2007-12-24 17:21:22 · 10 answers · asked by just breathing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
keep yourself busy.friends/shoping/family/trip/ good luck it could be hard but next year will be better
2007-12-24 17:28:00 · answer #1 · answered by john 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confide in friends and family as a support system to help you get through this rough patch.
Spend your time socializing, getting together with old friends, making new ones and just having a good time.
If you're pre-occupied during the Holiday's some of that pain and sadness will go away because you will be too busy to even think about the divorce and being lonely.
2007-12-25 01:24:23 · answer #2 · answered by ♪Msz. Nena♫ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my, that was one of the hardest things I ever did in my entire life. I was married for 28 and he left me for another woman. I thought I would die. The only thing I know to tell you is to stay as busy as possible,. You have to keep you mind focused on other things besides the divorce,. It is going to be hard but you can do it., woman are stronger than men...It is amazing what we can endure and come through it just fine. . .I promise you, it will get better but it will take time. . . .
2007-12-25 05:55:31 · answer #3 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married 18 years. I understand what your going threw. The best way to get threw it all is to focus on family. I do no its the nights that is the hardest. When all your friends and left and the kids in bed. You left with a empty house full of memorys. When you feel that sadness jumping on you. Get up and do something to take your mind off of it all. Sometimes people drive there own self crazy bye thnking to much
My name is Michelle and If you like to chat more please contact me. I no its hard
2007-12-25 01:30:00 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle C 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Start a new tradition to celebrate your new life. think about doing something for someone else less fortunate than you (and there ARE those less fortunate than you...) Go through your closet and drop clothing off at a homeless shelters.
2007-12-25 01:46:34 · answer #5 · answered by cathy B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you seriously count your blessings. this isn't easy while we are trying to get our lives back in order. I try each day to be thankful for all the wonders of this world and the fact that I no longer live with someone who made me so unhappy. Good luck and God Bless You.
2007-12-25 01:50:26 · answer #6 · answered by Jan C 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't stay home...either meet with Family Friends or stay over someone elses house.
2007-12-25 01:25:38 · answer #7 · answered by StopPanda 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is so painful for you, why the hell you went for divoce. A divocrce means not only physical seperation but throwing out one from your thoughts.
2007-12-25 05:55:32 · answer #8 · answered by Surettan S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So sorry....can you reconcile?
If not, get together with friends and relatives.
Sing.
Go to church.
Be around positive people.
Joy to you!
2007-12-25 01:33:53 · answer #9 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
friends and family will hlp and kids if you have them my opion?
2007-12-25 01:35:04 · answer #10 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋