it.s was christmas and yes we are divorced i called him to say merry christmas but no answer nothing but voice mail .he never even called i was up late but no call i know i did wrong on cheating on him but it was christmas why was it so hard to even call and say at least hi. i had never cheated on him but that one time. which led to my divoce from him i truley was and am sorry for beliving the other man who i thought loved me was i wrong on that but i have paid the price for it and i really love my .ex. husband more than ever why is it so hard to call at that time just to say hi. he never did.
2007-12-26 16:43:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yes i feel for the other.s man.s lie hook . line as well sinker like a fool beliving he loved me and had never cheated before but i was very wrong .and still love my husband more than life it.s self
2007-12-26 16:46:56 · update #1
if you truley loved him you would have never cheated on him. seem,s he chose the right path by divorcing you . afer all it wasnt him cheating was it . i admire him for getting ou. i would did the same thing myself .after all you cant have your cake and eat it can you . . try calling who you ruined your marrage with. seem.s your ex dont want you . and learn both men and women haave feeling.s on matters of being cheated on and morals something you didnt have . my opion?
2007-12-26 17:12:19 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
well if you truely love your ex, you wouldnt have cheated on him.
you cant say it was a mistake etc or have any excuse co syou just wrote that you thought the other man truely loved you etc so i take it that was why you cheated.
if you were so in love with your husband, you wouldnt be looking fo rlove from another man.
leave him alone.
he obviously divorced you after finding out you cheated on him because he was hurt that you chose to throw away your relationship and he has more respect for himself than to stand by and look like a idiot for believing your excuses.
just leave him alone.
take a hint, if he didnt call you or answer your call, he obviously doesnt want to talk to you and i honestly cant blame him.
sorry if my answer seems so harsh but you cant expect people to feel sorry for you.
2007-12-27 00:51:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
I know you are hurt .. and that you won't like hearing this .. but he doesn't return your calls because he does not want to call you.
It kinda sounds like he got out when you cheated .. and moved on with his life.
Since all these things have happened to you .. and you can't unring that bell - meaning that you can't go backwards to change what has happened .. you may need to get over your losses - and go forward with your life. It kinda sounds like your ex is done.
Time .. will help heal you, as 'time' is the healer of most things. Just learn from your experiences.
Best wishes to you.
2007-12-27 00:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by Tara 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are divorced. Its over, He has no need to talk to you. Maybe he found someone that wont cheat on him, not even once. get over it. If you really loved him there should have never been a first time cheating on him.
2007-12-27 00:54:58 · answer #4 · answered by lourdes 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
what if he had cheated on u? would u want to talk to him to just say hi - probably not. He's hurt and its easier to forget by not talking to eachother. You really messed up by cheating on him and only time heals all wounds. You'll just have to move on - no matter how much it hurts.
2007-12-27 00:59:15 · answer #5 · answered by 1love 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well huney as a man ill give you advise..
either he found someone that is more loyal to him or he just doesnt wanna hear you voice..
dont forget you are the one as to why your not together anymore i can understand why he hasnt called you.
2007-12-27 04:32:40 · answer #6 · answered by chevilless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because he wants to move on and not greeting you back is one of the easier ways for him to move on well. he is still affected whenever he thinks of what happened to the two of you. since he does not want to look back at the past anymore, he decided not to move on and that includes not responding back to you.
2007-12-27 01:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by stel 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it only takes that one time on either side you or him the trust faith and love is lost.
2007-12-27 00:58:14 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Because he is done with you. Get over it.
2007-12-27 01:08:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
as much as it might hurt to hear maybe he was with someone and that's why he couldn't call?
2007-12-27 00:48:29 · answer #10 · answered by jaclyn130 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋