Has marriage counseling ever worked for you and if so what did it help with?

Question

1 what profession are you both in?
2 how long did you date?
3 first marriage or .....>?
4 how old were you both when married?
5 how many years married?
6 happily married?

thank you.

fine print: I do not accept insults. This is just a quesition. I am sure you can understand.

Answer 1

I've been trying!!! It's not going so well, but he really does not want to be there.
1.I am an office manager for insurance adn he works in a warehouse.
2.we dated 2-1/2 years before married
3. my second marriage his first
4. i was 22 and he was 18
5.married almost 13 years, together 16 years
6. not really anymore

Answer 2

we're in counseling. It seems to work because I actually WANT to be there. However no matter how much counselling you have, you need to want to.