Im not sure if he is, but sometimes i get da feeling could u pls help. He did give me reason to believe in da past.
2007-12-26 18:27:00 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you have a feeling, then that usually means something. Give us some examples of his behavior that is making you feel he is cheaitng. And please, since this is an adult manner, at least care enough to spell "the" properly. Sheesh.
2007-12-26 18:31:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Check his cell phone records, including the work cell phone. Check all his email addresses including work email, not just the email he uses for you. You will find everything you are looking for!!! Yes he is cheating on you. If I was a psychic I would make a fortune if married women came to me with this question. Why? All married men cheat!!! Here are thef facts of life you obviously haven't learned yet:
1. There is no Santa
2. There might be a Bigfoot
3. All men cheat, almost all women cheat
4. Marriage ruins all relationships (moving in is the same)
5. Everyone lies (you even lie to yourself)
6. Life is not fair
Good luck and Happy Holidays. Email me
if you want to hear the truth. I don't lie.
2007-12-27 09:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but what i have to say are questions now, Does he look like he has something on his mind all the time. Now if he spaces out and it had nothing to do with another woman he would talk to you about it. Sorry about this one... Is he distant in bed, like do you have to make the first move? Is he cold with you in words? Sorry about all the questions, Is he gone for long periods of time for reasons he shouldn't take up all that time? Does he insist to you just go wherever you want and take your time? Sometimes this doesn't mean like he's having an affair but maybe he's going through something. Does he hide his phone calls like when he answers does he keep them short in front of you? Sorry you have to feel this way its the worst feeling Hope hes not.
2007-12-27 02:41:13 · answer #3 · answered by Noel 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Check him out. Find out what he's doing on the Internet, in emails, chat rooms and instant messaging. Check his phone for numbers. Keep track of the bank accounts, find out where all the money goes. Have him followed. Hire a private investigator. Or have a friend he doesn't know follow him. Don't sit at home and wonder, go find out what he's doing.
2007-12-27 03:54:49 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok if he has given you reason in the past and you have given him anothe shot at it with you, then maybe he is bored, with things again, if he is showing signs of like before then i would say yes, if he has habits with the phone at home, stay way from the house for along time, not answering the phone when you call, wash his clothes from your, always pacing the floors when he is home, doesnt really spend time with you, always has a story to tell you when you ask questions, low on cash think about all of this, then if some ring a bell then you know, gd luck to u
2007-12-27 02:40:30 · answer #5 · answered by iamsugaronyourlips 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
two words: women's intuition
girl you know if ur man is steppin out so either try to catch him then leave him or just leave his sorry a** before you get hurt anymore.
GOOD LUCK!!
Lyssa
***NICE TRY Michael T- putting the blame back on the woman getting cheated on and lied to. Typical male move. She knows about her relationship so stop standing up for a guy you don't even know. SHE asked the question and kinda gave you proof (as she sees it) and you STILL defend the guy. Are you cheating on someone right now? wtvr~
2007-12-27 02:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by Lyssa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you just have a 'feeling', you could be wrong. If you can find some proof, then believe it. But if you have no proof, it could just be your own insecurity. So look for proof and then act on the results (confront him and the infidelity) or stop looking for proof and forget about it - for your own peace of mind.
2007-12-27 03:16:23 · answer #7 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself and you should know. sometimes feelings could be the fear in us and feeling insecure too.
not to forget suspicious due to past experience.
me, I would try to trust him and if the urge is too strong, I would ask him for the truth. if he wants to lie about it, what can I do?
but if he should be lying....forgiveness is never the word and he needs to know that.
for we cant force a relationship and being mature adults, we should know the make or break signs.
2007-12-27 07:28:11 · answer #8 · answered by coffee_tea_or 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so many signs that he might be..most likley he is if you have instincts..signs are the following
1) he lost weight
2) not around as much
3) makes excuses when late
4) doesnt tell you all them nice things he use to say
my advise follow him one night in another car
see where he goes check his cell phone threw the call section...check for unknown names in address book
if you cant do that then hire an investigator may cost about 3000.00 dollars atleast
..whatever your quote is ill do it for less.
2007-12-27 04:13:27 · answer #9 · answered by chevilless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is cheating on you maybe you deserve it. If your not smart enough to know the signals and signs of a distressed marriage/relationship/committment then maybe you should not be in one.
Relationships take committment from both people. Usually the accuser is most likely the offender. Their insecurity causes them to distrust and accuse their partner of crimes and infidelity theyve already committed. It guilt projected outward.
Are you hiding something?
2007-12-27 02:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by michael t 1 · 3⤊ 2⤋