Give me suggestions on those little sweet things I can do for her?
2007-12-26 09:46:11 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Women appreciate little things men tend to forget. Wash the dishes without being asked, if you have small kids let her sleep in while you tend to them, fill up her gas tank & wash the car, cook a few easy meals & freeze them that will cover a few days for her, pay for a day of spa treatment, wash & dry the clothes, bring home her favorite snacks & serve them to her while she watches tv.
2007-12-26 09:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out on a date. Make it a romantic dinner and maybe a show afterwards. Do little things around the house to make life easier for her. If she has a bad day, give her a massage and a glass of wine and you cook the dinner. If you can't cook, tell her you'll take care of dinner and go out and get someting to go. Try not to make it fast food. That's too easy. A lot of restaurants do take out. Bring home flowers or a "just because" card that says you love her. Women need reassurance that they are loved. Most men forget to do this and lots of women are not happy because of it.
2007-12-26 18:03:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Arrange things to happen to her when you are not around ... like .. leave her little love notes in her car - maybe on her steering-wheel - or put it on her purse .. that says things like "I love you" .. or .. "You are my world" .. or "You are my dream come true" ... also - write it on the bathroom mirror before she gets up ... send her unexpected flowers at work ... pick flowers in the yard & hand to her .. call her just to say that you needed to hear her voice .. hold hands with her - even when just walking into the mall .. sit quietly with her, holding her, but not initiating sex .. occassionally find cards that says it all about how you feel about her - or even write her a letter & mail it to her telling all the incredible things you feel for her .. and think back to things which happened between just you & her - and search for something to remind her of those times .. take her out dancing to just hold her close ... have romantic walks on the beach .. or anywhere under a full moon ... occassionally - look deep-deep, slowly & lovingly into her eyes and tell her how totally incredible she is .. hug her tenderly & often ... have genteman manners with her .. sometimes - just walk up to her, take her into your arms - and kiss her tenderly, warmly & softly - then slowly let her go - no sexual advances.
And most of all .. tell her you love her - a lot.
2007-12-26 19:02:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well to be honest from a woman's perspective women love the small things. We would be more happier if you gave us a card that said alot instead of a diamond necklace although those are wonderful too! Get her a card that says you love her and love being with her. That is simple but means so much trust me! Good Luck
2007-12-26 19:13:00 · answer #4 · answered by Flyyasever 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everyone else has given excellent ideas on here. I just want to say that you sound like an amazing man because most would not even bother going out of there way to make the other spouse so happy. I can't even remember the last time my husband gave me flowers!
2007-12-26 18:07:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Flowers for no reason. Hold her hand. Always kiss her good morning and good bye before work. Never go to bed angry. Listen... really listen. And respond. Help around the house; she's your partner, not your maid. Have dates.... go out to eat and to concerts and movies. Let her have the remote sometimes. Don't eavesdrop on her phone conversations. Learn to cook at least three really outstanding meals.... and then do the dishes. Oh... you, too, can change diapers and get up during the night.
2007-12-26 17:54:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. Dont cheat
2. Do the dishes (my husband gets major brownie points for that)
3.bring her flowers when you come home from work every now and then
4.take her places
5.cuddle with her without expecting sex (if it leads to that great....but dont push her for it)
6 buy her her favorite candy
its the little things that count...and every womans different...the things I have listed are things my hubby does for me and I love it when he does.
just remember a woman is like a crock pot you have to start with the romancing at the beginning of the day if you want dinner when you come home
2007-12-26 18:07:44 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Arnold 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't cheat. Be honest. Take her out once in a while, not only to restaurants but to a lounge/bar, bowling alley, movies, and/or museum. Bring her roses/flowers home or send them to her office, once in a while. A man doesn't realize, its those little things that count. If she tells you, don't leave your socks on the couch, don't leave your socks on the couch. Don't be messy b/c that could make her pissed. It's the little things that count.
2007-12-26 17:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by Rica 82 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
send her unexpected (hot)phone msgs, leave little notes in her pocket or bag, call her boss to arrange for her to leave an hour early and pick her up , instead of a fancy dinner, have a picknick on the floor of the living room together or copy your very first date . good luck
2007-12-26 18:15:26 · answer #9 · answered by jtmommy10 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pay attention to her. REALLY listen when she is talking. Be interested in her. Find out what she likes and surprise her with something that has to do with it. Ask her about her day or what she's planning on doing tomorrow. Be creative. Take her on a nice vacation.
2007-12-26 17:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by gogogadgetlonglegs 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋