She originally first cheated with a female co-worker in 2004, Now with a guy who is also a member of the 12-step fellowship she belongs to! And really she'd claim that he was just a friend only to have read a text message one morning about "We should call in sick to work.. LOL" Any thoughts why she could be so dam cold.........?
2007-12-26 05:35:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
How should I handle this w/out it having any regrets or the possibility of losing my only surviving bloodline relative of two years!
2007-12-26 05:38:14 · update #1
Confused. She was sexually abused by her dad at age 6 and tried again when she was 12. Which she had informed me of throughout the relationship,and in which I'd respect that dept. which she claimed was her motive the first time she cheated; that it was lust! But for her to have "repented"and difference being that now it's a guy... is too dam much for me because I never thought she'd do that again since she had not messed around between 2005-2007 w/the exception of october '07
2007-12-26 06:21:01 · update #2
you need to take this head on
if she is sleeping around and it's bothering you then you need to put an end to it or end your relationship
what sense does it make to be miserable? if you by chance decide to end your marriage then make sure you ask for JOINT custody
2007-12-26 05:43:45 · answer #1 · answered by Sharon F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not over-reacting like someone told you in one of the answers. You just know the truth. Now you are in a situation where you give the benefit of the doubt or not, because "it was just a message". Your decision will determine your future in other words. To just limit myself to the answer you asked, why she was so cold?.
Because in the world there are people like that, like her, there are many, you have just chosen one that is so cold, period. If you want that life, stay, if you think you deserve better, leave.
I think you will be better by preparing things and just leave, it wont be easy, it will be hard, but a great investment for you and will give you posibilities of being happier in the future.
2007-12-26 06:08:43 · answer #2 · answered by livingthe30s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for your problem... Yes you are right, Husband and wife should make love....But does she loves you in the first place? if not you cant blame her. Male and female are physically different. To a guy, sex is a necessity but to a lady its not... Im a lady myself and i dont like some one whom i dont love to touch me! Thats normal for any female...Since she is your wife, she has some form of an obligation... Waht i suggest was you discuss this matter with her in a mature/calm manner. Give her a few days to think it over and ask her for her opinion on how to solve this problem... Else, better part nicely and get another wife or suffer for the rest of your life, which is not right....
2016-05-26 08:16:53 · answer #3 · answered by scarlett 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is bad for your son because he will grow up not trusting women but rather be possessive over them. Women can't keep it in their pants and panties, you know so they need to get into men's pants and boxers. Women who cheat while having sons will cause sons to slut shame women.
2014-10-08 04:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by That Wife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mentioned the 12 step program. Maybe she sees you as stability in her life. It maybe that she is just not into you anymore but you have been a constant in her life and she doesn't want to lose that. But you should talk to her about it then you should leave her. She cheats!....That's not good!
2007-12-26 05:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Zakiya W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then Dana say those are your kids[ DNA] this woman cant be trusted to go to work you need to have blood test of the kids and then make your mind to let this tramp go she will never be the wife you hope for she cant keep her legs close and how do you know shes disease free get that checked to but leave you deserve better life has more to offer you and beleive me shes not worth your time
2007-12-26 05:44:15 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why does it matter why she would cheat? She cheated. Dump her @ss. Your child will still be your child.
2007-12-26 05:41:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesn't necessarily sound like cheating to me. it sounds like a joke. and it just says "call into work". it doesn't say they wouldn't tell you about it. i think you are overreacting. and i also think you should talk to her about it and not assume.
2007-12-26 05:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by jmd 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She sounds like she might have mental issues.....
2007-12-26 05:41:16 · answer #9 · answered by Confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a ho! Once a cheater always a cheater......... she will continue this.
2007-12-26 05:42:51 · answer #10 · answered by i know it all! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋