Iam a 32 year old male from Kerala, India. At fist I married a girl who is ignorant about what is life! She was a doll in the hands of her parents. I had to divorce her to keep my dignity. Then I married another one who is a saddist and sex maniac who gave me losing of peace of mind every day. She wanted only a “loving machine” for 24 hours, not a husband who has professional and personal commitments. I could not do my job in office while she made my home hell and I had to return home after her call. I got divorce after a long strike and I have lost peace of mind. Now I am abroad and working with a well-paid job. Now the pressure is upon me for another marriage, because there should be somebody to love and take care of my family (my aged mother) and me. Now I have to go on vacation soon back to my region. Nothing in my mind right now regarding marriage.Somebody warns me being old for marriage. How can I find the right one? pls give your opinions.
2007-12-26 19:28:39 · 9 answers · asked by Master 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
ninte first wife ippol enthu cheyunnu....aval vere kalyanam kazhicho?
nee parayunnathu kettittu thonnunnu aval oru paavam pennu aanennu...avale nokku....
and 32 year is not a big age........you will a get new wife....thats sure....just give an advertisement in the matrimony column of manorama and mathrubhumi...it will work....
by the way....as i said....you can consider your first wife...if she is still single....
2007-12-28 19:42:56 · answer #1 · answered by silver bells 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
#1. Hire a caregiver to take care of your Mother.
#2. Hire a housekeeper to clean and cook and run errands.
Are you seeking an American wife or an Indian wife? Sounds like you may have personal issues to work on. You should not allow yourself to be pressured into a relationship. Could be problems with cultural differences. Age is a great factor if you are wanting to have children, but don't rush into a marriage. Look for someone with like interests who appreciates what your line of work entails, and is willing to have your Mother there to look after. Relationships take time to build, and you will know when you have met the "right one".
Good Luck!
2007-12-27 04:14:58 · answer #2 · answered by henry568 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how you selected the first two but according to you they didn't work out, so change whatever process you used. If all you are interested in someone to take care of your aged mother and you, and you have a good job, maybe you should just hire a housekeeper.
Finding the right woman, means dating different types of women for a few years to get to know them and hopefully find one you love....and from your comments one who doesn't want much sex either.
2007-12-27 03:41:44 · answer #3 · answered by ScSpec 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
marriages are made in hevan, i think yours were made in hell.
trust in god and move ahead, all vil turn fine, dawn is there after the darkest night, all girls are different, but remember you need two to clap, try thinking what you shloud have done to work it out . best of luck, dont let any setbacks worry you.
2007-12-27 05:17:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you may not be marriage material...just find you a f@ck buddy for your "needs" and stay single.
2007-12-27 03:42:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u are divorced twice, i think tat there is something wrong with u and not them, if u want a perfect woman with no flaws, dun get married anymore, be single.
2007-12-27 03:35:16 · answer #6 · answered by Sony 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think u should only decide about it if u ask opinion u will get confused
2007-12-27 05:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
use the matrimonial -internet,paper to select your partners.
the life is ever green who wants to live.
2007-12-27 03:35:03 · answer #8 · answered by younmanofthegarden 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay single it's good for you and your mother
2007-12-27 05:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by sweet imene 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋