if i ever thought she would do that she isnt that type pal if your. is you might want to find a decent woman unlike her. my opion/
2007-12-24 17:49:40 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It's no big deal to be a nude art model. I was an art major and we used nude models; you really don't view them sexually. You just look at them like anything else you're drawing/.photographing, like a vase. You look at your model in terms of light, line, shadow, etc.
It woudl be unprofessional of you to go along to her job; you wouldn't want her to come to her work. I assume she's doing it at a college or class, not at some random persons's house?
i asked my husband and he says he would want to go once and see what it's like. It sounds like you have issues 'cause you don't know if it's legit or not.
2007-12-24 17:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by shrinkydinkheart 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself some questions.
How long have i been dating her? Do we trust each other? What is her future and present goals? Has she shared her dreams with me? Is she fulfilling her lifelong dream by being a nude model? Before you say no reflect and discuss it with her. I don't think you should ask you to choose. Just discuss your feeling with her and depending on how and if she considers your concerns you will have a greater insight of her decisions. She's only your girlfriend. Everyone has a choice including you.
2007-12-24 17:51:50 · answer #3 · answered by Freedom Rules!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's nothing wrong with a girlfriend or wife being a nude model. If she knows she looks good, of course she wants to show it. You should encourage her.
2007-12-27 01:23:54 · answer #4 · answered by so 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My wife and I both model for artist.
It is great seeing her images up at art shows.
Some of those paintings have sold.
She is a terrific model.
I have drawn her several times myself.
It is not a sexual thing.
You issue sounds more like trust than nudity.
You should talk open minded with her.
NiF
ANI
2007-12-27 19:22:07 · answer #5 · answered by fl_nudie_boy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That work is professional. If I was in the business & my man had a problem with it, I would tell him to deal with it or leave. It's a job, it's not like I would be stripping. It may be harsh but people really need to relax about some things.
2007-12-24 18:08:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
first I'd be asking her to model for me. then I'd ask why she wants to do this. If it's for the money then I'd wonder what she will do when someone shows up with piles of cash for a night at the hotel.
2007-12-25 01:18:26 · answer #7 · answered by old-softy 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
**** I wouldn't want to go in the first place, that would just be awkward. besides, does she follow you to your job? don't be that guy
2007-12-24 17:43:04 · answer #8 · answered by yo-han 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋