I am married for 11 years, i have 2 kids. For 10 years i can say im am emotionally battered since my husband is not me well. all i can remember is there in no day i am not crying because of insults and harsh words from him. And besides, he is doesnt turn over financial matter to me. In short he rules everything at home. Though i can say we are financially well off because we run a family business still i am not happy with all this material things in life. Its my kids made me stayed our family whole till this time.
One year ago, i met this man from internet, he became my outlet from all my hurts nad pains, and i admit ive fallin for him and we love each other much, he is senior of me 8 years. We bein we for one year already, we underwent many preassures, cool off many times but still we are again and cant let go again. We do not meet yet in person but were trying to synchronize our
plan so we can be together right time.
My problem is how can i separate my husband?Help me. I needs help.
2007-12-26 14:02:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You need to regain your self esteem and self worth... then just do it.
You know you deserve better, so why do you settle for less?
You need therapy to answer this.
Then you need time alone to heal your wounds. Jumping into bed with yet another stranger is not going to solve your problems.
You need to become emotionally and spiritually healthy.
Now get to work. Nobody but you can fix your life.
Good luck.
2007-12-26 14:07:38 · answer #1 · answered by box of rain 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your husband is abusive. Leave your husband and immediately get an attorney. Do not speak to your husband tell him to call your attorney. Do not stay in this marriage for the kids it is worse for them. Do not see the other man until your divorce is final he can use this against you.
If you have to get the kids and go to a womans shelter just get out.
2007-12-26 14:09:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If your husband is the kinda guy you say he is then he could make it very hard for you to leave him, if he does let you go then he would probably leave you and the kids with virtually nothing. Don't leave your stability for something that might not work !
2007-12-26 14:08:34 · answer #3 · answered by The misses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My problem is how can i separate my husband?Help me. I needs help.??????
Lets see..
1.) take a suitcase and pack your things and the kids things.. and leave! How hard is that?
2007-12-26 14:06:39 · answer #4 · answered by BeeBee 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
consult a lawyer, file for an annulment now, find someone else not just the guy from the internet. he might just be fooling you.
2007-12-27 04:01:48 · answer #5 · answered by sit on a bench 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer so u dont loose what u have as soon as the papers r ready leave
2007-12-26 14:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by DAVE H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be patient with him and every thing will soon be as a dream to you,love him more and try to get his attrctin to you,you what i am saying!
2007-12-26 14:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by Engineer D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is not a marriage and u need to get out of relationship if he treat you like that how is he treating your kids
2007-12-26 14:20:27 · answer #8 · answered by Bobby T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋