Kids father and I are doing things as a normal family would. But when I ask if we're back together, he brings up the child support he has to pay and other things Ive done to make his life hard financially after we broke up and never really answers my question. If I didn't ask, I would have thought we were back together.
2007-12-26 13:15:23 · 13 answers · asked by great2 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The child support he has to pay does not make his life financially hard--he would have had to pay the money anyway if you were still together.
I never had a dime after paying for piano lessons and hockey equipment and school outings and who knows what else when my two were growing up--and my wife and I were together the whole time.
I don't think this is a mixed signal at all--I think if he wanted to get back together with you he would say so.
It sounds to me that all he's wanting to do is blubber about having to pay out money.
2007-12-26 13:26:03 · answer #1 · answered by Pagan Dan 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you're doing things as a "normal" family, he's probably sick of paying for everything twice. He pays to do things as a family, then he has to turn around and send you child support. If you want to get back together, go all the way. Don't have your cake and eat it too!
2007-12-26 13:21:35 · answer #2 · answered by K M 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im sorry he complains because he has to pay child support?? That makes his life hard?? Sounds like a real winner.. Your probably better off finding a real man.
2007-12-26 13:19:36 · answer #3 · answered by blueeyd_princess 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Set the ground rules before you get back together. Sounds like it's going to be a sticking point.
2007-12-26 13:19:16 · answer #4 · answered by Poppy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why should he fault you somehow because he must help take care of your children? If he is sending mixed signals..he's into several different things---he doesnt have one mind and probably has several lives. He is your ex for a reason....let him into your life only for your kids...to see them. YOU...go on with your life, there is not a future for you with your ex.
2007-12-26 13:21:00 · answer #5 · answered by skyward 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he's a selfish man who wants his cake and eat it too. Quit acting needy. He NEEDS to pay for his children, there is nothing vindictive or vengeful about that. Good luck, and try to get him out of your heart. Realize a real man would not have said those things to you.
2007-12-26 13:20:13 · answer #6 · answered by Brittney 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He just wants to get in your pants AND get you to tell him he doesn't have to pay CS. He's an idiot. Find a nice guy and keep your distance from the moron.
2007-12-26 13:18:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
STOP ASKING!!! If you are happy shut up!!! That's what happens to soul mates. You are happy and in love then the woman can't shut up and she has to change it to marriage. Then what happens?!?!? Your relationship is not the same and it is over!!!
2007-12-26 14:06:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh sounds like he's just trying to get out of his OBLIGATION TO HIS CHILDREN BY STAYING WITH YOU-oops sorry for the caps
2007-12-26 13:19:29 · answer #9 · answered by Lunaeclipz 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Im all broke up crien ..if you can't figure this out!! boo who... I miss my hairy teddy bear!!!.
2007-12-26 13:31:20 · answer #10 · answered by quen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋