well me and my girl have been going out for a yr and i luv her 2 death and she knows that.. but latetly the past week or so shes been acting strange lately.. well heres the story we both work together but go to different high schools.. ok.. she told me theres this girl at her school that likes her and wants 2 go out with her (my gf friend) ok, my girl told me straight up she wasnt Bi.. ok.. well y is that lately on the day i dont c her i call her and she doesnt answer and when she does we talk for 20-30 mins and then she tells me she'll call me back and she never does.. or y is it that when we work when we get a brake together she calls her friend instead of us talking.. or lately she text so much (and yea with her friend) and also i bought her two necklaces and she dont wear them but she wears a necklace that her friend gave her... and she says she aint Bi?? so basically in a way she dedicates more time 2 her friend that likes her.. so is this a good reason to brake up with her??
2007-12-23 16:28:01 · 5 answers · asked by Eduardo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
also.. she told me that maybe her friend likes her but maybe her friend likes someone else and is lying 2 her?? im like WTF?? y does my gf is her friend is lying or not.. according 2 her she aint bi??? also i blieve her friend thinks shes single.. but not sure.. so i dont know??
2007-12-23 16:30:04 · update #1
Wow, what a situation. She is using you for a beard, meaning she is gay. It's ok, even if she isn't gay, she is extremely curious and she made that mistake by telling you about this girl and her intentions. She was obviously curious about this girl and now it sounds like she is trying it out.
I'd try asking her for the truth. You may not get the entire truth but i have a feeling she will lead you in the right direction.
You have all legitimate reasons to breakup with her without her sexuality being brought up. Let her explore, and you should find someone who is interested in you and your neckalace.
2007-12-23 18:06:41 · answer #1 · answered by ryan w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay if she basically dedicates her time more to her than to you then yea there is a problem and if she cares that the girl might be lieing to her then okay you should really ask her if she is sure that she isnt bi and yes i would break up with her no offence to her or anything.
2007-12-24 00:41:15 · answer #2 · answered by Pink Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your girlfriend doesn't seem that interested anymore. i'm sorry to say
i think the person who can give you the answer is HER... ask her for the truth, because really, you have the RIGHT to move on with your life, instead of being strung along or lied to...
let her know how you feel... and take care...
2007-12-24 00:37:41 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's giving you hints that she doesn't want to be with you anymore. It doesn't mean she is bi. She just doesn't know how to tell you, she's being passive aggressive about it. Dump her!
2007-12-24 00:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by luvly 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would break up with her! that is gross! of course in my case it would be i would break up with him...cause i'm i girl and i dont tolerate same sex anything....but im sure you catch my drift!
2007-12-24 00:38:28 · answer #5 · answered by baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋