Well somehow this movie affected my relationship. I'm sleeping with this guy who is married. From the first time I saw him I knew he was the one. He is feeling guilty from seeing this movie. I 'm not going to stop seeing him ever. Take him being married out of the equation ok I need help getting my man back ?
2007-12-26 02:48:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You can't take him being married out of the equation. He is married and he does not belong to you.
2007-12-29 13:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anna 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, he's not YOUR man. He was married to someone else before he met you so you are the other woman. Doesn't mean that he might not be the one for you, however you are not the only one for him right now. Watching that movie probably tugged at his conscience. He feels guilty and realizes that he has a choice to make. Either leave his wife so he can be with you (which is what he should have done from the beginning if he truly loved you and wanted to be with you) or try and make it work with the wife. Unfortunately, as "the other woman" you don't have much say or right in the situation. The ball is in his court. You should not waste your time with a married man anyway. I'm sure you are worth much more then that and deserve someone that will love you and only you.
2007-12-26 11:06:35 · answer #2 · answered by CinELLE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got married because you were deeply in love and involved with the best friend you will ever know. His charm, passion and compassion really took hold of you. He thought the same of you and took a huge chance that it would last, so he married you too.
Your married friend oddly enough, got married for the same reason. Just wait until his wife finds out, because a truly good man will never be able to keep this to himself.
A movie in and off itself has no power over a person to justify sleeping and falling in lust with a man who belongs to another woman. I hope you watch that magical movie again because maybe it will have the opposite effect the second time around, and he and you can go back to your loving spouses. Oh heck, I just turned a widow. I could make it last with the same man, I never lusted after another man.
2007-12-26 10:59:12 · answer #3 · answered by goodness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry to say this, but when it comes right down to it your man is still married to someone else and that means you are second fiddle to his wife. It he's feeling guilty, there's nothing you can do about it. It doesn't matter how much you care, you can't make him feel the same about you. Either he feels it, too, or he doesn't; there is no "getting him back" because you didn't have him in the first place - his wife did. Pretending she doesn't exist doesn't change that.
2007-12-26 10:56:17 · answer #4 · answered by Mountain Ash 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your trying to say that your sleeping with a married man than do what you can. But nothings going to work with him feeling guilty he should tell his wife and if they have problems and he wants to be with you he would leave her. It doesn't matter if you want to be with him from here to the moon you won't be able to until he leaves her I'm sry but it's the truth. You can't control his mind he has to do what he wants to.
2007-12-26 10:53:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me too! I did not want to get married. I just wanted to have a woman by my side, but I was pressured into marriage. Now I am suffering the consequences, because I married the wrong woman in my life. For better or for worse, til death does part-huh?
2007-12-26 13:35:00 · answer #6 · answered by Pain_of_Unhappiness2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trouble has just started, not only your marriage is affectedso is his. You have taken something away from his wife. There are four people involved and some one is going to get hurt. Go back to your husband try to communicate and work things out. If you don't you may get hurt and cause alot damage to other people lives.
2007-12-26 12:05:31 · answer #7 · answered by middyiv 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Other than the fact you're a very selfish and non-caring person - if I were you, I would contact his wife and explain that you and her husband are have this ongoing affair and that you love him more than her, so she needs to just move out because you're moving in.
Do you have no shame?
2007-12-26 10:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by Prophet 1102 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You cannot control others, ever. No matter how badly we all wish we could, everyone is their own free-spirit of sorts and you cannot control them.
This is one of those situations where you have to let love go, if it comes back so be it, but you have to let it go.
2007-12-26 10:52:31 · answer #9 · answered by Phil M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you win this guy and he gets a divorce, what makes you think he won't cheat on you? He has done it once, he will do it again.
2007-12-26 11:24:17 · answer #10 · answered by spike46120 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋