Marriage & Divorce - 23 December 2007

I have my sister and her fiance.....my AA new friends.....a home for now and some food....a stuffed bear who keeps me company.....the memories of my parents......a future to come.......great friends on the internet....the new realization that there are people who care who may be even strangers.....the idea that I can better myself...and some good shows I can watch on my own tv in my own bed or sofa this holiday!

2007-12-23 17:48:10 · 3 answers · asked by theartisttwin 5

2007-12-23 17:37:07 · 2 answers · asked by urs4tostay 1

you found some naked pictures of your husband in a file on the computer?

2007-12-23 17:33:18 · 7 answers · asked by Stacies Mom 5

My husband have not been getting along for sometime. However, I have been trying to work it out because we have 2 small children together (18 months & 5 weeks old). Amongst mysterious hotel receipts, secret strip club visits and unaccounted for ATM withdrawels I found out through a friend that he was on match...

2007-12-23 17:29:54 · 4 answers · asked by jazzygirl1020 1

How long does it take to fully trust that person again or does it depend?

2007-12-23 17:28:20 · 9 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4

My wife just said ''I'm the one who looks after you''.

I said ''Er, no, I look after you''

She said 'How?'

Help me here..

2007-12-23 17:23:35 · 7 answers · asked by ? 4

I have known my man for almost four years. We have been together for three. We haven't been as close as we use to be. Things change his hours change at his job. I still keep the fire going by sending him erotic pictures(email) of myself which he can't wait to open. Sometimes I think he wants me to have his child. The fact is he is married which I can care less. I have a feeling we will ultimately be together. I just need some pointers from guys on how to speed up the process.

2007-12-23 17:09:17 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous

He's unemployed and no one will hire him because he's 'overqualified' (went to college and can't find a job in his field)
She's a homemaker but she's getting a job down the street to make ends meet.
They have a child together, but they rarely talk to each other. They usually ignore each other and go about their day doing various things, taking care of the child separately.
He runs to his parent's house across the street every other day to cry about how terrible she is.
She feels angry half the time because he's always depressed or complaining about something.
He refuses to go to couples therapy or take antidepressants.
He ignores her when she tries to argue out their problems, threatens to cut off his family then blames it on her, saying that she's trying to keep him from his family.
He drinks and refuses to quit no matter what she does and becomes whiny and irritable from the alcohol.

Is there any way this relationship can be put back together? The flames have died.

2007-12-23 17:01:09 · 22 answers · asked by Agnostic 2

support them ( no WELFARE) and it can get pretty expensive and i wanted to give them a better future instead of making kids and it becomes harder to take care of them. I know i did the right thing but i feel so bad and a lesser woman i guess i don't feel whole anymore. Am i crazy? for feeling like this?

2007-12-23 16:57:05 · 19 answers · asked by christine 2

My good friend for years asked me to come help her clean her house and I told her I would try to come over and I didn't because I to was busy shopping for gifted and I had to help my mom as well she called me really upset telling me she needs help. I told her I'd call her when I get home and I never did because when I think of it she has never come over to my house to help me clean and the 3 years I have lived in my house she has only visited once. I haven't called her back and I don't think I will, does that make me a bad friend??

2007-12-23 16:50:30 · 20 answers · asked by riggie 3

2007-12-23 16:31:11 · 19 answers · asked by I like to drink 1

well me and my girl have been going out for a yr and i luv her 2 death and she knows that.. but latetly the past week or so shes been acting strange lately.. well heres the story we both work together but go to different high schools.. ok.. she told me theres this girl at her school that likes her and wants 2 go out with her (my gf friend) ok, my girl told me straight up she wasnt Bi.. ok.. well y is that lately on the day i dont c her i call her and she doesnt answer and when she does we talk for 20-30 mins and then she tells me she'll call me back and she never does.. or y is it that when we work when we get a brake together she calls her friend instead of us talking.. or lately she text so much (and yea with her friend) and also i bought her two necklaces and she dont wear them but she wears a necklace that her friend gave her... and she says she aint Bi?? so basically in a way she dedicates more time 2 her friend that likes her.. so is this a good reason to brake up with her??

2007-12-23 16:28:01 · 5 answers · asked by Eduardo 1

2007-12-23 16:23:31 · 7 answers · asked by Danny P 1

When I was younger my concern was that I am not beautiful enough, but now that I feel beautiful, I feel old. I was married once and I think that makes my feeling even worse! I'm always thinking about it. please help me! Girls my age are having babies and I'm still here without any everlasting relation :( I am muslim and I can't be with anyone I want.

2007-12-23 16:16:24 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous

So my husband told me he wants to have a threesome but with another man... what do you think that means?

2007-12-23 16:13:41 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous

I love him & i trust him & i feel lucky to be his gf. but i am so scared that if we get married he will cheat & we will get divorced. what if its later on in life like 25 yrs later & he leaves me for someone younger? i dont like kids & i think thats part of the reason. i keep thinking 'shes cute now but 20 years from now the little slut will be trying to steal ur husband.' i know it stems from my insecurities & i need to fix that quick before it starts having an impact on my relationship. but this is a deep set fear (divorce/infidelity) & i dont know how to handle it. every time one thing gets proved wrong i think of something else. i dont want to attract this from focusing on it so much but i cant seem to stop. my parents are divorced b/c my dad left my mom 4 someone else & hes now married to her. i love both my parents but i still resent him 4 that & i am scared b/c i dont want to end up like my mom even tho i look up to her.

plz help what should i do?

2007-12-23 16:10:28 · 7 answers · asked by Angelisurifrie 1

Ok have a friend that is 44 and she never dates, never wants to marry. She likes to be alone period. Now, is this a bad thing for when she gets older and has health problems and needs assistance or a husband?

2007-12-23 16:00:46 · 35 answers · asked by DREENA 2

We were planning on everything...marriage..kids. Our first step which was getting an apt together was about to happen. We had found the apt was about to move in in a couple of weeks and then BAM! He broke everything of..didn't wan't to be with me anymore...claiming we 'faught' to much. Anyways he's been wanting to see me and hang out, and I think he may want me back...but I'm so scared to take him back if he does..because I'm scared he might hurt me again. But I do love him so much...I've been taking since out breakup and no other guy compares.

2007-12-23 15:59:58 · 11 answers · asked by Helen 1

Is there anyone who is married to someone and the age different is 10+? I am just wondering if it could work out and what are some of the problems. Not in that kind of relationship yet, just thinking bout it. Thanks

2007-12-23 15:58:01 · 13 answers · asked by Randy W 4

My husband is currently in jail right now. I am eight months pregnant with his child and so far it has been rough, thanks to him. He is an alcoholic and throughout my pregnancy there's been many occasions where he'd loose his job, not come home at night, not cheating but out in the bar or passed out somwhere, or I'd come home to a drunk husband after a long night at work. We talked about two days ago after getting his one phone call from jail which he's in there for a misdmeanor but he's finally promising me to get the help he needs and that once he gets out which will probably be in a couple weeks he is going to do everything he can to get help and do what he's got to do now. A part of me is so mad at him and I feel I can't trust him. I really do love him though. Unfortunately his childhood was very horrible which is the main reason he is the way he is. As his wife, what am I supposed to do?? He's promised me this before, but he's finally hit rock bottom now......

2007-12-23 15:56:01 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous

how much does your hubby do around the house? how many hours a week does he work? do you stay at home or work yourself? how many kids do you have? does he work normal hours or grave-yards?

thanks... your helping settle an arguement. =)

2007-12-23 15:53:20 · 21 answers · asked by <3 3

I am wondering why does men like to look for mistress. I just wondering to know what is the actual reason behind. No matter how pretty and how good the wife is! I guess it must be some interesting to find out more!

2007-12-23 15:49:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous

I told my boyfriend if he didn't do something I wanted, he couldn't touch me anymore. He told me not to be ridiculous and swatted my ***. It was something pretty silly. What should I do?
What do you think he thinks now?

2007-12-23 15:45:41 · 18 answers · asked by crc00000 2

2007-12-23 15:45:38 · 23 answers · asked by !!BamBam's Mom!! 3

2007-12-23 15:42:46 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous

i have $1500.00 and a new car and i just broke up with my girl of 6 years !! i feel like i just got to get far away from here !! before i do something nuts !! i spent a few days in agusta georgia last year i like it there but i dont know anyone there!! should i go i dont know !!!!!

2007-12-23 15:37:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

would you like having more than one spouse?

2007-12-23 15:16:58 · 48 answers · asked by Anonymous

Hi all,
Here is my dilema.
I got my first wedding band from my husband, then a few months later he bought me another one he liked. I thanked him and told him, that I will wear the furst one he put on my finger. He said if I want I can melt for something else. Someone told me something about suprstisious about having two wedding rings. Any info what that means and should I melt the second ring or should just keep it?
I woul be very gratefull for all your input.

2007-12-23 15:09:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous

"feminine / wifely" qualities...

1. Virtue - virtue means to be clean and pure.
2. Loyal - a feminine woman is loyal to her husband.
3. Kindness - in word and in action.
4. Submission - "submission" means "to be subordinate to, to yield under to".
5. Reverence - she is in awe of her husband. she respects him with fear.
6. Shamefaced - she has the ability to blush. Her eyes are down cast.
7. Loves her husband there is a fondness in her heart toward her husband. she gives her life for him.
8. Chaste - she is sexually pure. She keeps herself for her husband and only unto him when married. she does not commit adultery.
9. Obedience - she is obedient to her husband. her desire is unto him. he is the head of the family . she allows him to lead.
10. Subjection - she is subject to her own husband.
11. Desire - feminine women have a desire toward their husbands. he is the hidden man of her heart. her desire is unto him.
12. Beauty - inner and outer beauty.

2007-12-23 15:02:38 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous

i admitt. i was in the wrong . i had never cheated on my husband . but i was filled with this other man.s lies and cheated on my now .ex. husband and he divorced me over it. i lay awake at night thinking how stupit and silly i was . my .ex. was always good to me but i just cant forget him . he wont even answer his phone i have called pleading to him just talk to me .he wont you never know how much i miss him but over what i did it was very wrong to. do him like what had happened .he never brought this up in court when we was divorced about the other man at all he just said wish you the best. ibelived the other man telling me he truley loved me what a lie. i fell for that hook .line as well sinker. but to late when i truley trusted him once he got what he wanted he was gone. and he was 10.years younger than me how stupid i was over what i haad lost my. man. family. friends. over it. why cant he my.ex. just say hi. on his phone i miss him deepley. and now see how much i really loved him

2007-12-23 13:43:22 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous