We fool around but we've never had sex and we don't plan on it soon so i'm just hoping for some ideas to help us both stay entertained for a couple years.
2007-12-26 07:53:22 · 33 answers · asked by Sapphire 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We will not have anal or oral because like i said we are holding off. No possible way to move date because we both need to get our degrees. That's basically the situation.
2007-12-26 08:04:11 · update #1
Oral and the Back door boogie use lots of lube, break him in right, he should learn now not to expect these two treats after marriage...
2007-12-26 08:01:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
sex is something that should not be taken lightly as others have answered this question. Having anal sex is the number one cause of spreading of sexually transmitted diseases. Oral sex is a possible answer but always use a condom. No matter what a partner may tell you, always use a condom. Self stimulation is best and no worries. I would suggest going to see your doctor and get the latest info on transmitted diseases and check out a few books in the library. You didn't say how old you were, and I know that having sex is a big pressure on everyone now, but I hope you stand up for what you said and wait to have sex. If he doesn't want to wait and pressures you, tell him no and check out of that relationship because he wasn't the right one.
PS bored? how about checking with local support groups and do some activities together, there is habitat for humanity, boys and girls clubs, big brothers big sisters, will keep your minds occupied and will help others
2007-12-26 08:03:56 · answer #2 · answered by rose_n_oklahoma 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Two years is a long time!!!! Oral sex is a good suppliment until then but that might be a wash. You could intentionally avoid situations that put you in a position to have to strain. You may have to move the date up or one of you needs to leave town. You can only filerbuster for so long, GOOD LUCK!!! Sounds like the alternatives are already getting old for you.
2007-12-26 08:03:56 · answer #3 · answered by Neva N 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think fooling around makes it a lot harder to NOT have sex--it's too tempting.
I would've suggested oral sex, but you have said that that's out of the question too. If so, then try mutual masturbation. Otherwise, practice self control because fooling around and trying to keep yourself entertained will tempt you two too much.
2007-12-26 08:18:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oral
2007-12-26 07:57:00 · answer #5 · answered by Dani 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Oral. Anal. Mutual masturbation.
2007-12-26 07:58:19 · answer #6 · answered by BG 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
It's either oral or you get out of the house.
oral is ok because it isn't sex. Don't take my word for it just ask Bill Clinton (ex pres of US). He said it isn't defined as sex and so I believe him. You should too.
Just don't do it if either of you have a cold sore as this can lead to genital herpies.
2007-12-27 03:04:27 · answer #7 · answered by old-softy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, that's tough but if both of you want to wait, you can discuss the options together so at least the pressure is shared.
Fooling around: this only makes it harder NOT to have sex. Sex is always going to come up but you don't have to go all the way. You can play strip poker, have outercourse etc.
Picture time: Looking at pictures of various STDs always cools people off from sex.
Sexy pictures: Try masterbating BEFORE seeing eachother.
Hobbies: Find hobbies that you both can enjoy. It can be outdoor activities to reading to eachother.
2007-12-26 08:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by BItemiDoc 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋
I apperciate your and your boyfriend´s decision of not having sex until marriage! It's a good thing!
There are lots of things u two can do...
You both could go take dance classes together, or swimming classes, or something that will keep you busy, but together at the same time...try to get involved in something together....anything both of you like to do!!!
2007-12-26 08:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by Hope x 1 · 3⤊ 1⤋
For one...stop fooling around. This will eventually lead to sex. One of two things need to take place...stop with the no sex before marriage or go get married sooner.
2007-12-26 08:00:51 · answer #10 · answered by QuEEn B 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋