1 what profession are you both in?
2 how long did you date?
3 1st marriage?
4 how old were you both when married?
5 how many years married?
6 happily divorced?
Write as much as you like.
Thank you.
2007-12-24 18:51:42 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
stock firm owner and broker / real estate agent
20 years together
yes
25 and 25
10 years
things are better this way
people grow apart with time... and not eveyone is compatitble forever..and sometimes being apart and happy is better than being together and miserable (for the couple and also the kids!)
2007-12-24 18:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 what profession are you both in? I was in medical/clerical field, he was job to job and military, until he was discharged for positive drug test
2 how long did you date? 6 years
3 1st marriage? yes
4 how old were you both when married? 20 me, 21 him
5 how many years married? 5 yrs
6 happily divorced? I don't argue b/c it's not worth my time and effort. He has proven multiple times during the marriage and afterwards that he will never change. His controlling, possessive, irrational, and physically and emotionally abusive behaviors have been a pattern with his relationships even after ours ended. I would not be the least bit concerned about his whereabouts or activities, except that we have a daughter and he has court ordered visitation with her. My only worry over this past relationship now is my concern for her safety (mentally and physicallly) when she is in his care. The courts have photographic evidence of what he did to me, and my daughter took him back to court to challenge the visitation b/c she found drugs in his home. The courts here still uphold his parental rights as a father. Currently, things are going well. He has a nice g/f who lives with him and she takes good care of him and my daughter. One can only hope that this time he proves me wrong, gets clean and stays clean, and treats this girl right and let's her continue to be a positive part of his life and my daughter's life.
On the up note, I am happily married now. My husband is wonderful and I have a step-daughter too. I took my life and happiness into my own hands and I never settle. Our life as a family together is bright, enjoyable, and loving.
Best wishes.
2007-12-25 03:08:20 · answer #2 · answered by NinjenWV 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get divorced? Habitual adultery (him)
1 what profession are you both in? (construction & RE investing) We worked together at both.
2 how long did you date? 6 mos
3 1st marriage? yes for him, 2nd for me
4 how old were you both when married? me 19, him 20
5 how many years married? 22
6 happily divorced? Him, can't speak for him and wouldn't attempt to guess what he feels. Me, Very. Intend to enjoy the rest of my life. Am only responsible for me and my mistakes now, so it's much easier. For the moment, I'm enjoying not having anyone to answer to and being able to do what I want and come and go as I please. Health has improved. Wonderful friends. Always have things to look forward to. Life is good.
2007-12-25 05:08:37 · answer #3 · answered by bonnieboobabe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hello again. part II I guess.
1 what profession are you both in? military / IT
2 how long did you date? about 10 months
3 1st marriage? yes
4 how old were you both when married? me 21 her 22
5 how many years married? 13
6 happily divorced? not at all
Because the courts have a rule about military marrages and that she is entitled to part of my retirement money I lost almost 50% of what I worked for. This sucks.
2007-12-25 09:11:23 · answer #4 · answered by old-softy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you get divorced? Because I couldn't stand taking her crap any longer.
1 what profession are you both in? Me: military, Her: fat @ssed housewife.
2 how long did you date? over a year.
3 1st marriage? second.
4 how old were you both when married? 24 or 25
5 how many years married? 7
6 happily divorced? after I got divorced... hell yeah!
2007-12-25 05:02:18 · answer #5 · answered by Larry F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i got divorced because i found out he was doing illegal drugs and selling them
i was a cashier he was in the navy
about a yr
yes first marrage for both of us
about 21 yrs old
not quite 5
yes
now im a lesbian and wish i could marry her but we had a commitment ceramony and so to us we are i have a son who is totally in for what i am and never met his father
my spouse and i have been living together 4 yrs and married this past september
2007-12-25 03:00:53 · answer #6 · answered by helen m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Electronic technician and Buyer's assistant
2. 9 months
3. Yes
4. 21 and 20
5. 5 years
6. Eventually. It took a while.
Basically, we had renewed our vows on our 5th anniversary. A few weeks later I'm being told she doesn't love me anymore and moves out with the kids.
2007-12-25 04:17:26 · answer #7 · answered by doktrgroove 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
So she could be happy, I still love her 30 years latter
2007-12-25 02:55:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
i want to get divorsed because my husband is good for nothing and now i am seeing another guy whom i want to marry.
2007-12-25 03:19:17 · answer #9 · answered by neel 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because it sucks!
2007-12-25 02:57:30 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋