my boyfriend has been logging on to chat lines giving girls his number exchanging sexual texts and pics. how do i get him to stop?
2007-12-26 12:57:28 · 18 answers · asked by slwpain30 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why don't you start beating yourself in the head with a hammer on a regular basis? That way you will have a better idea of when to stop doing destructive things. Like staying in a lost relationship. It will be OBVIOUS.
2007-12-27 00:41:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to tell him why you want him to stop, set boundaries, and tell him it's you or the chatlines. Doesn't he know he's broken a trust? They only way you will be sure he isn't chatting and lying is for you to get his passwords, email addresses, access to his computer, etc.
Or you choose the easier option---ditch him. It's too much work checking up on someone and not having the trust. He's been cheating on you and trying to get "hook-ups".
If it's Craigslist, I feel sorry for you. Craigslist is so detrimental to a relationship.
2007-12-26 13:10:25 · answer #2 · answered by rabbit4041 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is all he is doing it is a miracle. You obviously haven't learned the facts of life yet!!!
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me if you want to
hear the truth. You can ask me anything. I don't lie unlike
the other answers you will get.
2007-12-26 14:15:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open the side of the computer and remove something. Most people have no idea what a computer requires. If you pull out the right thing, he won't be able to use the computer. Once he's gone a little while without it, it will be easier for him to stop. Once that happens let him know it will not be tolerated in the future.
2007-12-26 13:09:12 · answer #4 · answered by Loki's Mommy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Why would you tolerate that kind of behavior?
2. Turn off the internet.
3. Find a new boyfriend, because he probably does it in the real world, not just online.
2007-12-26 13:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by Y U 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't have to do anything to keep my SPOUSE off sexual chatlines....He has no reason to be on them in the first place and respects our marriage.....obviously your boyfriend doesn't respect your relationship....
The two posters before me are exactly right...you can't change him...In order for him to change his habits...HE has to want to change....
2007-12-26 13:03:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off this is a bad sign for any relationship if you are not enough to keep him occupied then why bother? If he has time to share himself with others why do you want to be involved with someone who does not cherish you? You have to firm in what you want and stick to it. There's not much time left for bull s#@!
2007-12-26 13:05:05 · answer #7 · answered by Precious1 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't change him!!!! However you can set boundaries that will eighter make your relationship better or give you enough evidence that his love and commitment are not at 100%. Take the initiative to change your relationship right now..it is up to you!
2007-12-26 13:03:20 · answer #8 · answered by KingDavid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
exchanging his number and pics sounds like he is looking for more then just online fun.
2007-12-26 13:04:33 · answer #9 · answered by blueeyd_princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would leave him-and tell him he can have those chat lines and the psycho's that go with them-
2007-12-26 13:08:03 · answer #10 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋