That's all I am looking for.... Im thinkin g 7 with me.... 7 with her and alternating weekends but what is everyone elses take on the situation??+
2007-12-26 09:23:33 · 2 answers · asked by conserned father 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
That's too much back and forth for a child to deal with. Children need stability and consistancy in their lives. How would you like to change where you live every seven days? You need to think a little before you go doing something like that. My daughter and her ex share custody of their two children, and she has primary physical custody. They live with her. Their father picks them up from school every other Thursday, and they stay with him Thursday night, Friday (after school), Saturday, and Sunday, so that they are with him every other weekend. They return to my daughter on Sunday evening. They spend Thanksgiving with their father one year, and Christmas with him the next. They spend one month every summer with their father. That has been working well for them for nearly four years. The wellbeing of your children is foremost. Do whatever it takes to make them feel secure.
2007-12-26 09:34:16 · answer #1 · answered by claudiacake 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im all for the 50/50 thing, but it becomes an issue when school is involved and holidays roll around. granted if u live in the same town and pretty close to one another thats ok, but think about this when you go on a vacation for 7 days,its hard to come home and re-adjust and get ready to go in the next day, isnt it? thats the only thing. kids have a hard time adjusting to that too. but other than that, the equally split time is a good thing.
2007-12-26 17:30:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋