How long does it take to fully trust that person again or does it depend?
2007-12-23 17:28:20 · 9 answers · asked by God Bless America!~ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My word! Did someone cheat on you? Or did a friend get cheated on? You asked a lot of qsts on that area.
Of course you can go back to trusting this person. If you love your partner enough you can alwys forgive the mistakes he made. It does cause a lot of confusion, because you keep asking yourself and him questions like,why did he do it, am i not good enough, once a cheater always a cheater?
And those answers depend completely on the situation and the health of the relationship.
2007-12-25 00:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by saskia r 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you eventually trust again but I also think that the fully trust part of it may come back or it may not come back. It depends on how fully committed the cheating partner, fiance, or spouse never to stray like that again and it also takes a helluva of a person to forgive infidelity because it is like a covenant broken, a deep friendship has been ripped open and an air of doubt has entered the mind. Try to trust your instincts and watch for similiar behaviors of the past and see if they have crept in the routine of the cheating individual.
2007-12-23 19:21:19 · answer #2 · answered by Dave aka Spider Monkey 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truly love him and he takes care of you then you better trust him again and forgive him. Why? Because the chances that the next man will cheat on you too are 100% and the next guy might beat you on top of it or do something to your children. Grow up and move on. You just found out that the fairly tale everyone told you about is a lie. Now you have to decide to be happy no matter what for your own sake.
2007-12-24 03:47:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I could never trust the same man again. I really tried, but it was always in the back of mind and it made me sick to think of him with someone else. I eventually had to break up with him, it was just too much. As for your question, I not sure how long, but for me six months was all I could take before it was over. Happy Holidays
2007-12-24 05:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by tarie75 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you find out that they can't be trusted, it's very hard to get that trust back for them. If you are not married to this person, you are very fortunate that you found out now, rather than after the wedding.
2007-12-23 19:54:24 · answer #5 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience I can tell you that although you do eventually start to trust them again you never do completely. The dought is always in the back of you mind
2007-12-23 17:41:14 · answer #6 · answered by love my life 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on their level of remorse, and if they are interested in working on the marriage, u will never forget it, but in time life will return to almost normal if nothing happens to undermine the marriage while the healing process is working.
2007-12-23 21:38:21 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its going to be hard but i think we can do it, it all depends on how much you love him!
2007-12-23 17:48:12 · answer #8 · answered by angel star 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if they cheated on me , never. carney
2007-12-23 20:20:28 · answer #9 · answered by preacher man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋