I have an ex who left me sick in the hospital to be with someone else. When I found out I lost it on him, because first I could not believe he could do something like that, and second the girl he left me for was bad news. I was so hurt and by his actions it seemed he did not care about me. We never fought and I helped him through so much mentally. After some time he did tell me everything he did was uncalled for and I found out he is no longer with this girl. This girl was a one night stand before we met, I confirmed that. She got pregnant and had his child. I am the one who told him he should be a part of the childs life, but I never thought he would fall for the mother. She is the reason he wanted nothing to do with them. He was ashamed. But now he is a big part of his daughters life. But no matter what I do, he will no longer talk to me. Why??? I just want answers from him in person, he wont respond to me.
2007-12-26 12:45:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i forgot to mention we were together for 2 yrs and he told me he wanted to kill himself because of this. he put that on my shoulders,. trust me. i do not want to be with him. i want him to confess in person what he did was wrong.
2007-12-26 12:58:27 · update #1
Let him be someone else's problem. Run FREE and FAST.
2007-12-26 13:28:22 · answer #1 · answered by Dani Bosco 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was a jerk to start with .. he abandoned you sick in the hospital. This speaks volumes of what kind of person he was to begin with. This is just a taste of what he would do to you in the future.
He doesn't talk with you probably because he just does not want to talk with you. Don't push the issue with him. Probably, the more you try to talk to him - the more he will avoid talking to you..
He is in deep with the daughter .. and it sounds like with the mother, too ... so - he is doing what he wants right now ... and he doesn't want to answer to you for anything he has done.
He is moving on .. and has no concern at all for you. In all probablity - if he grows bored with the mother - then he will attempt to come back into your life.
Back-off, and quit trying. You deserve someone who will do you right.
The answer you are looking for .. is that he is doing exactly as he wants to do. If he didn't want to do it - then he wouldn't.
He is where he wants to be.
2007-12-26 21:01:13 · answer #2 · answered by Tara 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is lying to you!!! You need to learn the facts of life real quick!!!
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me if you want to
hear the truth. You can ask me anything. I don't lie unlike
the other answers you will get.
2007-12-26 22:17:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
His actions say he is guilty and him avoiding you is him saying I AM GUILTY. He has to live out the rest of his life with this hanging over his head and nothing he could ever do will change that. Move on with your life. Don't dwell in the past and make yourself miserable. You have your whole life ahead of you. Go forward!
2007-12-27 01:27:25 · answer #4 · answered by T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sista Its over...whenever a relationship is in the state that u descirbed its going to be over......If he loves u truly he will doing anything resolve the difference...If he is unwilling to even speak he is holding u responsible for something in the relationship that he dislike...My sista, nothing last forever, not even salvation because salvation expires at the comming of Jesus the second time....relationship is included.....move on and be happy.....things could much worse..move on...
2007-12-26 21:00:22 · answer #5 · answered by Morgie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why? Why? Why? Let the b@stard kill himself. He's worthless anyway. You need to keep as much distance between you and him as you can. He's a loose cannon. Why would you want someone who's already cheated on you? Why do you even need to know? He's no good. That's why.
2007-12-26 21:25:08 · answer #6 · answered by Poppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it! You are wasting your time. Go find someone who is interested in you and you in him. You are wasting alot of energy to try to get an answer you will never get.
2007-12-26 21:47:57 · answer #7 · answered by ...ジme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a man who will treat you better not an ex with baggage!Focus on getting better and finding someone better-this one's a loser.
2007-12-26 20:54:58 · answer #8 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop calling him, get away from him, what else does he have to do to say he doesnt want to be with you, you deserve someone better...you dont need a ready made family, he sounds like a jerkl
2007-12-26 20:52:27 · answer #9 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe he is confused on what he wants and he might not have a answer for you just give him some time then ask him why
hope this helps
2007-12-26 21:27:43 · answer #10 · answered by Bobby T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋