HELP!!!!! I'm 24 years old and I don't know why I'm feeling old and insecure though everyone says I look young

Question

When I was younger my concern was that I am not beautiful enough, but now that I feel beautiful, I feel old. I was married once and I think that makes my feeling even worse! I'm always thinking about it. please help me! Girls my age are having babies and I'm still here without any everlasting relation :( I am muslim and I can't be with anyone I want.

Answer 1

Well let me tell you this, if you are living in America, then you CAN be with anyone you want.

Otherwise, go on and keep letting other people control your life. Better you than me.

Answer 2

Well, you are very young and i'm sure you're beautiful.

I'm not sure what the muslim religion allows, but there might be things you can do to make yourself feel better --

get a hair trim or change your style a bit
buy a new lotion
take a bubble bath with candles in the room
you could buy new face cleaning products and moisturizer to make you feel refreshed.
you could have a facial done at a salon
join a gym (good way to make friends, too)

you might also build confidence by joining a gym. if you would be permitted to take karate this is a very good way to build self-confidence... karate is about self-discipline, and it could come in handy someday, you never know

hon, you aren't the only 24 year old not having babies... perhaps you could ask a friend to go out to lunch once in a while... or a movie.

i think if you are able to get out and participate in a few things, you might meet more people and i'm sure you will eventually meet a nice man

take care.

Answer 3

Being old is just a mind set. You are still very young. Since you now feel beautiful, revel in that. I am 39 and I do not feel old. I do not worry about getting old. The way I look at it is I can either be old or I can be dead, I will take old. You will find your everlasting relation. He is out there, keep looking.