I met my husband when I was 17 and we married 6 years later, I am now 31. I know relationships have there ups and downs and I guess you could call this a down moment or maybe I am making it into one. My husband does everything for everyone and sometimes I feel like I am taking the back seat at times. Over the last 2 years is parents (family) has been going through a hard time, with his parents getting divorced and I guess his sister is a whole different story, but the stresses have gotten to me a little too, I don't want to know about it now. We are also trying for a family, well we have been for 6 years and the stresses from that don't help matters. About 4 mths ago I had a panic attack and ever since then I am questioning my sexuality (who knows why) and I am also questioning my relationship. Crazy Times I love my husband and I want us to have a family and grow old together. I need to stress less and accept his family for who they are and take some pressure off us. Any advice
2007-12-26 19:46:40 · 5 answers · asked by mrsmacca22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I am in the same situation as you. My husband does everything for his family and I feel like I am right at the bottom of his priority list. Some people are so intertwined with their families that even suggesting to them that they are over-involved could cause a major rift in the relationship. Allow him to do whatever he needs to do for his family. Just see it as a phase that will one day be over. Find other activities / interests to occupy your time. When he realises that you're not begging and pleading for his attention anymore he might realise that he ought to be spending more time with you. Anxiety and stress will not get you anywhere; it is pointless to worry about the future. Just make up your mind to enjoy your life and make the best of each day. Who knows - maybe when you are more relaxed your long-awaited pregnancy will come! good luck.
2007-12-26 20:49:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest seeking the help of a qualified psychologist. If the other answerer is correct and it's depression or some other common mental disorder, the psychologist should be able to diagnose and treat you. (Therapy has the same success rate for treating and curing depression and anxiety disorders as do antidepressant medications without the side effects).
2007-12-27 04:03:59 · answer #2 · answered by some female 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like you are suffering from depression. Seek medical advice.
2007-12-27 03:52:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need God in your life. Read the Holy Bible and find a good Bible church.
2007-12-27 03:50:31 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋
go for a holiday with him, tell him how u feel...
2007-12-27 03:52:38 · answer #5 · answered by Sony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋