I just turned 28 this month, and recently I don't want to be around anyone or talk to anyone that requires effort meaning I don‘t want to be the entertainer. I am happy with where I am in life, I have a few plans for myself that will enable me to have my debit paid off or under control, I will be able to open up a "rainy day" savings account, and I recently just got real serious in the church, and will be able to tithe my 10%. I don't want to be bother with a lot of my friends, I don't want to be bothered with the guy I was dating, and I don't want to really hang out anymore, and it's not because I am in the church now, it's not because I am depressed cause I‘m not, and it's not because my friends have done anything to me.
2007-12-26 17:13:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I just truly don't want to be bothered, and I started feeling like this a couple of weeks before my 28th birthday. I feel bad because some of the people I don’t want to be around now have been there for me through some really bad times and vise versa, so I ask, has anyone else went through this, and if so what do you call it, does it ever pass, and should I want it to pass? I am social, and there are one or two friends I really enjoy hanging out with I just don’t initiate it, and am fine if they don’t. I am not staying to myself or sheltering myself from the world because I don’t mind meeting new people, and I don’t mind being around people who don’t know everything about me, it’s just my current friends.
2007-12-26 17:14:02 · update #1
Did you get real serious about church or real serious about God? There is a HUGE difference. There are many people playing church and doing things in the name of God in a church. If you are just starting to get real serious about GOD, then there are changes about to take place in your life. People are put into our life's journey for a purpose. Some stay forever and some for a season, but all for a purpose. It may be time to leave some of the old things behind and begin a new life in the direction God is leading you. Lose the boyfriend, stay connected in part to your friends but don't push anything right now. Things will fall into place in time. Be happy with your alone time, study the Bible, and get ready for the ride of your life. This is just the beginning of a new adventure.
2007-12-26 17:48:10 · answer #1 · answered by baseballdad69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had this at the age of 25 and every year after.
It is called a 1/4 life crisis. My sisters friend wrote a book on it. I am pretty sure it is called "quarter life crisis"
It may give you some better insight on why you feel this way.
2007-12-27 01:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may not feel its the church but it is im going through the exact same thing right now maybe its god preparing u for something really big and you may have people in your life that may hold u back and be in the way just try to keep in touch with those people and go on with your journey of your me time god is definitely taking u places u are not alone
2007-12-27 01:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by cocoa 4 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look...
You don't have to justify yourself to us or anyone else in this world. All you need to do is be true to your morals and listen to your conscious.
All this sounds like to me is you are simply growing up. Good for you! You will soon see being an adult and taking responsibility for your life is the key to happiness.
Good luck. You are not alone.
2007-12-27 01:18:34 · answer #4 · answered by box of rain 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just need a lot of alone-time.
Also - if you were dating the 'right' guy .. you would definelty want to be bothered by him.
Just give yourself a break .. and allow yourself the alone-time.
Maybe it will pass.
If it doesn't , then maybe you are desiring new avenues in your life.
Give it time..
Time will tell.
2007-12-27 01:20:36 · answer #5 · answered by Tara 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're just growing up and finding yourself. You'll be okay. Good luck.
2007-12-27 01:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by Katie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When the only thing left in your life is you and God, it has passed.
2007-12-27 01:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey !! you are great, you are you and that is the way. Go for it and good luck. When you feel like having a friend, please call me.
2007-12-27 01:52:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋