Should i believe my wife???

Question

I have heared that my wife has cheated on me 3 times. With 3 differant guys. the first one was her last ex. I dont truely believe that one. But the other 2???? The second one i called her house to talk to her. they were having a party that night. The person that piced up the phone was my wifes friend at the time, and said she was at the park with some guy. The people in the background said the same thing. And finally the third. Her most serious ex. She went to court one morning wile i watched her daughter. She got home about 1hr after she said she would be home. The next day her friend the same one from above told me that her and the ex fooled around after court. I was upset so i asked the ex. His words were "well kissing is not all we did" with a laughing tone. My wife nor myself can prove wether she did or did not cheat. Should i believe her at her word???

Answer 1

dude wake up already...she's been slammin the sausage for a while it seems. Leave this tramp NOW!!!!

Answer 2

Step #1...get tested NOW...

Step #2...hire a good domestic lawyer to cover your backside. One she has no access to.

Step #3...check your credit card statements, bank transactions, etc.

Also, if she was in court on a legal matter, the time the case was settled/rested for the day is a matter of public record.

Step #4...be prepared for a divorce.

Step #5...take the jerk's words with a few kilos of salt. Ruining yours and your wife's life is probably something he'd love to do.

Sorry, but if the suspicion is there, and the partner is not providing legitimate reasons (or is just acting suspiciously), the fact usually is there.
Try looking up on the web for ways to find-out is a spouse is cheating.

Answer 3

WEll that really depends on you and what u think of your wife. Do u think she would do that to you? Is she trust-worthy? What kind of relationship does she have with her ex? Also that friend of hers sounds like she either is a tater-teller or she is trying to make ur wife look bad to get u or is jealous of u guys. Its weird that the friend would say these things. Why don't u ask her, see what she says... u can tell if she is lying, exaggerating or is just jealous. Then talk to your wife, tell her how u feel... Don't jump into conclusions... Don't believe the ex, he would probably say something like just to be a jerk. But the friend might be one too, a jerk. So be careful give ur wife the benefit of the doubt.

Answer 4

Unless you have someone who she cheated with or saw her cheating come up and tell you in a manner in which you can believe then I think you have to trust her. Other than the friend who had the party everyone else has alterior motives for goating you into thinking she cheated. Just talk to her and ask her for the truth. Tell her that you both owe that to each other to be truthful and honest if there has been an indiscretion. Once you feel you know everything then you have to decide.

Answer 5

You are in deep **** my friend. Most people aren't going to talk unless something is happening. She is continuously placing herself in situations and with people of questionable behavior. Which leads anyone to believe it's true.

What you do, who you hang around with and the situations you get into determine the type of character you have. She has questionable behavior.

She is likely playing hide the baloney pony with these men. If you have no proof of the rumored nailing then either get out while the getting is good or believe her until you catch her in the act.

Those are you choices. If she is willing to remove herself from this situations then she might be telling you true. But rumors come from somewhere and she is doing something questionable regardless.

Answer 6

Wow...what does your gut tells you? Also, you can try the extreme test to tell. The next time you feel some inconsistencies then ask to feel her below because condom scent is impossible to get off or if no condom used then she will be loose and still somewhat wet. However, you don't want to say let me smell your stuff just be really happy and try to do a little something when she come in. If she says I need to shower to smell fresh for you, say i just need a quick one. When you feel her smell her or if she is loose then you got your answer.

Good Luck!

Answer 7

No, all that sounds shady with a lack of disrespect thrown in for good measure. Parties without you? Are you submissive? Stand your ground or get played. Ain't nobody lying on her. she must think your stupid. Cut her off where it will hurt her the most. You know where that is better than I do. If she don't straighten up, time to go.

Answer 8

I went through the exact same thing with my wife! She was sneaking around and had all kinds of shady stories to cover up where she had been. To make a long story short I finally followed her one night and caught her screwing another guy. We're divorced now and she is remarried to that other guy.
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Answer 9

ah, this is why she has so many exes, she is a cheater... cheater and a liar... =(... don't believe a word she says... not 1 word...

divorce, and she can have yet another ex... she does not deserve a husband... never again...

good luck...

by the way, most of what you hear is true... and I am certain she cheated with the first one... people don't make up stuff... usually...

but 3 times it was made up? come on, now... dump her... find a real woman, this one is a sleeze...

Answer 10

i say she sounds fishy t me. she's in these situations too many times & obviously has no respect for u. i would have one final talk w/ her & tell her not to keep putting herself in these situations. be stern. tell her u both need to get tested for an std. if she really cares about ur feelings she would do it. then i wouldn't have sex w/ her for a while. see how she responds. despite what anybody tells u sex doesn't solve all probs. love is all about trust & respect. she treats u lower than a dog.

Answer 11

3 times you have heard the same thing from different people. Either everyone hates your wife, or she is a ho. I would suggest you find yourself someone else and divoce this one.