2007-12-26 10:17:44 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she told me about her cheating after two years of lying and accusing me of cheating, which i never did. How I acted was much MUCH more reserved than what I wanted/maybe should have done. She said I have anger issues. she I do but it is more of a controlled rage. I am a nice guy, just don't **** with me! However, she and that POS "friend" of mine are alive and well....
Thank god for restraint.
2007-12-26 17:41:05 · answer #1 · answered by I am the Black Sheep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I would ask why and find out if it was a one night stand or an on going relationship. If in fact it was an on going thing then I would probably leave the marriage because once a cheater always. one night stands are not that serious even though that does still say that there is a problem in the marriage.
2007-12-26 10:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by aliece 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I caught her I would have along discussion with her on why fidelity is important in a marriage and how this breach of trust can lead to more trust issues later.I would then remind her that she had promissed to be faithful when we married and she had broken that promise.And finally I would kick her out , once a cheather always a cheater.BYE BYE
2007-12-26 12:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by Tom S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it would really depend if I did something wrong then maybe I could forgive him but for the most part I would be pissed off and would leave, no I cant say that I would cheat on him I know that 2 wrongs don't make a right but I would fell so good doing what he did to me! I know that sounds childish but that's me. Then maybe we could talk about what happen, meaning the end of the relationship.
2007-12-26 11:20:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hate to say it, but this is a pointless question. You can never know until and unless you are actually in the situation. Otherwise it is just fruitless speculation.
2007-12-26 10:22:54 · answer #5 · answered by eldots53 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I find this question very difficult to answer because I feel that this is one situation where your reaction will just be sort of "spontaneous." I suspect it is not going to be a pleasant reaction in general, that's all.
2007-12-27 09:17:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wouldn't-it's a thing called a pre-nup. you have a mutual one (where the party leaves w/ what they came in w/ and what they make)-unless one party breaks any of the stipulations bulleted in the prenup. best way to go with a 50% divorce rate nowadays.
2007-12-26 10:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by ohsohot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's basically over. He did and I never saw him again except a few times as a friend. Never did get back on track, I never coud with anyone who cheated on me.
2007-12-26 10:24:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I found out on a Sat. morning and filed for divorce (not separation) on Monday and never looked back, and have no regrets.
2007-12-26 10:25:13 · answer #9 · answered by bonnieboobabe 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I often wonder what i would do? My first thought would be to hurt them both, but then reality is that i would kick him to the curb and find a man that loves me because obviously he did not.
2007-12-26 10:22:32 · answer #10 · answered by sunny 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋