My gf is white & am black, since we've been together she has had problems of getting time to hang out with me. Her grandma is so strict on her. I mostly I have to ask her when she can can out with me coz she doesn't have time for me. Moreover she gives me more epty promises of when she will come see me n I would be expecting her and she does not show up. She often lies to me on even the simplest things. I just found out that she's been using birth control n she hasen't told me that. Whatever she tells me I have to think twice. She has also stole my debit card n called me the "N" word when she is upset. She did't get me anything for my bday n kept on lying to me that the gifts were on transit but I haven't seen them. She doesn't trust me on anything which is her's from her car to her computer I almost failed to turn in a paper while she had a computer n wouldn't lend me to use for my home work. I have been with her for 18 mo n I have never spent a holiday with her.
2007-12-26 08:59:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
the thing which makes her so mad is that she claims that I take upp or a friend who I work with n sheused to think that I cheat on her with this girl. She used to be mean to this girl n now we don't talk anymore. Last month she told me something bout me n my gf n her family n my gf said I was taking her side. I explained to her that my friend has never lied to me so I have to believe her. This has brought a big fight n I have'n seen my gf for almost a month now. What makes me cofused is that her granma has asked her 2 breakup with me but she hasnt done it. If she really didn't care bout me why is she with me. I admit I have done some mistakes in this relationship but not of her multitude. She justdoen't seem 2 care, yelling n cusing me out whenever she is angry. I know the hard thing is to let go but as soon as I take that step then am good.
2007-12-26 09:48:36 · update #1
Yes most definately!! It sounds like she's just using you for her convience, you sound too good for her, time to move on and find someone who treats you with more respect and includes you in Holiday Celebrations, and dosen't call you names. She's not worth the time of day, just ignore her the next time she tries to contact you and tell her it's over between the two of you's. Meet new People!!!!
2007-12-26 09:08:26 · answer #1 · answered by 24Special 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! After the first incident with the name that would have been it for me.
I'd call it. She obviously has some serious issues. I don't know a self respecting person who would ever act like that, regardless of what background they were brought up in.
Sorry man, this thing has more red flags than a red sox playoff game.
2007-12-26 17:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by James S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I am sorry to say this but just forget her, she honnestly dont care as much about you as you of her, I am shure you deserve some one better or you will contignue to be used by her, becuase that is obvius, lso feels as she might hide some secrets for you, hovever i adwise you to not play detective couse it will only hurt yourself more just get out of the relation and try finding a girl that you feel deserves your love, Good luck.
Goran
2007-12-26 17:06:12 · answer #3 · answered by Goran E 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes it is time to Dump her... she steals your money and calls you the N* word out of anger, thats more than enough but she also doesnt hangout with you, doesn't trust you with her things and lies to you about everything, why put yourself thru that?don't you think you deserve better?
2007-12-26 17:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by JC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With such a tale of woe why are you even still with her? It sounds like a relationship of convenience - hers. This sounds like its all about her - her time, her decisions, her things, her setting the rules. Why don't you let her go and find someone willing to offer you as much as your willing to give?
2007-12-26 17:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the minute someone stops respecting you is time to let them go. especially when they start calling you names. Do you have alot of money because the way you were talking about her it sounds like she is only with you for the money, or she is completely retarded, find someone else.
2007-12-26 17:12:41 · answer #6 · answered by bobbijbrown1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude she's using you. Still don't see that do ya? Got another 18 months to waste?
2007-12-26 17:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should leave her must be ashamed of you or she does not care about you leave her and find someone that does care about you now one deserves to be treated like this white, black, red, green, yellow it does not matter.
2007-12-26 17:13:01 · answer #8 · answered by Lost 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
~~~~Its Defetnatly time to let go, man ur worth more than that~~~ Only you know if it really worth wasting ur time with this girl, i know 18 months its some time , but theres so many girls out there looking for a nice young man like ur self, its time to let go.........and that is the hardest thing to do, but its worth it.
2007-12-26 17:28:06 · answer #9 · answered by JESUSBEAUTIFULLDOLLY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like its time to break up with her! Why waste your time with someone who is going to call you names and keep things from you? Mooooove on!!
2007-12-26 17:06:41 · answer #10 · answered by mel 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋