2007-12-26 19:19:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Leave her alone and try to focus that energy somewhere that something positive can result. She is married. I know you can't help who you are attracted to or who you fall in love with, but nothing good can come from it. Move on, and consider yourself a better person for moving on. Good things will come your way, and you may even find there is someone out there for you who is single. You just may never find her if you stay focused on this one, who is already taken!
2007-12-26 19:27:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you nuts??? I'll never in my life understand why people do this. You're gonna get yourself killed.
You know she's married, you know she's untrustable in a relationship, you know she's a woman who doesn't see her commitments through, you know she's a liar, and you're pretty sure she's just using you. How can allow yourself to fall in love with this girl? There's no future and you can't even be sure what you're seeing isn't a lie.
You need to dump her. Let herknow you're dumping her and then refuse any communication with her. Don't respond to emails or txts, don't answer or return her calls, don't answer the door if she comes over, and call security if she visits at work. Let her know she's not allowed to see or talk to you anymore and tell her to get counsoling to fix her marriage. Then I'd consider why you let this happen. Maybe you should see a doctor and talk about this, there are some underlying issues that cause you to act in this way. Maybe you should try to work those out so you can actually enter a healthy relationship.
2007-12-26 19:28:23 · answer #2 · answered by BrandonM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the question?
You don't know how to tell her? Or your question what you should do with your life in general?
How old is your married love? Does she have kids? How long is she married?
1. If she is being married for a pretty long time it's good. She can be tired of her husband.
2. If she has kids it is not good, it will be harder to get her.
So you see lack of information doesn't allow to answer to you correct.
2007-12-26 21:10:20 · answer #3 · answered by Leonid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man that has faced this issue from the husband perspective...you'd best move on!
Nothing good will come of it and you could wind up seriously hurt or dead. Men are very possessive when it comes to their families and believe me, if I had ever caught the SOB that ruined mine, he would be no one elses worry.
So forget the MILF dream unless she is single or divorced already...even then be careful. Find some sweet young thing to satisfy your lusts or handle it yourself.
Fyrfytr
2007-12-26 22:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by n2dfyrigo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Leave her alone. She's committed. she's married. Its a lose lose situation. try to move on.
2007-12-26 19:22:38 · answer #5 · answered by Drews Princess 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. Don't be part of the cause of breaking up another family dude.
2007-12-26 21:50:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Don't tell her.
2007-12-26 19:30:37 · answer #7 · answered by wxyz 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Run far away from her, lest you commit adultery and cause her to also. Find someone single. Love is a choice.
2007-12-26 19:25:23 · answer #8 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away. Walk away. Walk away. Literally. Avoid her. You'll get over it.
2007-12-26 19:24:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Mark my words:
KEEP AWAY......YOU'VE GOT NO RIGHT....DONT BE THE AS******* THAT EVERY DESENT MAN HATE AND WANTS TO KILL....
LIFE IS SHORT...
JUST MOVE ALONG THE LINES..AND YOU WONT LOOSE.....
2007-12-26 20:35:59 · answer #10 · answered by TOXOTIS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋