Will u b worry that after giving birth ur body
shape won't b perfect as bofore n ur husband
won't admire u anymore?
2007-12-26 16:38:25 · 15 answers · asked by da da 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
listen i'm 7 weeks pregnant and when you know your marrying the right man you know and that really shouldn't be a thought bc you(your body you are giving up) are giving the both of you the joy of LIFE a child. He should love you no matter what i don't even question the love after.i know everything will be perfect.
2007-12-26 16:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by jaclyn130 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was so depressed just about being pg that I never really thought about it . I think I was more afraid about becoming a parent. But I was thinner and in better Sharp be for I got pg . Unless u have lots of money to have plastic surgery like those rich people on TV. Then your pretty much stuck with the body after birth. Hopefully u have good genes like my family. They actual look good after having kids. My mother gets mistaken for being me sister Till this day. And she had 5 kids. I'm one of them.My father never looked his age ether. 45 and still got carded for alcohol. Can u believe that! If u seen my sisters and I .You would never think we had kids. I actually would do things to make myself look older a few years back. Sad I know. Now that I'm off tract I'll finish up by saying . It's all how you view you body . U can change anything u want about yourself if you just put ur mind to it! Be positive about yourself know matter what any one says. Believe that ur beautiful because any one that can give life from the body's deserve to be called Beautiful!!! : )
2007-12-27 01:58:27 · answer #2 · answered by Joy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, yeah! But the way I see it is they should have fell in love with the person inside the body not outside and if they don't admire a woman anymore because their body is not longer perfect, there's some form of plastic surgery they can do to fix it but the hubby better fork out all the money to pay, no credit cards (see how bad they want the perfection or not!)
2007-12-27 01:28:51 · answer #3 · answered by ~SweeT~ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. My husband is not shallow. I even asked him one this very same question and he looked at me and said "What kind of man do you think I am. I'd love you regardless. If I gave birth to our children and my body wasn't perfect, whould you still love me?" When he said this I jumped on him and kissed him a million times. I'm the fortunate one with a truly wonderful man!
2007-12-27 00:57:01 · answer #4 · answered by ★♥AJ♥★™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell yes!!! It's not that I don't think that he won't admire my body anymore,I'm worried that I won't admire it anymore.I have a very nice body and I work very hard to keep it this way.
2007-12-27 02:42:44 · answer #5 · answered by Juliana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, it is important to be desired by the husband. I want to feel attractive also.
Try to work out and stay in shape after delivery.
2007-12-27 03:50:18 · answer #6 · answered by Betsy Boop 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some look even better after having a baby! Eat healthy, and you will be fine!
2007-12-27 00:52:43 · answer #7 · answered by DORY 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
your body will definitely change for sure...but you can work out and take care of yourself...Having the babies was well worth it ...by the way i am vain and after i had my kids I had lipo and breast implants..lol...so just keep the carbs low and eat healthy while pregnant///
2007-12-27 00:49:26 · answer #8 · answered by josiejo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...if husband was that shallow then I wouldn't want to be with him. After all they are his babies and I lost my figure to have his children. So unless he wants to do it, then he can't say anything about it.
2007-12-27 00:50:40 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Looks are only skin deep. It is what is on the inside that counts.
2007-12-27 00:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by Grammy(back on) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋