I recieved breast augmentation yes I got my augmentation earlier then Christmas I got them in November but I am very happy with the results I have always been heavy chested but after the kids I lost alot of my breast tissue I am only 5 foot 2 and about 105 pounds I am hoping I made a good desicion guys be serious was getting them done so late in my life a mistake. Be honest if your mother was 33 and she had 20yr old breasts would it bother you I don't want my children to be upset how I look what do you think? Also the breast augmentation was my idea and my husband did not push me to do it honest opinions please.
2007-12-26 12:42:32 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well to be more specific I am a petite women anyway so I will always look young no matter what also my breasts were just something I mentioned to my husband and he made it happen hoping I made the right choice and wanted to hear from outside people I am happy because my husband loves me no matter how big or small my breasts are I was just wondering if it was bad choice I know the deed is done but it can be changed anytime.
2007-12-26 13:11:10 · update #1
Sounds like you did it for all the right reasons, and have your head on straight about it. And, if you're 33, well, you're in the prime of life and have a right to feel good about yourself and the way you look.
2007-12-26 12:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by gwhillikers2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, your question is very hard to understand because the sentences all run together! If you are happy with your breasts, I guess that's all that counts. I worry more about your screen name-"ms sexy." If your main concern in life is being sexy, then you're off balance and that could effect your children. Also, your original question was if breast augmentation was a good gift from your husband. No, that is not a good gift. Then later you said it was your idea, so I am confused. Anyway, your breasts are yours, not your husband's or anyone elses, so the fact that you have to ask this question indicates that there is a problem somewhere!
2007-12-26 20:51:33 · answer #2 · answered by cowabunga 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You obviously aren't happy with yourself; otherwise you wouldn't have requested the augmentation. My guess is that your husband loves you to be happy, but I don't think your happiness should rely 100% on his satisfaction with your augmented breasts, because he's probably more interested with the woman behind the boobs. He probably just wants you to be happy and once you're happy with yourself, he'll be happy with you.
My girlfriend had a mastectomy because of breast cancer and I support her decision to avoid reconstruction. She will not allow a foreign object into her body because it would create health problems later in life. When youput something unnatural into your body - it tries to find a way to get rid of it. You're really screwing with your body by doing this, but now that you've done it - I would leave as-is until you experience any type of complications; then get them removed and keep them out for good. You're better off flat-chested than dead.
You may; however, be prepared to have them removed then replaced few times. A cousin regretted getting them due to so many complications throughout the years, so be prepared to deal with physical pain and long-term psychological suffering. If your experience is nothing but positive; you were a lucky minority.
2007-12-26 20:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by pSyCho jOe 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I am not a guy...But I had breast augmentation with implants when I was 32....That was almost 10 years ago...After having 3 children....everything went south...my husband at the time had no problem with me getting them...it was totally my decision...My kids are teenagers now...they know about the surgery and supported me then and still do....
Oh for God's sake! They sure don't look like a 20 year olds breast....so don't listen to the bimbo who said "why would you want to be 60 years old with a 20 year old's breast"...How stupid!
2007-12-26 20:49:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You will always get those who say no for this or that reason. Ignore that. Its your body and if you feel happier as you say you do and your husband likes the looks and feels and the results then thats all that should matter. Don't worry what others think . there not living your life. Be happy with them as you seem to be.
2007-12-26 21:12:12 · answer #5 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st. you only want to satisfy the needs of your husband. (are you afraid of him having a mistress?)
2nd. you had your decision and it's already there. you said you are happy with the results right? why are you still worrying?
3rd. if my 33yr.old mother got 20yr.old breast, an i am 18 yrs.old right now, i will not be upset. i will hug her a lot of times. (lol.hahaha)
4. there is no #4. just be happy with what you have done. you made no mistake actually.
happy holidays and God bless!
2007-12-26 20:52:30 · answer #6 · answered by haghag 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it great that you did it and if you feel good and hubby likes them or the better. When I was a child I could never tell you what age a breast was in fact I still can't so don't worry and enjoy your new found confidence. May you have a great future and grow in confidence all the best
2007-12-26 20:48:56 · answer #7 · answered by signfish 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was a good decision, as long as it was done in good taste and you feel ok about it. There are alot of factors to consider when having such work done - not just how you will look after the procedure. It sounds as though you have weighed the options carefully.
2007-12-26 20:49:04 · answer #8 · answered by Chuck Jones 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what ever makes you feel better about yourself. You have to live with it. Your kids will grow up and leave the house. you'll still have your bazooka's. If it helps your relationship with your husband than great. But if you done it for any other reason than for yourself or your husband then you already know the answer or else you probably wouldn't be asking.
2007-12-26 20:50:07 · answer #9 · answered by krawfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the breat augmentation made you feel good about yourself then it is a wonderful that you got it done. I have a friend that just had the surgery a couple of weeks ago and she feels so good about herself. She had it done for the same reason you did. Good for you and don't worry about what negative people say about it.
2007-12-26 20:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by jackie_jabar 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋